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2010-08-17T12:42:00.000-07:00

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Peace,

Dawnavette

HAPPY BLACK GIRL DAY!!!!!!!! #BITNB

2010-07-14T08:19:00.000-07:00

Happy Humpday Loves! Take a pause in your day to celebrate the awesometry that is YOU!!! The talented writer that is SistaToldja created "Happy Black Girl Day" several months ago, a Wednesday tribute to honor any and every Black girl (woman), because we're often neglected yet SO worthy!! The irony my first HBGD post falls after a trying Sunday for Black women on television. *le sigh*

VH1's new Sunday night lineup features Chad "Ochocinco"Johnson's "The Ultimate Catch"followed by the "T.O. Show." Neither showcase the glory of Black woman as these "Brothas" search for a "mate"amongst a sea of suspicious mulattos with breast implants and the IQ of raisins (a whole box). I couldn't stomach 10 full minutes as both men seem to suffer from a deep self-hatred, suppressed by fleeting fame, athleticism, and attention. Then there was Boondocks. *Fingers to temple* This week, Grandpa dates the "Perfect Black Woman" yet I found little humor in depicting a successful Black woman as mythological as the unicorn (IMO). Anywho, I was ready to be INSPIRED!!!!

Bitch Is The New Black by Helena Andrews, grants readers a first-hand account of modern city living and of course, dating, through the eyes of a young witty Black woman. A collection of essays pieced perfectly as a memoir, and she's not yet 30. The soon-to-be classic (yea I said it) hooked me instantly because parts were set in DC, and I too am young, smart, and single trying to find my way in the world. The love affair with the book began however, when soaking up her witty writing and introspective accounts of weightier subjects like kidnapping, homosexuality, depression and even abortion, all with brilliant honesty. A voyeuristic journey of 20-sexxxxy growing-pains, and I couldn't put it down! Any and everyone must cop this book ASAPington!!

Last night I attended the "Bitch Is The New Black" book signing/party at the Bella Vie boutique in Atlanta! The fete was sponsored by the Garner Circle, and featured chic clothing, cocktails, and great conversation. Helena Andrews was stunning in person, and a pleasure to meet (LUVed her Nicole Miller dress). It was inspiring to be in a room full of talented and successful women of varied shades of brown, to mingle and celebrate #BITNB. Oh, and there was shopping... :)
Savy entrepreneur Stacy Diltz of Savida Sangria, treated guests to "Bitch Bubbly" and Sangria... both were ah-mazing! My girls and I OFTEN partake in the spirits and will add her bottles (available near you) when celebrating...anything!

Shout Out to alllll the wonderful women we met last night, and thanks again to The Garner Circle PR for hosting such a great event!! Remember your WORTH ladies!! Happy Black Girl Day Indeed!!!

*TOP photo: MinkaKay, Self, Author Helena Andrews, and @lmturk at #BITNB signing at La Bella Vie*

Peace,

Dawnavette

"The Decision": Distracting From Social Justice

2010-07-10T10:19:00.000-07:00

Thursday, July 8,2010 two major decisions were made and covered in the media. "The Decision" as titled by ESPN, was the much-hyped media coverage of NBA megastar LeBron James deciding his career fate as a free agent. James' epic decision to move from the Cleveland Cavaliers to the Miami Heat drew the largest viewing audience in ESPN history ( 7.3% of homes in US watched) Filled-to-the-brim with Vitamin Water advertisements, the hour-long special was an unprecedented display of power, influence, and control in marketing/advertising dollars and the NBA.

Also, Thursday evening, former transit cop Johanes Mehserle was found guilty of involuntary manslaughter for the brutal 2009 murder of Oscar Grant, an unarmed Black man. The incident sparked national attention as Grant was shot lying face-down and cuffed, on a subway platform, in front of millions, and was videotaped* by at least five people. The prosecution was unable to prove the higher charge of voluntary manslaughter, or that Mehserle's fear of Grant was "unreasonable." Instead, the lesser verdict was issued (carrying 2-4 years in prison) sentencing is set for August 6th. Mehserle's excuse was mistaking his .40 caliber handgun for a Taser. Adam Server's essay credits the historic and deep-felt fear of the Black man as cause for the ruling and explanation of prosecution's inability to push for the higher charge. I agree, but feel the fear is completely misplaced. (Surprised no one pulled a "Time To Kill" on that smug racist cop. I kid. Kinda.)

     Young Black men are far too often the victims of (fatal) police brutality, yet the collective American public remains insensitive to the larger issue: Black life is not valued in our society. If an innocent Black man's videotaped murder (still) is not enough evidence for a full murder conviction nor elicit outrage from all races, then I'm at a loss to what must happen to affect our consciousness?!
    Oscar Grant is representative of young Black sons, brothers, fathers, husbands and friends in our communities. The lack of value for his life that fateful night in the subway station at the hands of a BART cop, is the same lack that guided the decision of 12 jurors -8 women, 4 men, none Black- to sentence a murderous cop with a lesser charge.

    The majority of conversation throughout Thursday centered around "The Decision." Not the Grant verdict, but King LeBron James' decision to jump teams. Seriously?? Everyone became a critic with an opinion, James was publicly ridiculed and several fans in Cleveland took to burning his former jersey in the streets. ERRR?!?!  Even majority owner of the Cavaliers Dan Gilbert posted a public letter of dissatisfaction that reads like the bitter slave owner of Kunta Kinte. *Racism just spills out like word vomit sometimes.*

It disgusts me that white citizens from Cleveland, Ohio were more outraged at a Black free agent's decision to head to Miami as opposed to an innocent Black man's murder. Citizens of Oakland protested on Thursday evening too, but the media choose to focus on the few looters and rioters. Careful to associate violence and barbaric behavior with...Black folk.*SIGH* WHATTHEJOEJACKSONHELL?!?!?!

    What is unfortunate is that young Blacks have greater odds becoming casualties, statistics or victims of racially charged violence, as witnessed in Oscar Grant's case, than becoming the next LeBron James. What is ironic is that in spite of having the world's attention on Thursday, the plight of police brutality (Oscar Grant) was never mentioned. I never thought it would, but imagine the impact if our public figures and athletes took grand stances against social injustice?! *Too much like right I know, but the thought made my heart pause with joy.*
In the following weeks, what will you do to fight social injustice? Aside from tweeting and provoking conversation, will you organize, register to vote, work to change laws that hold police accountable for murder? In the least, will you make a "Decision", or an effort to avoid the media's distractions and focus on the truth, OUR daily realities? I will surely keep trying.

Peace,

Dawnavette

**Oscar Grant's MURDER. Not suitable for weak stomachs or anyone with a soul.**

Ultimate Merger Or Ultimate Stereotype??

2010-07-08T06:56:00.000-07:00

Surely you've heard of TVOne's semi-popular new reality TV/dating show titled "Donald Trump Presents: The Ultimate Merger" featuring reality television star Omarosa Manigault Stallworth. Set in Las Vegas, over a dozen men live together and compete in a series exaggerated challenges to win the heart of Omarosa. In spite of having the basic ingredients for debauchery (my fav) on reality TV, popular star, judgemental panel, guaranteed hook-ups, arguments, and clips for E!'s the Soup, there are eerily wrong points about the show that prevent me from watching consistently or becoming a fan.

The Shows Star: Omarosa - This beautiful Black woman popped on the pop culture scene six years ago as the "evil" contestant on Donald Trump's "Apprentice," where she bullied her way to infamy. Playing on the angry Black woman stereotype and voted TVGuide's worst villain ever, she reprised her role over the years on other reality shows while maintaining a relationship with her Svengali, Donald Trump. "Ultimate Merger" finds Omarosa, an accomplished woman in her own right (Howard University Alum) occupying the "Single/Picky Black Woman Looking For A Husband" role made ever-popular by TV programs, bloggers, and the Washington Post. Seemingly perfect timing would pit Omarosa's show with the plot dismissing Black men who can never measure up to a Black woman's needs. All on a "Black" television network. Genius marketing or conspiracy theory tirelessly at work.

"Donald Trump Presents"- Most reality shows (especially on a C-List network like TVOne) require substantial financial backing and sponsorship to secure airtime, so Omarosa has a friend and supporter in owner (oops) producer, Donald Trump. There is something unsettling yet familiar about their perceived relationship that strikes me a bit racist in the least. Perhaps the fact that Omarosa initially auditioned to gain Trump's approval, and on "Ultimate Merger" contestants must be approved by Trump as well. Omarosa appears to capitalize on Trump's blatant attraction to her physical and feminine wilds (Trump LOVES him some Omarosa), occupying her stereotypical role for a payoff. Almost like the chattel slavery relationships of slave master and female slave, or wealthy white man sponsoring the Black female (Bush & Condi even. I kid.). I liken the similarities to the slavery-era popularity of placage.
Also, freeborn light-skinned Black women sometimes became the willing concubines of wealthy White southerners. This system, called placage, involved a formal arrangement for the White suitor/customer to financially support the Black woman and her children in exchange for her long-term sexual services. The White men often met the Black women at "Quadroon Balls," a genteel sex market. -Dr. David Pilgrim, 2002

Now, in no way am I saying that Omarosa and Trump are having sexual relations, nor that she a slave, but I found some of the basic characteristics of their relationship similar to those defined as placage witnessed during the days of old. We've come but so far...

Religious Hypocrisy- A small slant on the dating show is the weekly guidance from Pastor Jamal Bryant from the Empowerment Temple in Baltimore, MD who sits on the panel as Omarosa's "Spiritual Advisor." To her credit, Omarosa is currently enrolled and pursuing her Doctorate in Divinity, and I've read online that she's an avid church-attendee. I understand where the producers were going. However, participating in a reality show that sets the demands for men to superficially court you with the false hope (who ever lasts or goes through with the romance?!) of marriage, seems to send a mixed message. Also, the close-ups of Omarosa's breasts, hot tub scenes, and questions about sexual satisfaction (Can the Brotha put a ring on it?!) seem to contradict Christian teachings, or at least what I thought I knew. I'm just saying...where's the God in that?

Reality shows are aimed to get ratings by any means necessary. The show was picked up for eight episodes, yet I'm doubtful it will get another season. I support a Black woman's hustle, her ability to sustain what most would call a short run, and to consistently brand in spite of naysayers. Omarosa possesses those characteristics and surely has a fan base that doesn't read deeply into the "Ultimate Merger" messaging as I do. Hence, I'm not employed at TvOne.

Peace,

Dawnavette

MEDIA IMAGE: A. KEYS DID THE "UNTHINKABLE!!" (I'll never be "Ready")

2010-06-30T10:29:00.000-07:00

A certified superstar, Alicia Keys has been a commercial success since 2001. Keys is blessed with a stunning physique which has garnered attention from the onset of her career. A gorgeous and talented vocalist/musician, she appeals to women through her empowering lyrics, and men with her evident sex appeal. Nine years later, Keys now has acting, songwriting, production and endorsement credits, but prides herself (and BRAND) on her numerous humanitarian efforts and promoting self-esteem in young women. On paper, she reads like the classic Black female role model, but reality is... her character is WEAK.

The facts are rather simple. Swizz Beatz was married to Mashonda and during the course of their marriage he cheated with A.Keys. Mashonda found out, was woman enough to approach Keys asking her to respectfully step aside (as reported by Mashonda), but Keys did not comply. She and Swizz continued with their public affair.
Sunday night's *EBTAwards Show placed Keys and fiance` Swizz Beatz in the front row with a permanent camera on the "loving couple", and I was shocked! I was floored when she accepted her first award (she won 2) and was extra affectionate in the camera, as most know the story behind the smiles. Then, she performed. TWICE. *le sigh*

I felt the EBTAwards performances were disturbing, because A.Keys was the physical manifestation of hypocrisy, adultery, and tastelessness. Her desire to perform while 5 months pregnant with a (technically still) married man's child, the decision to rock the Dolce Gabana minidress that accentuates her fetus-bump, and finally choosing to jump atop a baby grand piano during the second set (WHYLAWD), all proved Keys lacks class. It was as if her public figure status or celebrity accolades should omit her from judgement or "Maury"guest status, when in fact just the opposite was clear. Parading your baby by a married man is trifling and lacks noble decency. Period. Keys could care less about the mixed messages presented that evening, and had the support of BET to document the entire spectacle. As a Black woman/ fellow sistah, I don't respect her decisions.

To clarify, I see nothing wrong with showcasing the beauty that is a pregnant woman's body and tasteful representations do not offend or disgust me (See Vanity Fair Pic of Demi Moore-1st marriage, 2nd child). I overstand that (most) marriages don't often work out, and that people move on and find new loves. What I refuse to support however is infidelity passed off as "okay" simply because the couple is famous, rich or attractive. Keys' pregnant image is broadcast the world over, and it only takes a few clicks on the Internet to read the back story of her conception. Keys, who penned and profited of such female anthems as, "A Woman's Worth," "Unbreakable," "Superwoman," and "Karma."As a people, we continue to promote what is indecent, and ridicule what is righteous.

This is further evidenced by the many supporters of Keys' affair and demonization of Mashonda, a wife with a cheating husband that left her. Mashonda is the victim in the situation. If a man cheats on his wife, then commits to leave the marriage for the affair all before the divorce settlement smoke clears, he's not a real man. Sowwwy. Marriage in general is not valued as it once was, but that does not negate that two people were legally joined and a third party aided the dissolve. The media, or EBT rather, would have us all believe that Keys & Swizz Beatz are the new hip-hop power couple. #WHATTHEJOEJACKSONHELL??

Women in general should bond together in an effort of solidarity, to support one another in a world clearly controlled by men. Black females in particular need that sisterhood in order to deal with the daily tribulations and cultural struggles indicative to our communities, relationships, jobs and careers. Everyone (even Keys) knows sisterhood is severed if a married man does not deter you from pursuing a relationship. Only a general lack of respect for one another would allow the celebration of that which is indecent in our community and culture. This sad mentality is popular, folks are quick to critique the Black wife (Mashonda) for not "keeping her man." Few people mention the disrespect shown by Keys on Sunday night. I wish them all the best, but do not believe or support A. Keys' music, "empowerment" message, or relationship. I am my sistah's keeper.

Peace,

Dawnavette

*EBT AWARDS= BET Awards. EBT (Food Stamps) HERscarical slant on the bootlegged representations of US on BET *

**James Hannah-comedian- has a hilarious rant in support of my thoughts. Friend him on Crackbook**

Not Bad At All... Not At ALL: BET AWARDS 2010

2010-06-28T08:33:00.000-07:00

         It's that time again, when everyone in Black America huddles around their flat screen, Internet, and Twitter accounts to discuss the performances, hits and misses of BET's Annual Coon Awards! This year, Twitter maven @Freshalina dubbed the event the #EBTAwards. So, per usual I've wrapped up the may-jah highlights in my annual wrap-up!
KEY POINTS:
Kanye West's Show Opener- Kanyizzle opened with his new single "Power", and rapped the whole set atop a mountain with a staff, 80's chain ( 10 times the opulence & size) around his neck, and a moving background.  A DOPE throwback to real MCing, I was thrilled Ye silenced all haters!
Queen Latifah Failing As Host-*Deep Sigh* Now, Queen may be talented in acting and singing (no comment, as I remain underwhelmed) but hosting is not her forte. Viewers had to suffer through her awkward readings of the teleprompter, a musical opening that lasted way too long, and too many irrelevant/incoherent costume changes throughout the night, I really wanted to scream, "LA! Sit your ARSE DOWN!!"
Diddy's Dirty Money Crew- A surprisingly energizing performance!!! That is, if you could see anything through the excessive smoke... *cough* Yea. Ya boi Diddy went too far demanding smoke and pyrotechnics, so the audience had audio & thick fog for half the performance. Ricky Rawse, draped in all 50 chains owned in life, a too small Hanes that showcased his breasts, and of course a large jacket, lip-synced his verse on the remix. Nikki Minaj came out in a vinyl cat suit and lip-synched her verse (lookin like one of the daum Incredibles). Seemed like Bad Boy circa 1994 was onstage for a min.with all the dancers and the Dirty Money Trannies looking like Total 2.0. Well done Diddy! Held my attention...
Chris "BeatHerDown" Brown's Michael Jackson Tribute- With an intro from Jermaine "Crazy Hair" Jackson that omitted Chris' name ("Here "HE" is...") Breezy shut EVERYONE UP with one set!!!! His dancing-flawless, song selctions-perfect, and when he closed with "Man In The Mirror", he was so overcome with emotion that he had a breakdown. In front. of MILLIONS!!! GENIUS!!!! Now staged or otherwise, it was BRILLIANT PR that solidified who the most talented is right now, and inspite of personal feelings... it's BREEZY!!! I'm no longer a cynic, and am on the bandwagon that is C.Breezy's comeback. Surely his career is on FI-YAH this morning. Oh, and I predict this is the last year of Trey Songz' mediocre run as Breezy will eclipse Trey's crossover attempt. Yea. I said it.
The Prince Tribute- Um... well, it was for Prince! Janelle Monet opened the set with "Let's Go Crazy" and it was CLASSIC Janelle mixed w. James Brown!!! She danced wildly all over the stage, pompadour-a-flying, screeched her heart out and almost split her lil' tuxedo pants!! LOVED it! Jazz singer Esporanza Spaulding followed, singing, "If I Was Your Girlfriend", but she and her standing bass about put me to sleep. Surely she's better in different venues, but honeychile this was NOT your night. Sowwy. A Keys, dirtying the name of pregnant women everywhere, had the nerve to play "Adore" on the Baby Grand barefoot, then writhe her big @$$ on top of the piano to further gyrate?! Even PRINCE gave her the, "Bish, if your water breaks on MY account," look that should've slowed her down. Oh no. She kept slanging her hair and pumping her belly. She lost all my respect last night. Patti Patti closed the set kicking off her Loubitons (Prince caught one) taking everyone home with "Purple Rain." Prince  accepted his award clad in a tunic with his face painted in Crayola watercolors (whatthehellman?!), white bell bottoms, and 5-inch white boots. He's still the most beautiful being in the whole theatre. He did not perform, which was the crushing letdown of the night. I assume he's too good for EBT, and I honestly can't blame him...
John Legend's Humanitarian Speech- Most may have overlooked, but Legend, in spite of his elusive hairline, gave one of the most impactful speeches. Ever. Essentially, he said Black celebrities aren't' doing nearly enough in the US or abroad,and that we all should focus on education reform and empowering our communities. I'm looking for the full transcript to post, but it was BEASTLY. TRUST. KU-DOS John!!! (See someone about that hairline please sir, thanks!)
Other Perfomances:
*Ursher's "There Goes My Baby" -smooth yet he had trouble hitting his falsetto
*T.I.'s "Takers" (Motion picture theme song) amped comeback performance featuring Travis Barker on drums. His first time back and the crowd went crazy.
*Drizzle's "Over" featuring a surprise appearance from Jeezy to remix to "Loose My Mind." A great performance that was articulate and fresh! Both artists looked clean in their too-tight jackets.
*BOB rapped "Airplanes" featuring Keyshia Cole- screeching the hook clad in a blond, arse-length mullet.
*El Debarge (MY FAVORITE) *SWOON*- Randomly appeared behind a piano and slayed the house w. a medley of some of his memorable hits. He sounded. The. Exact. Same. DAUM.
* Kirk Franklin's "Haiti Song"- included gospel greats like Karen Sheard and Yolanda "Christian Home wrecker" Adams. Nice job!
*A Keys' solo Performance (and double win) where she sounded great but looked a pregnant fool. I refuse to endorse her rubbing her belly, gyrating across the stage in an attempt to look "sexx-sy". Save it for Swizz, cause aintnobodywannaseethatish. Tacky. In. The. Least.
*Trey Songz "Your Side Of the Bed/ Purple Rain" ERR?? Worst performance of the night. Hands down. Trey sounded like a nervous goat, wasn't entertaining simply standing onstage, and once he tried Purple Rain, Prince shot him the deathly *Side eye* verifying he was stinkin up the stage.
*DJ Khaled "All I Do Is Win"- Closed the night with Busta (overweight & happy to be seen), Ludacris (with violinists & a phantom mask), Diddy (of course), Rawse (One more time for ALL his jewels), and a chunky yet energetic T-Pain. Oh, and Tommy Lee was on drums adding to the spectacle.
                     ***A Full Link to ALL PERFORMANCES (NecoleBitchie.com) ***
Random Mentions:
*Trey Songz' Mama-proving Black don't crack, looking like a 25 year old stealing all the buzz from other red carpet heaux, and almost having a "Janet" wardrobe malfunction when onstage w. Trey.
*Beyaki & GAGA not showing to accept their award for video of the year-*yawn* Clearly they're TOO international for the #EBTAwards.
*Rocsi- Just when I thought she could look no worse or smuttier... she trumped my hand last night. There are no words.
*Queen Latifah's homosexual references-From dressing as "Cleo" during the AKward T.I. sketch (anyone catch how TIP mispronounced her name?!) to the random rap where I swear she alluded to her being gay... I swear La was trying to tell us something.
*WHY did they place J Cole to play before the commercials?!?! That brotha was ROBBED!!!! Too fine and talented for BET to play him. ugh.
*Nikki Manaj's fashion choices & Firefox wig. *Fingers to temple* I can't.
*#WHATTHEJOEJACKSONHELL did Deborah Lee have ON?!?! EVERY YEAR this broad embarrasses a PEOPLE with her RIDICULOUS fashion choices?!? She has no friends, no stylists, and everyone must hate her as witnessed in her appearance. I can't.
      This year's show was chalk-full of decent performances , so much so that I can barely remember who won what (it matters not). Bottom line: several stars had GREAT comeback performances, Chris Brown is BACK, and BET did not totally shame us! In fact, minus a few suspect performances and poor selection of hosts (I won't even START on how embarrassingly drunk everyone appeared at the "After Party"), I'd rate this show a 7.5 out of 10. I'd watch pieces again, and was glad I tuned in last night. Hell, I tune in every year just to critique the debauchery that's the EBT oops! BET Awards.

Peace,

Dawnavette

When A Policeman Punches Young Sapphire-Who Do We Call??

2010-06-16T12:30:00.000-07:00

      A Seattle police officer (white) was videotiaped punching a young woman (17-years old) in the face post resisting arrest. Allegedly the officer was in the midst of detaining J Walkers, when the two young Black women were seen J Walking on the exact same intersection. In Seattle Washington, J Walking is deemed a serious offense (#WhattheJoeJackSonHELL) so the officer was performing within his job role when he asked the women to come to his vehicle. When he tries to reprimand them, the ladies curse him out and one tries to walk away. The officer then tries to physically detain them and one young lady pushes the officer. Clearly the officer becomess immediately frustrated and after wrestling with the ladies for a few seconds he punches one in the face. *PAUSE*
       The ladies' behavior is rather shocking, as we live in a country where the first offense is simply being Black and teach our children how to "interact" with crazed racist cops on a regular basis. Striking an officer was a bold move that did not end well-as evidenced in the videotape. Granted, the two women were provoking the officer, one arguably violent when she pushed the officer, but were there no other options to gain order? The officer doesn't think twice- he is immediately reactive and punches a minor in the face. Why was that his first reaction?
       Had the two young women been white, I don't believe this instance would have ever happened. I imagine the officer would've politely walked over and presented the ladies with a warning as their safety is ultimately at risk when J Walking. The fact that these two women were Black, and *le sigh* unfortunately acting in the stereotypical *aggressive Black girl manor, will only give the officer more validity to justify his actions when investigated...for he felt "threatened." Ah yes, the standby excuse most culturally-limited white people use whenever a Black person becomes "loud", or resists (even if legal and controlled) the status quo as deemed by white society. WE are always the provokers and what happens to US, usually at the hands of law enforcement, is our own consequence.
     Unfortunately, I don't subscribe to that bullocks rhetoric as I feel passionately that law enforcement, above all else should seek to protect the people and not act solely on the defense treating minorities like animals. WHERE are the sensitivity training and cultural diversity courses for officers? Where were his attempts to verbally subdue a minor? This instance was in no way complete police brutality, or worthy of NAACP coverage. However, I found it worthy of discussion if only to consider the images we present in public, how they will quickly react and of course...how to properly conduct oneself in the presence of a... (high school graduate that probably wasn't socially accepted now armed with a gun, tazor, billy club & racist thoughts) police officer.
Marinate on it for a min...

**Sapphire-the stereotype designated for aggresive, opinionated, and vocal Black women. If unfamiliar, research, wait for a post, or read my forthcoming book...:) -Nice plug!-**

Peace,

Dawnavette

BLACK WOMEN:SLIM THUG WANTS YOU TO KNOW...!!!!!!!! (I cant.)

2010-06-09T13:28:00.000-07:00

   In what I would deem poor judgement on the creative and editing floor followed by lazy and underwhelming journalism, Vibe.com started a mini wildfire when they posted this "article" by Houston rapper Slim Thug. Several disturbing factors passed off as Slim's opinion throughout the write-up made me pause. I was so ticked... I decided to blog about it. *Fingers to the temple & deeeep sigh*

1. WHEN did SLIM THUGG become a relationship expert credible to critique Black relationships?!
#WhattheJoeJacksonhell?!?! His most publicized relationship was with (ex-Destiny's Child member/ Beyaki nemesis) Letoya Luckett, and that allegedly ended because he cheated and procreated with his cousin. He has never been married, is not on-record as having any said degree in psychology or human behavior... I don't even think he's had a relevant hit single since 2005. So, I'm lost as to why he was even chosen as the latest gimp in the "BW Need To Do Better, Aim Lower To Get A Man v. 2010" debate.
2. Discussing all Black women in such general negative terms is a clear sign of self hatred. Seriously. Slim, your mother, sister, cousins, hell, even one of your baby's mother's is a Black woman. The rest of the world often struggles to decipher differences amongst Brown women as the media tends to lump us together. Slim describing Black women as gold-diggers with high standards that fail to silently submit to idiot demands of rappers (named "Slim Thug" that still rock cornrows past the age of 35 even in 2010?!?) in no circle would pass as an accurate depiction of US. *Pause* Apologies, "SimThugga" was not nearly that eloquent when attempting to describe his opinion. His chosen buffoonery:
"It’s hard to trust a Black woman [sometimes] because a lot of Black women’s mind frame is that the man gotta do everything for her⎯ he gotta pay for this, he gotta pay for that, and if it ain’t about money then a lot of them ain’t fucking with him. If that’s what you’re here for then I don’t want to be with you."

3. Yet another Black man (or anyone for that matter) insists on telling Black women our standards are too high.
   "Most single Black women feel like they don’t want to settle for less. Their standards are too high right now. They have to understand that successful Black men are kind of extinct. We’re important. It’s hard to find us so Black women have to bow down and let it be known that they gotta start working hard; they gotta start cooking and being down for they man more."
Excuse me sir. WHY would you advise any woman, much less the strong BLACK WOMAN to settle for less?!?! It is this lazy mentality that really enraged me for clearly he does not recognize the daily struggles, accomplishments, achievements and even tribulations that comprise life- nor any reverence for the graceful way we excel at every. Aspect. Of. Life. We raise the babies in the single parent homes, educate the community as public school systems are on the decline, obtain multiple degrees and thrive in our respective careers, all in a society that has devalued while benefiting from our feminine power for centuries. The Black woman is the most "down", and it often is to our detriment as many Black men aren't mature enough to reciprocate on spiritual, emotional, and financial levels. Marinate on that for a min.
4. Slim had the audacity to compare Black women with "others" namely, white women as he prefers their docile nature over our hard-work (in his opinion). "White women treat they man like a king and Black women feel like they ain’t gotta do that shit. Black women need to stand by their man more. Don’t always put the pressure of if I’m fucking with you, you gotta buy me this and that."
*le sigh*. Really Slim?? Really?? If that is your limited and emasculating experience with white women, that actually sheds a crack of light. No real man would want a woman who was not equally yoked as it would eclipse the totality of what he could become! If you hate on the progressive Black woman, you're hindering yourself. *Message!*
    His ignorance is reverbed by young men with limited thinking and that is the real impact hence root of frustration. As Vibe.com lent Slim this opportunity, impressionable people can take from it and attempt to validate their ridiculous opinions with this piss poor article. I am more than comfortable with the fact that I, nor any woman I hope to ever call sistah (no matter her race) would NOT be the woman fit for Slimm Thug. I hope he finds this senseless concubine with no self-worth as he described he desired. That way, he could sit his arse down, remain irrelevant and prayerfully, *Smokey from Friday voice* never. Ever ever ever. Ever ever EVER consent to an interview about Black woman for the rest of his life. Now... will all my REAL men, please stand up??

Peace,

Dawnavette

HEAUX-DOM DOES NOT EQUATE TO VIOLENT ATTACKS

2010-06-03T05:34:00.000-07:00

KAT STACKS CAN'T CATCH A BREAK-"Kat Stacks" was videotaped last week getting punched in the face and ridiculed by two-men at a lounge off Peters St. in Atlanta, GA. I really wasn't going to comment on the foolery. But with all the Twitter commentary (still), and her resurfacing the other night (June 1-FreddyO.com) in AtL, I just couldn't resist. Allegedly folks in Atlanta have issue with her walking the street, buying drinks, and well, living. So, for those Amish folk that may have missed it, a quick background of what happened.
        *Kat Stacks is an under-21 year old female who is known for having sex with several C/D-list rappers, then creating an illiterate blog and disturbing viral video where she "exposes" her trysts to whomever can stomach her entire bootleged "Heaux Confessions." When she first appeared I was intrigued if only for a second, because I have a deep affinity for women of color who perpetuate all modern aspects of the "Jezebel" script-one of four (4) traditional media images relegated to depict Black females since chattel slavery. Modern aspects and examples vary from stripping, and prostitution to the "hottest" female rapper and video chicks. However...Superhead...Kat. is. not.

      The basic elements of last week's attack are simple. Two men approached Kat Stacks while seated and minding her business at the bar. One man is video recording the entire process, they both call her to turn around, and the other sucker punches her in the face. Once Kat hits the floor, another mush to the face is given while they further taunt and disrespect her. The most memorable and incriminating line now repeated across the 'Net is, "Say sorry! Say Sorry to Shad! Say 'SORRY BOW WOW!'"
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!WHATTHEJOEJACKSONHEL?!?!?!?!?!?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
       Kat Stacks is a female-no matter her moral character, sexual history, partners, often questionable appearance or limited vocabulary. She is a WOMAN. Her attackers in the video were men, well, immature boys, weigh more and have penises. Hitting females is wrong. That is how it will always be judged in my book because men have a physical advantage and were designed to protect. Period. A real man walks away, takes the high road, files a lawsuit or Son's you (you know, the verbal smack down only a strong man can give that makes you think, "well daum! Yessir!"). The display in the video is appalling. The men (or at least one) must have been really close with Shad because tracking down a female (an admitted Heaux for that matter) in public to administer a "smack-down" based on what she said about your "man" BowWow is borderline crime of passion/ homoerotic territory. Seriously. I don't know any of my strait male friends that would care that much about a woman's sexcapades with their friend to entertain bar-smacking fcukery.
          Since the tapes release last week, I have yet to hear about any charges being brought against the two attackers, but I have seen horrible jokes about Kat deserving what she got, or listened to other women tear Kat down worse than the men. Which perplexes me as it speaks to a larger issue of giving sympathy passes and paying more attention when domestic violence happens to pop culture's beautiful "Virginal" or "good"sexual scripts but could care less when the "Jezebel" or females with "bad" sexual imaging are abused. A decent example would be how the public rallied around Princess RiRi during her attack (granted, Chris beat-her-down went HAM and was convicted) but Kat Stacks' attack was filmed in public and not a naan onlooker cried out in protest, ran to assist the woman or ridiculed the men for their ridiculous behavior. That is not right to me. At all. The only reason every one's is upset with Kat that I can validate is that she choose to be promiscuous then spoke her truth on that tacky viral video. (Still not sure about this daum Kat Stacks Confessional. Kid Fury broke. It. Down.) It's clear that Kat Stacks needs serious professional help, and to publicly beat on her seems cruel and inhumane. Even taunting her when she returned to Atlanta this week is too immature for further commentary. What do you think? Consider if the female involved wasn't an attention seeker, but just a highly sexual female with a big mouth. Like a young high school student. Still think this behavior is hilarious??? I think if you stopped laughing to consider the ramifications, that maybe the next time some young women you know could be the next victim of such barbaric, cowardly, bitch-arse behavior, jokes would stop, and charges would be pressed.

Peace,

Dawnavette

Sex And The City: A LIFESTYLE!! Why I'm Hopelessly Devoted

2010-05-28T02:01:00.000-07:00

Charlotte, Carrie, Samantha, Miranda *Photo courtesy of Warner Bros. / LA Times

It's the weekend when women everywhere storm movie theatres to catch the much anticipated SEX AND THE CITY 2!!!!!! I decided to list why I'm so devoted, as well as further encourage you to see the film of the summer.

WHY I ADORE SATC-
      My love for the show began during season one, when an immediate connection was formed. I was a 17 year-old Junior in High School living in lil' ol' Chester, VA and probably the farthest example from the show's main character, Carrie Bradshaw. Carrie Bradshaw. The writer in Manhattan, NY living the fashionable, chic, fast-paced, date-filled, sexually-charged life whilst in her 30's. Soon after my affair began, I got my Ma, friends, and sistah/family members hooked weekly to HBO, living vicariously through the ever-fabulous Carrie and her four amazing friends.
      It wasn't just the excellent writing- a feat that has yet to be duplicated on any television sitcom for that matter IMO- witty and powerful, forcing me to quote dialogue from ALL episodes recorded. It wasn't just the fashion- the first of its kind to delve completely into the worlds of couture, urban fashion, and affordable retail, making designers household names and blending all fashion and style elements effortlessly. Such was the genius of Patricia Field, who excelled at her job so (costume designer/creative muse) the fashion was considered he 6th cast member! It wasn't just the fact that every episode, movie, book and aspect of the brand spoke to the valued importance of sisterhood and maintaining friendships in spite of life's obstacles. A recurring theme in popular culture, the strong message in the 80's during the "Golden Girls" era of television sitcoms was perfected during the 2000's by "Sex And The City."
       Women around the world no matter their color or cultural difference can relate to this major theme as errrrrrryone has life and male issues but if you are truly blessed have a girlfriend or two you can share triumphs, tragedy, gain support from and be supportive of. No, I don't think that it is any one of these four major points but the myriad of them all each having more relevance at whatever stage of my life or crazy experience I deal with in my twenty-sexxxy reality. Throughout Undergrad, popping in SATC DVDs and bonding with my girls on Sunday nights, strengthened some of the best friendships I still maintain to this day. When irritated by a man (how often does THAT happen) I can pop in my SATC and the ladies' experiences make me die with laughter at the similarities, parallels and even unimaginable comedy that is dating.
BEAT THE MASSES TO THE PUNCH-
      I was fortunate to catch a Tuesday evening screening of the film at Phipps Plaza, as well as a Wednesday night screening at Atlantic Station. That's right. I've already seen it twice (gloat!)! Tuesday night was jammed packed, but well worth the wait as I enjoyed every second! Wednesday was especially cute as it was hosted by Necole Bitchie and Kenny Burns, not especially crowded and had the ever-present ATL photo opt. Atlanta celebrities including Project Runway's Michael Knight, RHOAtlanta's/ Purple Door Salon's Dwight, and The GlamBar Salon ladies were in the house.

WHY I ADORED THE MOVIE *NO SPOILER*

In the first film, the four year lapse since the ladies left HBO, the outtacontrol fashion, and Carrie & Big starting their "happily ever after,"were basic yet major points that made for a fluffy, feel-good run. If you swooned over the 1st, you will DIE as the sequel excellently revisits aspects of Carrie's past while exploring the honest complexities of being "newly married." Hell. Married period. Critics of the first film will truly appreciate the second for the realistic ending, better cinematography, and the blatant maturity of all four characters. There was backlash this week against SATC2 for the portrayal of Arabic culture and women in general in the Middle East. While I must do more research on the customs and traditions in Abu Dhabi and in the Middle East in general (no spoiler-plot line deals with Samantha's sexuality being offensive. Shocker.) It even sets the stage for a third film, though there are murmurs that Kim Cattral (Samantha) refuses to play the role ever again. Even if they stop at the sequel, it was a perfect, fun-filled ending to the iconic television/movie/brand.
*** I KNOW you will check out the film, so PLEASE comment on your thoughts as I would love to discuss!!! I plan to post a detailed review on Sunday night but didn't want to spoil it for everyone until then! Also, if you're as large of a fan as I, pick up a copy of The Carrie Diaries by Candace Bushnell (Sex And The City creator/authoress).
It's Carrie's coming-of-age tale as she navigates senior year of High School. TOO CUTE!! Copped it!! With that, enjoy the SATC2 movie weekend, enjoy your sistah girlfriends, and drink (responsibly) plenty of cosmopolitans in honor of my FAVORITE series!!!***

Peace,

Dawnavette

Venus' T&A Takes Over Tennis Tournament-Not The Best Look!!

2010-05-24T16:05:00.000-07:00

             Venus Williams, tennis phenom, businesswoman, and spokesperson, shocked fans, critics and well... everyone, when she played in Sunday's tournament in this revealing outfit at the French Open. *Raises fingers to the temple* Now. I'm all about making a fashion statement, even the most avantgarde of dress has its place and my support. Venus claims that she was trying to "distract" her opponent Patty Schnider (mission accomplished). Venus won 6-3,6-3 in the first round. However. I have (2) issues with the crimes of fashion committed here.
    The first is that Venus designed this tacky, ill-flattering, material-mishmash! She proudly takes responsibility for the design, fit, and even (especially, sadly) the flesh-toned sport shorts beneath. Chile, the idea to create a lace tennis dress is a cheesy aim at overt sexuality and attention. Seriously?? Average female tennis players, Buffy in the Hamptons per example, likely do not wish to be sexy sporty, skillful, and sweaty and definitely don't want to mix lace with athletic fibers while on the court.
    The second reason I've issues with Venus' choice of tournament wear is because it is grossly inappropriate?!?! She is the second-greatest tennis champion in the world! Do any of her professional colleges dress like that? No?? So we can asses that her skanky skirt all was not the daum norm. WHY on earth would she want to be immediately viewed in a sexual light, her talent forced to take a backseat-if only for a moment- as she is judged by her gratuitous clothing?? Is it not enough to be a global brand for athletic excellence, have countless honors and awards, hold records and continue your reign as the best in your field? No, she prefers to cling to the stereotype of "Jezebel", opting to sell aspects of her sexuality in what would seem a desperate manor.
     Being more conscientious of non-offensive fashion choices for tournaments, would serve her clothing business better in the long run as more could relate to her as a global brand...but that would be too much like right. If more women were comfortable in their awesome feminine power, there wouldn't be so many examples (Venus) of falling back on the tried-and-true imaging constructs (sexual deviant, Jezebel, "Temptress", etc.) Less aiming to appeal to the sexual approvals ofmen and more confidence being our awesome-selvs without a sexual stigma.

Peace,

Dawnvette

If You Missed Grey's-You Missed LIFE, NEW HAZIQ VIDEO!!!

2010-05-21T14:39:00.000-07:00

GREY'S ANATOMY-THE BEST SCRIPTED SHOW ON TELEVISION-

Last night the entire WORLD was watching abc's Grey's Anatomy for the season 6 Season Finale 2-hour episode. I'm not forming my opinion just because I'm a HUGE Grey's fan (Shonda is my writing ICON)... but this was the best. episode. EVER!!!! It had everything including drama, violence, and love, but kept the audience on the edge-of-their seats the entire time!!!! The writing-excellent. The acting-Emmy Award winning. There were about 10 different plots that all worked together brilliantly! None of my favorite characters died, but there were a few surprising turns from new characters that I cant' wait to see more of next season!! I can't rave enough!!!!!!!

(Cutie to the right is my Dream man-seriously- Actor Jesse Williams *Pause to catch my breath* out of his scrubs)

**Senior blogger John Kubicek from Buddy.tv pointed out (excellently) at least 10 major points as to why last night was the BEST ever, but here are my top 4:

1. Meredth Loves the Chief-from the excitement then loss over her pregnancy, quietly yet painfully watching her man take a bullet, knocking out BFF Yang to save her man, and operating on her nemisis while her man is being saved... Meredith proved finally that she is hopelessly devoted to her husband Dr. Shepard. LOVED it.
2. Operating Room/Shooter Scene- When Owen smoothly transitioned into the OR where the audience sees Yang operating at gunpoint- I know the whole nation was like ERR?!?! WhattheJOEJACKSONHELL did we miss?!?! But alas... that was just EXCELLENT writing!!
3. April the Intern-from her stumbling over her best friend's bloody body in the first 20 min. to her Emmy-award worthy freak-outs, stammers, and shock moments... she just became a new favorite character of mine last night. Awesome job!!
4. Baleigh's Breakdowns- Baleigh's line, "WHAT is that in my eye?! There's water in my eye?!?" as she's operating under the worst conditions and begins to break down... was the best. I teared up. It set the tone for the entire episode... life's hard, but you have to keep operating in spite of the tears!

Thankfully everyone that I wanted to survive did... and well... let me know what you think of the episode- Watch the FULL SEASON FINALE Here and your thoughts for next season.

NEW VIDEO: Artist HazIQ

-Artist (with real messaging & intelligent presentation) HaZiQ debuted his first video-soon to air on MTV2- from his debut project. The video combines two of his singles, "Freedom" then seques to "Hussla" and the release party/showcase held at SLICE in Atlanta on Wednesday night, was a HUGE success!!!! Standing room only! Check out the video, support the movement of good music. For more HaziQ check his blogspot.

With that, I'm going to enjoy this Friday rain!

Peace,

Dawnavette

Sex Sells & Pays Well If You're A White Female & On Tape...

2010-05-20T17:14:00.000-07:00

*Blogging. Consistantly... this is a concept that is lost with yours truly though I really wish I could be GREAT!! The last week since my birthday I was reaching out for aid to revamp the site (Dawnavette.com) and I blogged not a letter?!?! *GASP* The two readers I had have probably put me down in exile... but I swear I want to be a better writer... so I will press on, in spite of my diminished audience and inconsistant blogging past. (PAST people!!)* Anywho: Let's GET IT!!!

Kendra "Suffering" a la Kim Kardashian Sex Tape

The hot tea today was that E!'s girl (yours & mine too) Kendra Wilkinson will get a cut of the profits from the release of her much publicized and soon-to-be-released sex tape. That's right. The same sex tape that Kendra publicly argued against the release of for several weeks... as now she is a "wife" & "mother". *le sigh* No longer longer a Playmate, Kendra Wilkinson's celebrity began whilst she dated Hugh Hefner and starred as one of his (3) "Girls Next Door" on the wildly popular hit-E! Network reality show. Fast Forward several seasons, a marraige to NFL-er Hank Basket, another E! reality show and a new baby; single-sex tape Kendra is not the same woman. Allgedly her ex boyfriend Justin Frye (who was promoting the tapes release) legally sold the tape(s) for $100,000.00. Kendra negotiated her payment and will receive up to half of the profits from tape distribution. That equates to millions of dollars as the owner of Vivid Video Steven Hirsch (Same company responsible for such sex tape/smut hits as Pamela Anderson, Kim Kardashian & Mindy McCreey) says Kendra's tape will be one of the best-selling of all time. WOW Craig. WOW.
Poor Hank and Hank Jr. At least the family will be paid, which is a great distraction from shame and moral embarassment. I love Kendra's bubbly personality and the fact that she LUVS Black culture (or at least her commercial interpretation of our culture) and the fact she's BFF with (willing to P-Pop in public for) Too-Short. This story gets a WhattheJoeJacksonHell because there are countless whiteheaux that have catapulted their sexcapades (on film) into multi-million dollar empires... but I draw a blank at one Black woman?!?! Seriously: if a Black female crosses into sex tape category, she's labeld a "Ho" and considered as valuable as throwback Jerseys from '98-'02. Not even Supahead has had the branding sucess of Queen Kim Kardashian (almost insulting comparrison) It seems that Black female sexploitation doesn't sell as white female sexploits do, and that... is the real head scratcher.

Peace,

Dawnavette

GO, GO SHAWTY-IT'S MY BIRTHDAY!! 4 Points of Twenty-Sexxxy

2010-05-12T05:17:00.000-07:00

Every year, if blessed to make it one mo' gin, individuals grow excited to celebrate (our ) birthdays!! The one day of the year others are forced to acknowledge your older age, give gifts (optional), but generally everyone supports the day, designated as "yours" for birthday shenanigans. Today is my day!! I'm blessed to turn another twenty-sexxxy (yea RIGHT I'll tell you how quickly I'm decaying) and I'm playing it rather low key. No trips, mega-parties or...well...some of you know it can go DOWN. I'm reflecting and trying to "get my life together" at the moment. In the last year or so I've been struggling to understand and navigate the many pitfalls and life lessons they call "your twenties". More shocking shenanigans than world-domination, there are four initiatives aimed to improve the quality of life I wish to try starting...today. Who's coming with me??

1. "30 Before 30"
Under the influence and example of my bestie Claytus* I created a master list of things I wish to accomplish, places I want to travel, and experiences I wish to have before I turn the big 3-0!! What are the many things you wish to tackle before a major milestone in your life?? See your vision, write it down, make it plain! Now's the time...

2. "Call Me Yogi The Bear"

When I was in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico w. Dr. DD* last month, we met a man who read our palms. Now, he was prolly just a drunken old man in love with some chocolate American young ladies, but he swore I'd live a long time, have poor luck with men (he advised I shouldn't be bothered with searching the man will find ME), and in the meantime should focus on ruling the world... and yoga. ERR?? Funny thing is...I LOVE YOGA!!! I wish I was more disciplined and skilled. Now opposed to wishing, I'm getting more active. We'll see the results of my yoga dedication if I look 25 at 30. #Hmmmmm

3. "Finding MY Secret"

The major lessons I've tried to master in the last few years are patience, gratitude, and purpose. Clearly I've not the fame nor career success I've envisioned I would at this stage in life, but I have so much to be thankful for nonetheless. I tend to rush, covet other lifestyles or demand the blessings of others when I've no clue as to what they have to do to secure that blessing. Wrong. I should graciously appreciate all life has to show, even during the "slow" points. I've yet to master "Staying in MY lane". Two of my FAV LS's* suggested I get familiar with "The Secret", and use the principals to grant me peace. If I watch VH1-I can try the methods of "The Secret".

4. "Reading Is Essential To My Soul"
I used to be a voracious reader-knocking out 3-4 books a week! I dunno what happened, turning 21, college or reality TV (I blame all), I have dramatically slowed down. The last period I would devour books was Graduate school, and as I know most words to simple commercial rap songs on the radio, the LEAST I could do is devote more energy into expanding my mind with quality literature! A lady can't take over the world if she's uneducated (wink)! SO: I've resolved to cut back on the #WhattheJoeJacksonHell Television programming and read more! I'm even starting a book cipher on this site, right at this moment Craig!! Every moth (30 days) a book will be selected for reading and discussion, just like a normal book club. We can meet in Atlanta, but extend the discussion to the site or Twitter-still must iron out the details. The first book selected, is "If It Takes A Village, Build One" by Malaak Compton-Rock. All about service, ways to identify how you wish to serve and an interactive service guide, what a nice way to begin the Book cipher (a self gratifying hobby) by learning more about helping others. Malaak's example and work through her organizations inspire me and I hope it does the same for others.
*Please feel free to offer up additional names for the Book cipher, and books to read for the month. It's no fun when the homies can't have none! I can't wait to have discussion!!

So, in closing, remember to be thankful everyday, no matter how bad it seems. Trust. I know bad. But you don't have to be here, everyday is a blessing, and some one's hurting worse than you. There's always tomorrow to try and be better, do better, and get it right!! Love ya'll, and stay blessed!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

RIP Legendary Lena: Please Refer To The Instruction Manual

2010-05-11T17:19:00.000-07:00

"You have to be taught to be second class. You're not born that way." -Lena Horne 1918-2010

    The world was shocked and saddened to learn that the legendary Lena Horne passed away at the glorious age of 92. Known as the first Black woman to secure a major motion-picture contract, Horne was the blueprint for other Black Hollywood starlets.World-renowned not only for her astounding beauty but her television and Broadway credits as well.

     Lena made history by demanding that she would never play the role of "maid", and was first to be featured in movie advertisements alongside A-list white stars. She always appeared reserved, and full of grace in both her on and off-screen persona, as she realized the responsibility and impact of her media image across the globe. She was often met with opposition and when her movies ran in the South her scenes were often cut out as not to offend white viewers.
      "Mississippi wanted its movies without me," she told the New York Times in 1957. "So no one bothered to put me in a movie where I talked to anybody, where some thread of the story might be broken if I were cut." Notoriously taking hits to her dignity, she persevered in Hollywood grounded in her convictions. She demanded roles with dignity to refute negative connotation and association associated with Black female images in media. In the Washington Post article, film Historian Donald Bogle said the following of Lena Horne's impact on Black female imaging in Hollywood:

"Movies are a powerful medium and always depicted African American women before Lena Horne as hefty, mammy-like maids who were ditzy and giggling," Bogle said. "Lena Horne becomes the first one the studios begin to look at differently . . . Really just by being there, being composed and on-screen with her dignity intact paved the way for a new day" for black actresses.

  Lena's resume is lengthy and filled with accomplishments the pop tarts of today only read much less dream about. Lena Horne leaves a legacy worth studying on how to be iconic. I feel many young Black females in the public spotlight should be more careful with the images they voluntarily present *Can KatStacks read this??*. Realizing that the days of blatant segregation and racial discrimination are not so far away nor have the times changed so dramatically that all Black women have escaped characterization by the actions of one and stereotypes of old. Remember Lena Horne with fond gratitude for all she sacrificed, endured and accomplished, pray for her family during their bereavement, and encourage young people to be familiar with her work.
Lena Horne singing "Stormy Weather": 1943

Peace,

Dawnavette

Basketball Heaux: Sterotypical Takeover on VH1

2010-05-05T07:18:00.000-07:00

Basketball Wives, is the breakout "hit" that airs on VH1's Sunday Stereotype (Coon Edition) evening entertainment block. Better dubbed "Basketball Heaux", I've tried faithfully for 4 weeks to hang in there and view, if only to support a Black show with an all-female cast. *Fingers to the temple/ DEEP Sigh* There are so many factors however, that make this show deplorable, I had to blog it out. A few reasons why I simply...cannot... with this joke of a show.
1) Show Title is Inflated BULLOCKS!!!- "Baskeball WIVES" would imply that these women are or (at least at some point in time) were married to NBA Players. So how did the producers/editors let pass that only (2) of the (6) casted have even seen a wedding band or certificate?!?! The show's executive producer Shaunie O'neal (Currently divorcing Shaq) and Jennifer Williams (married to Eric Williams) are the only qualifying leads. The other (4) are variations of jumpoffs, delusional relationships (Evelyn Lozado was "engaged" for over 10 years to Antoine Walker-sowwy boo. You were NOT the ONE), or the ever-common "Baby Mama" role.
2) Spousal Apperances Border Abusive & Controling- I'm not clear when it became okay, but misogyny and verbal abuse towards women is definately considered cool again. How else to explain the 2nd episode's uncomfortable dinner scene between Jennifer and her cheating husband Eric? The conversation where he (basically) admits to cheating, blames his infidelities on the highly "emotional" sport of basketball, tells his wife to get over it and get her own life, then finishes with refusing her company for the evening while he heads out with his "friends". *le Sigh* WHATTHEJOEJACKSONHELL?!?!
Or how about the 4th episode's dinner scene with Matt and naive fiance Gloria, though she plays Suzy Homemaker for her guests, the tense undertone remains his unspoken infidelities. Oh, and distrust of her friends becuase they may shed light to the truth which EVERYONE knows?! Now, I'm no relationship expert, but those that isolate, threaten, abuse, or are unequal emotionally in no way appear healthy. Errrryone knows the backstories on most of these jive-@$$ "relationships" thanks to MediaFakeout.com or your favorite gossip blogsite.
3) WHAT do they DO?! WHAT is their PURPOSE?! - Daunting tasks in the lives of the chosen, pampered and played, include shopping ("Lemme put down my Chanel bag"), makeovers ("Royce. Needs.Breast implants."), dinners ("It's my independence party!"), and of course, fiending off the always-thirsty female groupie. Yes, although the "wives" themselves were but a mere punanny-pop away from permenant groupie status, they feel threatened nearly every episode by alll the other women mimicking their lifestyles and actions. They have the nerve to fight other "groupies" like "Plastic Surgery" whilst out in public. Yes. Screaming and drink-throwing over the age of 30. Class was not a prerequisite for hooking up with these ladies nor securing reality show fame. #justsayin #Proofsintheepisode
Yawwwwn. The entire cycle is rather sad due to the lack of substance. There's never discussion about anything relevant other than who's sexxing who's Baller, and judging by Royce's infamous "How Low" display**, they don't even qualify for free game tickets. Tragic. Aside from child rearing (only 1 wife is ever taped with offspring), and their attachment to famous penis, none have a valid reason to be televisied. Television/ pop culture has room for only one public sexpot with mindless, Jezebel antics experiencing zero consequence or judgement. Her name is Kim Kardashian. Basketball Heaux are #Latelikecnn.
I hope this show is not renewed for an additional season, because Black women need another negative sterotype attached like the gulf coast needs BP oil. I have a feeling it will be picked up again due to it's popularity, talk of another spinoff (NFL Wives-DEAD), and the legions of young women who aspire for even a taste of the materialism, emotional voids, and lack of respect often associated with being a "Basketball Wife". Excuse me, VH1 has revealed their truth: Basketball Heaux. Exploiting their lifestyle for reality tv coin and exposure.

**(In case u needed a refresher-Royce degrades herself for some Clippers tickets during SuperBowl wknd. Jesus take the wheel.)**

Peace,

Dawnavette

Nelly vs. Kat Stacks, and MUSIC MONDAY!!!

2010-04-19T01:38:00.000-07:00

NELLY:KATSTACKS' LATEST PAWN- [I can't believe I'm reposting this] Nelly took time out of his BUSY schedule to argue with KatStacks Saturday night on the Internet Radio show (sensational even) Shade 45. Brief Background: KatStacks is the latest female to gain attention & capitalize off the strength that she's had sex with D-list rappers. Kat's claim to fame: members of the group Young Money (Who?? Right. Doesn't even matter). Still not clear as to how she's remaining relevant as she's not the most intelligent, articulate nor accurate tea-spiller, but we're now into week #4 and she has a solid fan base (Look for her blog. She's too irrelevant to re-post the link). ANYwho, Kat's tricked Nelly into giving her new life by "lying" on-air about sleeping with him (yawn). What's worse... is that he CALLS IN to indulge her delusions?! Nelly comes off looking childish, they both sounded flustered, and after 2min. of listening I grew bored. For anyone who cares/ workday foolishness: their school yard banter.

***MUSIC MONDAY***
NEW BIG BOI- Sir Lucious Leftfoot has released another single from his (Highly) anticipated new solo debut on Def Jam!!! *As a DIE-HARD Kast fan, you KNOW I had to post this banger!!* Click the link for a listen (explicit version/ use headphones if at work)
LIL' WAYNE'S NEW VIDEO- Prior to turning himself in for his prison stint Weezy.F. Baby shot videos for strategic release/ continuous promotion while he serves his time. His latest release is "Single", and though the video's low-budget (and Weezy seems high on film) I nodded my head. Yes. I did. Check out the video via the link!
NEW PLIES- I'm soo not a fan of "Mr. Goon Affiliated" but felt obligated to post the new single from rap's raunchiest commercial rapper. The song/video concept is a watered-down, fugazey bite on the King's (TIP) smash "Whatever You Like". The melody in the chorus samples Rupert Holmes' "Pina Coladas." (Is anyone TRYING anymore??!) I've summed this serving up as #Steamin'hotgarbage, but willing to bet it will be #1 on 106 & Park in NO TIME.

~This weekend in Cali was the massive Cochella Music festival!!! So sad I was not in attendence (Getting my weight up to secure a press past in the future) but my big homie QDEEZY was in attendence. (He's EVERYWHERE YOU WANT TO BE!!) A detailed report on all the haps will be posted ASAPington!!
Have a great Monday kids!!! smooooooches!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

THE GAME RETURNS, DIDDY ON INSIDE THE ACTOR'S STUDIO, & LARRY KING NEWS!!

2010-04-14T19:35:00.000-07:00

TINY & TOYA BACK LIKE THEY NEVER LEFT- DAUM.- The ever-popular thorn in BET programming's side, "Tiny and Toya" has returned to the channel for a second season. Now, most of you know, that in spite of the show starring two young Black females, I'd rather attempt taxes than stomach a 30-min. episode. I just don't understand why or how the two are relevant for having sex and getting sperminated by rappers (though I LOVE me some TIP and Weezy). I also can't stand the way they destroy the English language via their "narration". I just cannot suport it, but wish continued success on the nail salons (Tiny) and being BabyMama#32 (Toya). The duo made an appearance on (my fav) Chelsea Lately yesterday and below are a few highlihgts. You know Chelsea was thinking, "WHATTHEJOEJACKSONHELL?!?!?!" the entire time... Let me know if you caught the show!

BREATHING NEW LIFE IN FALL: THE GAME!!- THE GAME IS BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Finally, we can all sleep easier as EVERYONE'S FAVORITE BLACK sitcom has officially been picked up by BET and new episodes will debut at the end of the year!!! I'm toooooo excited though the show date and times still have yet to be decided, but the cast will be taping episodes here in Atlanta, and I cannnnot wait!!I was beginning to loathe these "new reality shows", thirsty for scripted plots and talented actors. The show's revival on BET may be the first time a Black show was saved from cancellation to appear on another network...so THANKGAWD!!! I'll be sure to post more updates as they occur!

**SMALLER DOSES**
BRANDY WANTS BLOGGERS TO STOP THE HATE- Although millions tuned into view Brandy's new show starring her immediate family (Sonja, Pops. and Ray J) as well as her laughable lace front wig and exsessive eyebrows, Brandy is still feeling the hate from bloggers. In a note published originally on Vibe.com & posted on Necolebitchie.com, Brandy whomps excessively about the pitfalls of being "talked about" online. Um, pause. But, considering Brandy hasn't had a hit in a MIN, is currently overshadowed in her carreer by her sex-tape/ womanizing younger brother, and we still haven't forgotten about her fatal car accident, daughter and false marriage she parlayed into a reality tv show... shouldn't she be GLAD some bloggers find her relevant at all???!! Anyone?? I swear sometimes celebrities forget that publicity at all is still good publicity, and that should be rule # 1. Look at Kim Kardashian?!
DIDDY WRAPS "INSIDE THE ACTOR'S STUDIO"- Yesterday, Sean "P. Diddy"/ Take-that Take-That Combs shot his "Inside The Actor's Studio" episode set to air sometime this summer. ITAS is the top-rated Bravo show hosted by James Lipton that gets inside the minds of serious actors. So Diddy was selected because...*Crickets Chirping* Either way, he's a great talent and he gives his first interview after the shoot to MTV (Check the link). He told you he wouldn't stop... (Dylan's somewhere .38 HOTTT)
LARRY KING: FATHER TIME STILL PIMPIN-According to reports on TMZ, Larry King has filed from divorce from his 7th wife Shawn Southwick (8th marraige; re-married one woman twice) today. This was after an allged CRAZY@$$ argument regarding King having sex with Shawn's...sister??! ERRR?!?! WOW. Soooo, even the Super Seniors know about the slide & glide (Sidebar: WHO is boning LArry King?!?!). As the two battle it out in public, currently over the division of their multiple properties... I'll be watching. *Grabs popcorn*.

Peace,

Dawnavette

MUSIC MONDAY!!!!!!! NEW VIDEOS

2010-04-12T10:37:00.000-07:00

Tiera Mari's "Daddy's Home Video": Shameless Promo or Needed Remix?-The former "Princess of the Roc" (for only a mere .30 sec. of life) has resurfaced again. If anyone was trying to pay attention, she has been sporadically spotted in d-list films and blogsites, most recently to promote her summer project, "At That Point". Today she leaked this video teaser to WSHH... and um... I'm rather saddened that she bothered to sing at all. She could've just sent in some still shots of T&A as opposed to give effort to staying on-key, a video treatment or mini-plot (I was offended for the food in the kitchen being wasted on such gar-bage). Female pop singers are no longer required to be talented, just cute and willing to get nakey. What will our daughters aspire to?!?! Anywho, view below:

DRAKE's Latest Video "OVER"-GIVES. ME. LIFE!!!
If you didn't know... I'm like a HUGE DRIZZLE FAN!!!! HUGE!!!!! Anyhow, his latest video "Over" completely does it for me~ so fresh!!!! The visuals coincide with the lyrics, and I feel his passion as he continues his top reign (Enough swinging from Drakes treasures) View below! Share your thoughts!

Usher Releases 3rd New Video, "OMG"-Usher has another release from his #1 chart-topping album Raymond vs. Raymond, the Will.I.Am collaberation & produced: "OMG". I am not the biggest fan of this latest project, but this single is actually growning on me. I know... it's a bit corny, but I can def. see myself grooving to this in the club. Thoughts??

Monica& Trey Songz announce Tour- According to Sandra Rose, the two have already teamed up for smaller shows in smaller citites to gain a feel for each other as well as audience reception. Also, they will begin a major tour this summer, this on the eve of her successful debut of "Still Standing" and his relentless promtotion of... HIMSELF-including a new reality show, upcoming album, and constant radio domination. WOW. Which one of ya'll... which one of ya'll are buying tickets???!!!

With that kids, know that I've missed you terribly and am always working to improve. SOO much more to come!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

TYLER PERRY GEARS UP "FOR COLORED GIRLS"

2010-03-26T12:47:00.000-07:00

Tyler Perry is set to write, produce, and direct the iconic theatrical play by Ntozake Shange "For Colored Girls Who Have Considered Suicide When The Rainbow Is Not Enough" into a feature film production.He has already cast the featured roles with such stars including Mariah Carey, Janet Jackson, Whoopie Goldberg, Elise Neal, Kerry Washington, Loretta Devine, Phylicia Rashad, and of course...Perry himself.
*le sigh*
        When I heard this news, my heart immediately sank, and not simply because I'm already biased against most Tyler Perry films. I was crushed for several reasons. The first, is that this play, is very special, and held in the highest regard amongst Black women, or cultured people period. "Cultured" not in the narrow-minded and elitist sense of the word but based in fact. Not all of our beautiful children of color in this country are exposed to theater, let alone to the voice, movement, and theatrical expression that is Ntozake Shange. Written in 1975, the play is a collection of 20 choreopoems acted by nameless Black women known only as colors, still holds deep relevance when acted across the Nation today.
     The second is that the characters embody feelings and experiences indicative to the essence of a Black woman. So many young women have read and related, or auditioned and become changed once introduced to the Ladies of the Rainbow. Their testimonies and monologues are universal to women of color and it is truly a joy to watch on stage. I know TPerry has built a mega-brand off cross-dressing and moonlighting as a woman, but the truth is that he is not a Black woman. Therefore, any immediate authenticity in re-creating the story is lost...to a Black male with controlling authority (writer, director, producer, street team etc. that is T.Perry). I'm rather doubtful he can capture the raw emotion and testimony as written by Shange.
         The third, is that given the track record... how can I not be nervous?? Of all the many T.Perry films I've witnessed, and I do believe I have seen them all, the two stand-outs were The Family That Preys (great film) and Why Did I Get Married (Good film). Reasons being the acting was great, the plot lines were relate-able and I found characters I could root for throughout the films.Neither of the favorites tackled serious drama or were to align with Tony-award worthy performances of a theater brand, like "For Colored Girls". "Precious", the most dramatic cinema project where Perry executive produced alongside Oprah Winfrey, left me more than unfulfilled as it palled in-comparison to the masterpiece that was the novel "Push" by Saphire. I don't want to sit crushed in the movies next spring, watching the credits roll, angry that a T. Perry caricature will be mainstream America's equates to "Lady In Purple".
        In no way am I "hating" on Tyler Perry but pointing out my fears of the mega-director. A director known for breaking box-office records while utilizing a formula that often lacks provocative thought, intense character development, or diverse image representation among his Black characters, and dressing in drag as the beloved Madea. I will forever respect Tyler Perry and his many accomplishments for all Black folk in media, film production, development, and ownership in particular. I'm sure I will purchase a ticket to his interpretation of "For Colored Girls". I just wouldn't be myself if I didn't issue my version of a disclaimer though, prior to my scathing critique.

Peace,

Dawnavette

Papa Knowles Mu$t PAY, BSCOT in ATL, BUSH & TUSH, and MONICA!

2010-03-24T12:59:00.000-07:00

Mathew Knowles: YOU ARE THE FATHER- Yesterday it was officially confirmed that Papa Knowles is in fact a rolling stone, as DNA testing proved he is the father to newborn male child Nixon, to mistress Alexsandra Wright. Papa Knowles allegedly carried on a 16-month affair with White, who filled for child support in Los Angeles courts.*le sigh* A L.A. judge ordered Knowles to pay $20,750 in back support for the month of January, monthly child support of $8,200 retroactive from February 1st and 100% of the uninsured medical costs. Nixon was born February 4,2010, and is the first male child for Mathew Knowles, who's wife (ex wife??) MamaTina Knowles filed for divorce last November. Neither Beyaki nor MamaTina have released a statement on the situation, but surely they are proud to have a new addition to their musical family. Um, congrats! Children are truly a blessing...aren't they?! *photo courtesy of TMZ*

IT'S BSCOOOOOTTT!!!-The YouTube/Media Underground sensation that is BSCOTT invaded Atlanta this week! My Sorors turned me on to his fabulousness last weekend, and I'm fascinated at his always perfect appearance, and hilarious catchphrases! How ironic that he hosted parties on Sunday and Monday, and spoke Tuesday at Morehouse College for their first annual Gay Pride Week. He also shot a top-secret photo shoot with the in-demand Derek Blanks (Alterego) and stopped by the Kenny Burns show on Beehive FM!! Whew!! As we missed him at Morehouse, I've posted the first part of his interesting interview on the Kenny Burns show, and if interested, watch part2 and part3!! Enjoy LOVEMUFFINS!!!!(smile)

***SMALLER DOSES***

BUSH & TUSH CHRONICLES CONTINUE-If you haven't heard by now, Kim & Reggie have split. This PR leak began on Monday when the rumors began the Bush broke up with Tush via text message while she was in Miami shooting Khloe & Kourtney Take Miami, and he was in New York. Allegedly the footage will be aired during the summer season of the show. Kim is now alleged to be dating a rich soccer star and was photographed yesterday looking #Outtacontrol. I was quite pleased to hear the breakup news however, as Bush is such a chocolate drop and newly single!
MONICA'S NEW ALBUM IS A SMASH-Yesterday ATL's own Ms. Monica released her 4th studio album in a decade, Still Standing. Rumored to not have the full support of J Records, her record label, the real tee-hee-hee was on Monica. Stores across the nation have reported selling out of the album yesterday, and the Billboard charts should reflect that her fans LOVE their Monica! Go cop this album to continue the support!

Peace,

Dawnavette

DIGGY GETS A DEAL, DWTS FAVS, LAST TRAIN TO PARIS, & OBESITY RANT

2010-03-23T07:04:00.000-07:00

DIGGY IS A REAL RAPPER, WITH A DEAL!!-Yesterday the Internet was buzzing that 15-year old Diggy Simmons, was officially signed to Atlantic records! This is fresh off of his wildly popular single relase last week, "Flo Stoooopid" (Posted last Thursday). Congrats to the young man, a hard-working, innovative, fashion forward and talented individual! The news def. broke on Twitter, and yesterday's TwitterTopic was #JoJoMustfeellike (Filling out college applications). We can't all be Jay-Z JoJo. LOL. JUST JOKES!! I'm sure there's enough guap for ALL family members to feel very blessed right now. :)
*Photo courtesy of GLOBAL GRIND*

DWTS: MY TOP PICS- Last night the (2) hour premiere of DWTS aired on ABC live, and had several "suprise" celebrites to watch this season (if you care). 1. Chad OchoCinco-Looking like MR. CHOCOLATE DELICIOSO has rhythm to spare but should clean it up a bit. He's sooo sexy to watch though. 2. Pamela Anderson-who still looks like sex in sequince entertained while sexxing it up last night (Can you believe she's still got it??) 3.Niecy Nash-How cute did she look boppin' around with more sass and comedy than skill? I'll be watching her. Aside from Shannon Doherty cleaning up to appear classy and 'Oldasmathucel' Buzz Aldren shufflin' without his constant IV, there aren't any other highlights this season. I'll be watching Chad though. YUM. *Click link to watch episode in full*

**SMALLER DOSES**

THE FEMALE NOORWOODS- Yesterday NecoleBitchie posted new pics of Entertainer Brandy, her mom-ager, and daughter S'rai. I took notice (along with several other commenters) on how large the little girl looks at such a young age and feel her mother, Brandy (anyone else remember that car accident/ murder of hers?) should better monitor her healthy food intake and excercise. Howevs, there was an onslaught of backlash claiming to just leave the "child" alone and she'll eventually "thinn out". Seriously? If anyone recalls the child's father (Rodney Jerkins' Brother) is built like a linebacker?! Granted child health should be the parent's repsonsiblity till of age, but if S'rayi is not careful she will be obese, and spend her 30's complaining of poor health issues and constant weight gain. Newsflash: Obesity will be the #1 killer in AMERICA BY 2019 and it's NO SECRET which generation this will affect?! Our people are so quick to defend what's blatantly wrong... obesity is NOT WHAT'S UP?!?! (I need a t-shirt that screams this). I want the cycle of approving unhealthy behavior to cease, and switch the focus on HEALTHY eating, abundance of excersie and education. The truth shoudn't always offend... it should empower and promote change. *Done with rant*
LAST TRAIN TO PARIS LISTENING PARTY- Last night in Los Angeles, Diddy (and Cappricorn) hosted an exclusive listening party for his album, Last Train To Paris which drops early June. My "Key To The City" Connect-QDEEZY was in the building and reported that the party was nice, and that cd is surprisingly filled with several hits described as "Black pop music". A slew of celebrities (and celeb-u-nots) were also present, Klohe and Lamar (I LOVE THEM), Chris Rock, Ron Artest, Ray J, Poprah and Young Berg (WTJJH?!). Thanks Q for today's SPOTTED!!
Peace,

Dawnavette

JANET ON LENO, CHICAGO MALE CLASS GOES TO COLLEGE, NEW BCARTER!!!

2010-03-19T11:18:00.000-07:00

JANET SLAYS LENO INTERVIEW!-Last night, pop icon Janet Jackson made a special appearance on Jay Leno to promote her upcoming role in the Tyler Perry squeal, "Why Did I Get Married Too" which hits theaters next Friday. How amazing did Diva Jackson look?!? I died when I checked her shoe game, and her makeup/face was flawless. She was very composed and I'm rather excited to view her in the movie. Ya'll know I'm not the biggest T.Perry movie aficionado, but I did like "Why Did I Get Married" so you will find me in the movies next weekend. :)

WAY TO ACHIEVE!!! WAY TO ACHIEVE!!- Last week, an all-Black, all-male senior class from Englewood Urban Prep Academy charter school in Chicago, IL made headlines as they were ALL ACCEPTED INTO COLLEGES/UNIVERSITIES!!!!! What amazing and inspiring news! All 107 young men in the school's first senior class gained entry to over 72 different schools including Northwestern, DePaul, University of Illinois, Rutgers, and of course, Howard University* to name a few. The young men were groomed upon entry that higher education was not their option, but destiny through extensive college preparation. In spite of their circumstances they persevered and defied the odds, proving that our people are blessed and talented beyond measure!! After the wackness I posted that is Wacka Flocka, it is past refreshing to shine light on young Black men walking in their royal light!!! WAY TO GO!!!!! (Can't wait to write about how they ALL graduated!!)
* The BEST University in. The. WORLD.

"SUBWAY BUS OR WALKING" HOTTT ISHHH!!!!- My fellow HU Alum Brandon Carter (@BCartermusic) dropped a new video for his single "Subway Bus Or Walking". This HIMscarical yet talent-filled creation has a cameo by the luhvly @ihavesuperpower (SOC stand UP!!) representing for the standard "video chic" #44,231. Check below, and yes...this is what's hott in the skreets! LOL!!

Happy Friday Kids!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

PORN STAR ATTEMPT @ EXTORTION: TIGER STYLE (AGAIN)!!

2010-03-18T15:09:00.000-07:00

Early this morning the Internet, Twitter and blogs were buzzing non-stop once Tiger Woods' ex-mistress took to the web to publish the extensive, and sexually graphic text messages she received from the scorned golfer. Texts that infer Tiger's large penis size, his vice for pain during sex, and allegedly "Golden Showers". Seriously?! SERIOUSLY!! Veronica Siwik-Daniels, also known as Joslyn James, alleges that she believed she was in an "exclusive" three-year relationship with Woods (other than his WIFE?!?!) and that she even quit her full-time job as a porn-star to curtail Woods' jealous streak. WHAT was she smoking?!?! The text postings in-full were removed from the Internet earlier (www.sextingjoslynjames.com) but I managed to find some from TMZ.com & Sandra Rose. Some excerpts of the "freaky" texts Woods sent to James:

-OK, I would like to have a threesome with you and another girl you trust.
- I want to treat you rough, throw you around, spank and slap you
- Have you ever had a golden shower done to you? … just morbid curiosity.
- You are my f**king whore. Hold you down while I choke you.

While I don't understand the motives behind releasing such personal information post-his public apology and media fall out circa 2009, I loose all respect when James alleged that Woods has yet to "take responsibility for his behavior". Um, excuse me, miss... but YOU were a "Jumpoff". A messy and disloyal one at THAT?! WHAT responsibility does Woods have to you other than sex, payment (surely she was paid both directly and indirectly) and sex?!?! I swear these women are a bit delusional if they expected more or that the public would take further interest in their stories outside of the freaky sex information. Only Kim Kardashian has had ridonkulous success which began with her Jumpoff status and peaked post-sex-tape release... the formula should NOT be followed. SMDH.
Clearly Woods is maintaining his iron-clad discussions with the press and has returned to his family and rehab center. He's still slated to play in this year's PGA Tournament... so it's safe to assume... Woods has no love for these H**s. I wish they'd get the memo and think of different ways to remain relevant.

Peace,

Dawnavette

Viv's new single, new Louis, & Wacka's in JAIL.Wow.

2010-03-18T00:34:00.000-07:00

Wacka Flocka JAILED-On Tuesday evening, the wackest rapper on the promotional circuit, Wacka Flocka Flame was arrested. Again. This time for probation violation when he exited the state of Georgia while on tour. He was previously sentenced and issued probation for carrying a sawed off shotgun, so this time he may be sitting in jail for a lil' while. The would-be rapper (one must lack skills to fit this description, no?) also made headlines after his prior arrest/ probation sentencing for carrying a sawed-off shotgun, and is in Houston County jail. All of this foolishness is after eight young were shot after Wacka's show, and his news-making scuffle 2-weeks ago at Walters, the sneaker mecca of Atlanta. I never could take him seriously, and now I just wish he'd sit DOWN somewhere?! All this criminal activity yet you dropped the WACKEST rap single of the year?? (No shade-Diddy's hop on the remix was official). Not sure if I'll continue to report on yet another rapper making news for #thuglife attempts as opposed to talent. I'm boring myself...

Vivan Green is back?!!-Most of my HU friends remember singing at the top of our lungs in the Towers to "Rollercoaster" by Vivian Green back in 2002. Well, Viv is back with her first studio album in 5 years! Her lead single, "Beautiful" is hitting radio and the video was just released. *deep sigh*

I really want to root for Viv as she's not in the stereotypical R&B/T&A get up we've grown accustomed to seeing (a la Beyaki & followers). Although the lyrics are nice, the melody isn't catchy to me nor is her voice melodic enough to request a repeat. Thoughts?? Enjoy below:

LOUIS should be the new LOUIS- Recently your favorite 106 & Park rappers have been photographed with an exclusive set of designer, hand-made, and crocodile, duffel bags and backpacks by Louis Stewart. Louis, who once designed for the iconic French fashion house Louis Vuitton, is now his own brand using hip-hop as a marketing tool. Even Lisa Raye has been spotted rockin' the bags. I support this trend for not only are the accessories flyyy with excellent craftsmanship (that I can tell) the designer's a Brotha!! Game, set, match!
*Sandra Rose Photo Credit*

~Talk with you kids in a few hours!

Peace,

Dawnavette

Music News-GAGA & "Honey B", Diggy's got skills, and Monica's single!!!

2010-03-12T23:07:00.000-08:00

'TELEPHONE' Video- Thursday night at 11 central, Lady GaGa debuted her latest video: "Telelphone" featuring Beyaki herself, on E! News. Hyped-for-weeks, two of the most-fashionable (and arguably talented) pop divas teamed up to create a Jonas Ackerlund mini-movie! A lenghty-video with too many costume changes to count (all fierce though), it relies on a rather sketchy plot-line that involves jail, lesbians, Tyreese and poison. The choreography is great however, as is the cinematography.
I love this video!!!! It doesn't look like anything else currently in rotation!! So many people bashed it, but I think it's the best B's done all year (If you mute her speaking lines) and edgiest I've seen GaGa (tell me you didn't DIE when she had the dancebreak in studded undies and stilletto boots?!?!) As a Tarintino fan I applauded the "Pussy Wagon" reference, and appreciated the makeup (the faces were BEAT). Don't take my gushing as gospel, but view for yourself!!

Chris Brown Doesn't Like Mixtape Relegation- Chris "Beatherdown" Brown is back on social networking mecca Twiter, and yes, this is a cry for more support from his fans. Earlier in the week Brown took to the net to plead that fans call into radio stations as he feels blackballed by lack of radio play and record sales of his last release, "Graffitti". This second attempt at Twitter, he's wondering if anyone... anyone at all will follow to boost his star-status. He was hot before Trey Songz remember?? Anyone?? *Crickets*

**Smaller Doses**
Monica & Rocko Call It Quits- Thursday Sandra Rose was the official blogger to break the news that Atown's own Monica has seperated from her fiance Rocko. This comes after weeks of rumors that he allgedly was unfaithful (gasp/shock) and Monica released an offical statement on Sandra's site. Prayers for any woman dealing with relationship issues (haven't we all) and as the couple share (2) small boys, prayers that the family remains strong.
Diggy Simmons Can Rap;WHO KNEW?!?- Yea... I dunno WHAT JoJo was smokin'/thinkin' when he called "shotgun" out the gate as rapping hier to the Simmons' throne, cause lil' Diggy has SKILLS. I know. I was skeptical too, but see for yourself:

Diggy - Made you look Freestyle (Flow Stoopid) from Diggy Simmons on Vimeo.
*shout out to @Deuce83 for convincing me to listen*

QDEEZY'S NEW SINGLE!!- Philly's own/ LA's leading radio/entertainment personality has released his latest single. For the stans. While he may not be quitting his day job (just yet) I see a single w. Wacka Flocka in his future! Listen, laugh, and share your thoughts...it's "SUPER SIMPLE"!!! :)

Peace,

Dawnavette

AKOO Model Interview, FAMU Fake??, & Naomi cleared of assault

2010-03-04T11:54:00.000-08:00

MODEL TALK :AKOO MODEL SPEAKS OUT- The model in the AKOO billboard generating such a buzz* gave an interview with Essence.com. This 26-year old mother of a four-year old son saw nothing wrong with the ad, felt the controversy was over-hyped ("I can't believe it made CNN"), saw her attention as great for Black models and is pleased that AKOO increased promotional relevance by 200%.The photographer on-set at the time of the shoot was aiming for a Calvin Klein ad feel with overt sexual imaging, and AKOO decided to run with Dawn's shoot direction as she suggested the alternate "fellatio-pose".She also wanted readers to know that she was "sitting, not on my knees" (thank you for that clarification Dawn...we wouldn't want to get that twisted...)
None of her statements surprised me, though I was rather saddened realizing that the basic sentiment is so long as she was paid and gained notoriety, she saw nothing wrong, in spite of opposing points presented. To the placement of negative imaging in our communities-the usual apathetic, kids see worse all the time, whomp,whomp, whomp. To her son possibly receiving a mixed message about women-it's the parent's job to teach the child, whomp whomp whomp. When will Black women realize that we can be responsible for the images of us but we must start by demanding more of ourselves. Inclusive of opting for a more socially responsible direction for a fashion brand with zero artistic, or couture fashion credibility (AKOO)- unlike Calvin Klein. I feel that old money and new money operate differently, just as Blacks shouldn't assume privilege in the commercial market because we now have enough money to play in the game.
*goin'on and marinate on that for a min.*

**Smaller Doses**

FAMU SEX TAPE ALLEGED A FAKE - It's listed that the porno footage staring "FAMU Students" may not have used actual students at the university, just young Black porno actors who did in fact get paid. *side eye* Okay. If that is the truth, I'm not mad as that sits better with my soul anyhow. I did note the abundance of Rattlers that spoke out on Twitter that there's no WAY their school would produce such..."freaks". Ummmhmmm. Right.
NAOMI CAMPBELL CLEARED OF CHARGES- Yes everyone's favorite model with anger issues was cleared yesterday from the allegations against her, this time from her hired driver. Campbell was charged with assault (again) and now they will be lessened to harassment. Um...celebrate the small victories... :)
PRINCESS RIRI'S GETTING SUED BY HER TRAINER-Someone needs to talk to their accountant and demand a payroll examination!!! Trainer, is suing for $26,144 claiming she was not paid for her "exclusive personal training services" at $1,500 daily during September-October of 2009. She's also suing for travel reimbursement as she alleges she traveled across Europe for RiRi at the cost of $2,644.

Peace,

Dawnavette

AKOO JEANS:SAY AHHH, FAMU FILMING FREAKY BEHAVIOR, WAYNE WON'T GO, KEYSHIA'S BABY!!

2010-03-03T09:52:00.000-08:00

AKOO AD: NEW JEANS OR FELLATIO PROMO?!?!-
AKOO Clothing, A King Of One's Self, is quickly gaining more publicityfor its racy advertising than clothes in its product line. The urban clothing line (of course) is owned by TIP (Clifford Harris), and this gem of an ad has sparked controversy since it was posted high in a Black neighborhood in Newark New Jersey.
While Americans have been desensitized by sexual images for years now, this ad still struck a nerve with me as there is no message or background info on the line, nor it's owner. Simply a cute BLACK chick, groping on a male's pants, with her tongue out next to his man-stick, and his hand on the back of her head for..."encouragement". We ALL can infer the same message (either she just started or finished giving him head impressive enough for a billboard), for Mayor Corey Booker just announced the billboard will be taken down.
Why must citizens have to view or infer anything so distasteful in THEIR community-an ad with no relevance to bettering the area in the midst of numerous issues plaguing the city?! Seriously?? Seriously!!
In no way am I throwing shade at TIP, as he is a Black entrepreneur, but where is the moral consideration for your community?? The marketing team/ ad-design campaign (CBS Outdoors) was careless enough to place an ad that evokes demeaning connotation in a low-economic community heavily populated by minorities. I have yet to see such an ad in Atlanta, but if I do the same questions would arise. I'm concerned that you would want US to consume, but are not concerned with the imaging and effects of such in OUR community. WOW.
*Photo courtesy of the Star-Ledger*

SEXXING>STUDYING: STUDENTS @ FAMU?!?!?-Florida A&M University students have taken collegiate activities to another level. Several students, who are also closet porn directors, decided to film a seedy 42. min. long "sex tape" which simply is a low-budget orgy. In a dorm room. With the lights on, students clearly identified, and a bevy of athletic socks, sneakers, fitted sheets, Freshman year pics, and of course... STDs (I didn't spot any condoms). Very little shocks me anymore in media, but I was more floored at the lack of concern amongst the students?! I mean, young Black students (at a prestigious University at that), who should be studying (as we've no clue who's struggling to support them whilst in school), used their student loan money for laptops and mini cams to broadcast their sexuality-FOR FREE!?!?! This is now available to any who care to watch. Deeply saddened as it almost defeats the purpose of educating yourself for better employment opportunities or entrepreneurship if you reduce yourself to a bootleg-Hustler-star-in-training. Even amateur porn stars get some check though... these young ladies discredited themselves for bragging rights on Twitter. WHATHEJOEJACKSONHELL?!?! Reason #453 I'm in the midst of writing my book... Jesus...take the wheel.
***Email me for the link. It's that serious!!!!***

**Smaller Doses**

Keyshia Cole Gives Birth To Her First Child- K.C. and "Bubby" welcomed a new baby boy into the world yesterday. Both the mother and child are doing well and prayers for their family during this exciting time.
Lil' Wayne STILL Isn't IN JAIL!!!- AND he caught the BP3 tour last night in Madison Square Garden! How's THAT for awaiting "sentencing"?? If you hadn't heard, Weezy's sentencing was postponed yet again as there was a basement fire in the New York Courthouse preventing...you know...the flow of justice, yadiiiiiiiiig!!!!! I'll be on baited breath awaiting if he ever will report to Rikers...
NIVEA'S NEW VIDEO...FEATURING LIL' WAYNE?!-Yes, everyone's favorite baby-maker Lil' Weezy also took time before his jail stint to shoot a video w. his ex and Babymama #3 Nivea. This visual masterpiece is for her upcoming album release-Purple Heart (YES that was typed in pure sarcasm-duh?!).

Peace,

Dawnavette

THE FAT DIVIDE: A DEBATE ABOUT WEIGHT

2010-02-25T13:02:00.000-08:00

"I like em thick!" A sentiment often heard throughout Urban, hip-hop or Black culture. The images of round, plump, stately women have often been associated with Black females since the formative years of American slavery. There was even a surge of promotional figurines during the early 1900's with a darker-skinned, heavy-set slave dubbed the "Mammy" character (one of four major stereotypes originally associated with Black female images**). Mammy resonates so well because her likeness could be found in many plantations, she wasn't offensive, symbolized a maternal figure and of course... food. The preparation and ingestion of food.
   Never mind the key fact that slaves were given the absolute worst foods on the plantation, yet from the worst created nourishment (albeit not optimum) because everyone knows the power and resilience of our people. Mammy's imagery and stereotype has been seen throughout American history, media, and is still traced in many modern advertisements (yes, even now-I know you've seen the Pine-Sol lady always cheering you on whilst mopping the floor, or noticed that the Aunt Jemimah bottle has yet to change its packaging...). An image and stereotype that has permeated the mindset of an entire people. Most Black American families are hard pressed to find at least one female family member who isn't obese, or has an affinity for fatty foods (often disguised as "soul food"-but I digress) proudly comfortable with her larger size. There is nothing wrong with a larger size, as everyone is built differently, but I find it perplexing that within our communities it is almost glorified at times to be larger without focusing on simply living the healthiest lifestyle possible.
      Only in OUR communities, or urban metropolis' that are heavily populated by brown and black people with lower socio-economic status' and limited education options, are there few grocery stores but bodgeas and service stations on every corner. Where are the Whole Food's or grocer's that carry local produce and organic options??** In addition to lack of healthy food options, there are few gyms in our communities, less and less of our youth participate in organized sports or physical activity post-school or during the weekends, and the strip malls are filled with stores catered to the "FULLER woman". Surely you've noticed that the average size of young females in middle school and high school has increased dramatically in the last decade, and in-spite of fast food restaurants attempting to provide nutritious food "options" on their menus, many people still choose the same calorie-laden, primary number meals. Don't forget the soda.
While it may be more socially accepted (globally accepted for that matter) to be slim, America in particular is hypocritical as within OUR communities we've been conditioned to generally support our obesity/ thickness/ "meat-on the bone" physiques as opposed to promoting a healthier lifestyle inclusive of proper nutrition education to ensure optimum fitness and quality of life. "Thicker" (Brown) women book magazine spreads, top billing in exploitative videos, and have sparked plastic surgery trends of women desiring a larger behind or breasts- traits easily associated with heavier women. In short, they remain sexually desirable to (Brown) men in their own right. That's not to say that bigger women aren't also under collective attack as Americans peddle weight-loss aids like prescription drugs. Surely there are self-conscious issues with being obese, but I do believe that larger women are more accepted in minority communities and that historic conditioning may have a part in that.
     It becomes tricky when making comments about one's size without taking all of these many factors into account. I have played a part in the mindless promotion of thickness, and just the other day realized my lack of sensitivity, as I have always been rather thin-always healthy though- in comparison to my peers. I may never fully-relate to a fat girl's blues (no matter her color) just as a bigger girl may never-fully comprehend issues associated with being thin, Black, and a fan of hip-hop culture where your image is rarely reflected. My point is that in the midst of Black men so quick to tear us down, as females we should aim to encourage one another more to live healthy lifestyles... exercise together instead of gossip (or do both!), and swap healthy recipes instead of men (or both...LOL). In other communities different body sizes are celebrated as a diversity and I feel we can do the same within ours so long as the root focus is on living your best life. No matter your waist, breast, or butt size.

**= Additional Blog Post dedicated to the topic**

Peace,

Dawnavette

Toyota Takes "Responsibility", Playgirl wants M. Vick, & Monica's New EYE CANDY!!

2010-02-24T13:02:00.000-08:00

KEEPS GETTING WORSE FOR TOYOTA- It's still all bad in the world of automotive giant TOYOTA. Today company President, Akido Toyoda, spoke before the House Committee of Oversight and Government Reform (with a translator) promising to take "Full Responsibility." A brief background filler: the company has been issuing recalls on several of their vehicle models due to increased acceleration (pedal issue), easily affecting over 8.5 million cars. The kicker is that the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration received complaints for years and dragged their feet to take action. Lives were lost in the meantime whilst these major corporations pocketed money... surprised anyone?!?! We live in America where quality check comes a dead last behind capital, greed, quantity and demand. This is yet another embarrassment for the automotive industry as a whole to say the least. I should hope Toyota DOES take "full responsibility"...as everyone who bought a faulty car placed their LIFE in the fate of the autos built and sold by Toyota. PSA: DON'T rush to buy the new Camery's... justsayin...

PLAYGIRL MAGAZINE WANTS MIKE VICK!!!!-Seriously... it's being reported that the publication offered the reformed dog-fighter one million dollars if he would drop trou, and donate the money to PETA. WOW!!!!! Playgirl, the same magazine that offered the world Levi Johnston's penis on a platter, is now soliciting the best quarterback in the NFL! I just can't believe they're trying to spin Mike's star-fall so fast. Hopefully his publicist never leads Vick down that trashy road and that his great comeback continues with integrity.

GEORGIA ME (GAME) APPEARED ON THE MO'NIQUE SHOW!!!!!!-

Click the link to see the world-famous, Tony-Award Winning, Slam-Slaughtering, Spoken Word Artist GA ME preview her talents for a National Audience on the Mo'Niqe Show!!!! The performance aired on Monday night (Feb 22) but you can catch GA ME on tour in a city near you!!!! That's MY DAWG!!!!!! (seriously) *You have to sit through several min. before the clip of Georgia... I blame BET*

MONICA'S NEW VIDEO: LOVE THE EYE CANDY- If you follow me on Twitter you know I've often ranted that I'm not a fan of the latest single from Monica. However, she's ATown, and I will support (I wrote about Wacka Flacka didn't I...). So, for all the Monica Stans (jk) here is Ms. Thang's latest video. Check for the hawtness that is Chad Ocho Cinco... (till he opens his mouth)

That's all for today. **Please view my latest section: DM (Dawnavette Message) -writing commentary on Issues pertaining to Black Females.** Preciate' ya!!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

Fat Is Wack, Wayne Heads To The Slammer, Stern On IDOL?!

2010-02-09T12:38:00.000-08:00

MICHELLE WANTS YOU TO GET MOVING!!!!!!
-Today marks the start of the National "Let's Move" campaign, an initiative led by First Lady Michelle Obama to increase awareness and reduce the statistics in childhood obesity. Michelle's focusing on four major targets: promoting physical activity, healthier foods in schools, parental education and involvement, and making healthier food more affordable. Some of the more complex initiatives, inclusive of grants that promote healthier grocery stores in impoverished communities by offering tax-breaks, require government legislation.

An ambitious undertaking as set to work alongside the numerous private, public, and government -funded organizations already in place to combat the growing epidemic. If left unchanged, younger generations run the risk of being the first slated to die before their parents due to health complications of their obesity. Diabetes and heart disease have been on the steady increase for years, both can be preventative results from obesity and a poor diet. As a **newbie vegetarian** and proponent for healthy eating, I couldn't be more pleased.
Even Michelle admits to a soft spot for junk food, stating, "We're not talking about a lifestyle that excludes all that. The question is how do we help people balance that out so that they're not facing life-threatening, preventable illnesses, but they're enjoying their food, they're eating their vegetables, they're doing their running and walking and playing and still have time to get a good, fun meal in every once in a while."
*Source: ABC News*
**newbie vegetarian- Since Jan. 2009; I eat seafood; snuck some chicken SuperBowl Sun-NEVER AGAIN!!!!**

WEEZY'S "GOIN' IIIIINNNNNNNNN"!!!!
-If you haven't heard by now, Lil Wayne was scheduled to plead guilty and begin serving in prison, sentenced to 8 months- 1 year for gun possession charges in July of 2007. *It was JUST announced that Wayne received an extension (due to dental surgery)- he won't have to appear before the judge again until March 2nd... ERR?!?!* Twitter and blogsites have been abuzz with photos from Weezy's last weekend out in Miami before his major stint. Surely you purchased Wayne's latest release, "Rebirth", his rap/rock album,or heard some Young Money family rap prophetically about their crew leader's fate on mixtapes. There's also been a media storm inclusive of the popular Rolling Stone cover/article, video message to his fans, and an exclusive MTV interview (see below) :

I received a lot of Twitter backlash because although I am empathetic to the sentiment- loss of freedom's afforded- I don't feel Lil' Wayne's situation or conviction is unjust or without merit. Meaning, we know Wayne lived a lifestyle that violated the law as he's quick to promote such in every song, video, or public appearance. So as a grown, intelligent (you ain't know Wayne was SMART?! HE's GENIUS!!), wealthy Black man in America, I'm certain he was aware of the consequences from his actions if caught or convicted. Fans should take from this example, yet another rapper jailed post-glorifying criminal behavior in their lyrics, the fact that these men end up in... JAIL.
For over 13 years I've watched rapper after rapper keep it all-too "real" by acting-out their lyrics often associated with hardened criminals. Many of the situations (especially Wayne's) could be avoided considering many rappers are affluent, have witnessed their peers fall victim to similar fates, and can devote their careers to being better artists. So WHY do we continue to see them in the headline news?? I will not be a supporter of indecent behavior, and if more folk took a stance of moral turpitude as opposed to celebrating excessive bafoonery dressed up as "REAL" "hard" or "gangsta", there would probably be less rappers in jail as they would (finally) start to loose fans.
Predictions of Wayne's popularity post his release are HIMscarical to me. Unless he'll experience a life-change as prolific as *Malcom Little's, I'm highly skeptical of any moral or lyrical difference aside from increased street cred. I'm not trying to diss Weezy's talent. I'm a HUGE fan (since he was rappin' verse-for-verse w. Turk in tha Hot Boyz) but enough is enough. I'm sure he'll make it through this life's storm, and probably serve a shorter sentence than anyone could imagine, but I'm not soliciting any additional prayer warriors on his behalf, or stressing as though he was wrongly accused. Or a Haiti earthquake victim. Or an undereducated DC youth, or even a solider in the CURRENT WAR?!?! -ok. off soap box-
*Malcom Litte- Malcom X's government name pre-Muslim conversion*

**Smaller Doses**

HOWARD STERN COURTING IDEA OF HOSTING IDOL- If anyone still cares about the lack of talent and consistency that is American Idol, Simon's on his way out and Howard Stern may step in. If Idol will pay him $100 million dollars. WOW. I stopped watching this show years ago, and now that the judge's roster keeps changing like Destiny's Child... I. Just. Can't.
JOHN EDWARDS SEX TAPE???- Yes, it appears that the official sex tape of Senator Edwards and mistress Rielle Hunter, was ordered to be retrieved and maybe released. Will you watch that political porn???

Peace,

Dawnavette

DIDDY'S BACK-O LETS DO IT REMIX!!!

2010-02-08T12:22:00.000-08:00

-Over the Super Bowl weekend, Diddy decided to provide an impromptu video of his smash, underground remix of Wacka Flocka's hit "O Let's Do IT"!!!!! Ya'll know I HATED the original... but Diddy's verse has been on repeat ALL DAY LONG!!!!!! He makes errrryone a believer when he reminds (o soooo boss-like) that the last few years have been filled with imitators of his legendary swag!!! (yea I said it- swag. I know it's overused. I'm trying to stop) ANYway- turn up ya speakers to the HAWTness that is the Gmix. Diddy Style.

FAV LINES:

*I sip my own shit...Ciroc by the CASE LOAD
*I don't mess w. fake ho's, I only mess with J-LO's

Oh yea. You know what school he attended, right??? HUUUUUUU!!!!!!! YOUUUU KNOOOOWW!!!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

WHO DAT NATION, BUSH & TUSH DRAMA,

2010-02-08T08:59:00.000-08:00

WHO DAT?! INDEED!!!! SUPERBOWL CHAMPS- DAT'S WHO!!!!

*Video of Jigga's Official Super Bowl Intro w. Orchestra- whomp whomp/ commercialism*
-Yes, it's past official. The New Orleans SAINTS defeated the Indianapolis COLTS 31-17, for a history-marking WIN!!!!! Phenom Drew Brees took top MVP honors, and all of South Beach was painted Black and Gold (I'm told...) Any and every fan, resident, or band wagon-hopper all over the Nation is doin' the 2nd Line, called out sick at work, and booking tickets to Mardi Gras this wknd just to continue the wave of crunkness that has taken over. Congrats... although I was always rooting for the COLTS... CONGRATS!!! Seriously. The city was past-due for reasons to celebrate, and this cause will not only bring a boost to everyone's spirits, but to the New Orleans economy as well.

KIM & REGGIE CHRONICLES-DRAMA FOR THE CHAMP??!!

-So, most of you know of my tolerate/despise relationship with Kim Kardashian, particularly when it comes to her lil' chocolate man-candy that is Reggie Bush. My official summery: I've yet to understand/support her meteoric rise to fame and success off the strength of her sex tape with RAY J, yet I can't stop watching her reality show?! Sad. I know. So you already know I'm not a supporter of she and Bush's relationship and now rumored engagement. Howevs, 2010 is the year to try and spread more love... so I've not created any picket signs or thought of crashing their impending nuptials, Angela Davis 'fro and all!!!
I was in fact pleasantly satisfied when the latest sidepiece rumor leaked: Bush's constant jump-off, Carmen Otega, has surfaced with a video of her giving a tour of his Los Angeles CRIB!!!!! Way to throw salt on the eve of the alleged engagement announcement.
*video below; source: Sandra Rose*

FLAG ON THE PLAY!!!!!!! PIMPTRESS DOWN!!!! Kardashian injured!!!! There are sooo many relationship violations when a simple YouTube video exposes your man as a cheat, and his sidepiece as the crafty opportunist... I'm grabbing some popcorn. Now, this rumor/video did gain steam post the SuperBowl Champ's win... so maybe this is all manipulative exploitation...or jealousy?!?! Def. watching this drama-filled story. Why not?? It's better than the boring Ray J flick....

Peace,

Dawnavette

BET HONORS!! A WRAP-UP

2010-02-02T11:51:00.000-08:00

   Last night, BET premiered it's annual Honors special, originally taped January 16 in Washington, DC, and it was actually...well...entertaining!!!! This year's honorees included:
Queen Latifah (media), Sean "P. Diddy" Combs (entrepreneur), Dr. Kieth Black (public service) , Dr. Ruth J. Simmons (education), and Whitney Houston (entertainment).
   Gabrielle Union hosted for the second year in a row, equipped with several polyester gown changes (none of which impressed moi), and several pounds of Grade-A yaki!!!Notable performances by artists including India.Arie, Maxwell, Patti LaBelle, Jasmine Sullivan, and Take 6 among others, were sprinkled throughout the show.
   Diddy was blessed by an OUTSTANDING, out-ya-seat medley by Queen Mary J. Blidge; she was flawlessly styled with effortless vocals. Their bond reaches 20 years strong, and Diddy moved the crowd towards-tears during his lengthy, albeit inspiring and appropriate, acceptance speech.
   I found myself puzzled at the pairing of Trey Songz and legendary Stevie Wonder...not once, but TWICE?! It was rather awkward at first...but I guess they made it work. Must say that I was too proud to see Trey (Petersburg,VA, homie) alongside greatness. The power of hard work and never giving up on a dream.
   The absolute FAIL of the night was the decision to allow Ryan Leslie to sing a song. By himself. IN PUBLIC?!?! It was soo horrible, I don't EVER have to hear Ryan sing the alphabet, much less "I Choose You". EVER. I started to doubt his musical abilities (Harvard grad or NOT-that shyt STUNK!!) as he's got plenty of production credits. My advise: STAY behind the BOARDS man. Performance is not ya thing son.
   During the Whitney Houston tribute, the Diva was serenaded by Jennifer Hudson belting "I Will Always Love You" and (possibly the best performance of the night) Kim Burell's serenade of "Believe In You And Me".Whitney could NOT contain herself?!?! She ran to the bottom of the stage (front of crowd) where she remained an excited sweaty mess for the duration of her "honors" set.

**More BET Honors performances from ThatGrapeJuice**

Overall, the show was quite entertaining for 2 hours, and BET did a great job saluting promeninant Black figures making strides in their respective genres.

Peace,

Dawnavette

ANNUAL GRAMMY WRAP-UP

2010-02-02T09:39:00.000-08:00

Sunday night marked the live showing of the 52 Annual Grammy Awards!!!! Below, my annual Wrap UP!!!!!!!!

GRAMMYS

-This year's show boasted some of the biggest names in music for 2009. Everyone including Katy Perry, Princess RiRi, Jay-Z, Kings of Leon, Drake, Weezy, India.Arie, Maxwell, and Trey Songz were all in attendance!! MS. Beyaki Knowles-Carter was nominated for an unprecedented 9-Grammys, (history for a female artist! She took home 6!) however... if you watched the show, it was past obvious the committee decided (months ago) to make moderately-talented Taylor Swift the show's "Darling".
Lady GaGa opened the show with an impossibly original, theatric, entertaining and phenomenal set!!! She looked and sounded like the very definition of a ROCKSTAR!! When she segued to a live piano duet with Sir Elton John, it became official that GAGA is THAT DEAL?!?! No one in the industry could deny her talent after (arguably) the night's best performance. As GAGA was the toast/talent du jour for the evening, all the other celebs tried their hardest to match her over-the-top standard...
Pink had one of the most jaw-dropping performances as she sang while being hoisted above the crowd, constantly-spinning, and dunking in water, amidst a host of arial performers. Unsure if she was living out a circus fantasy, but she soaked half the audience in her sheer/nude/body suit with ribbons covering her lady pieces...I was underwhelmed.
Not to be outdone, Beyaki sang "If I Were A Boy" and mid-set broke into a raunchy cover of Alanis Morrisette's "You Outta Know". She performed in a futuristic, structured, black mini-dress, complete with male military brigade, pyrotechnics, and Kerri Hilson-esque floor grind?!?! Whatthejoejacksonhell?!?! No "Single Ladies"?!?! NINE nominieees and she resorted to foolywang. WOW. She did shout out her "husband", a first that obviously shocked Jigga himself.
Jamie Foxx had a hillarious set intro, a high-energy performance, but then lost me completely when he went over the top (GAGA INFLUENCE) with smoke, strobe lights, guitarist Slash (ERR?!?!), a coon-tastic T-Pain and Jaimie's biological sister...all colliding at the end of "Blame It On The Alcohol". Indeed.
Press Sweetheart Taylor Swift performed live with Stevie Nicks...it was thisclose to unbearable?!?! That lil' gurl can't sing live, and I'm PAST ready for her to crawl under a daum ROCK!!!!
The much-hyped Michael Jackson tribute was a dissapointment that featured Carrie Underwood (ER?), Smokey Robinson, Usher, and JHud. Though the artists sounded good on Michael's "What About Us", the 3-D technology was a let down. Prince and Paris, MJ's children, accepted the award on his behalf dressed like lil' MJ's; eloquent yet awkward at the same time. The tribute set served as official realization that MJ is seriously gone and all that's left are...well...everyone else. (JHud looked SMASHING though!!)
Maxwell took home his first Grammy, and attempted a live performance (def. wasn't his best. I was saddened) and the show closed with Drake, Lil' Wayne, and Eminem rapping "Forever". In the midst of ALL of the Grammy action, one question continued blaring: WHERE THE FCUK IS KANYE WEST?!?!?! THE GAME NEEDED YOU!!!!!!!! I thirsted for Kanye's live artistry, musicianship, and award acceptance (as he won 2 Grammys. Talent is UNDENIABLE). We miss you Kanye. We now know Taylor Swift is the Illuminati, and you were right per usual. PLEASE make a public comeback to music. Thanks.
Complete Listing of Nominees/ Winners
FASHION HITS
5. Miley Cirus-chose a long-sleeved micro mini (Herve Leger) that was fresh, youthful, and made her a chic standout on the carpet. (loved this look)
4. Jennifer Hudson- the structured and modern design accentuated her PERFECTLY. The best I've ever seen her look, and she OWNED the bangs!
3. Lea Michelle-Lea's quite the new fashion plate, and the cocktail length that showed off her gams, mixed with the feathered skirt-POW!!!
2. Princess RiRi-WHAT ARTWORK!!!! Her dress was perfection!!! She'd have been #1 if she opted for different hair & makeup as her choice washed her out. The dress wore RiRi, and that never happens...
1. Lady GaGa-ROCKSTAR FASHION that is toooo fresh for commentary. She killed it. Thank you Mr. Armani.

FASHION MISSES

5. Carrie Underwood- looked like cheap paper mache.Ew.
4. Taylor Swift- A fail from the color, sequence, and tacky hemline. whomp whomp.
3. Ke$ha-ZERO fashion sense, outdated dress and tacky color/ detail. She wasn't serious...was she??
2. Beyaki- It appeared she rocked floor-length Coogie wear; her hair was too tacky to type about.
1. Katy Perry-Whatthejoejacksonhell did she select?! Bedazzled floral accents, unflattering color, and wack draping. Katy. STOP IT?!?!
**Click link to view Red Carpet Fashion Mentioned**
Overall, I'd give the Grammys a C+, with GaGa extra credit (she def. was my pick as the night's best). What did you think?

Peace,

Dawnavette

RADIO'S DYING, PEACE TO UGLY BETTY, "PANTS" @ GRAMMYS!!

2010-01-29T15:44:00.000-08:00

RADIO (TEMPORARILY??) LOOSES TWO GREAT PERSONALITIES

-I don't know what's going on in the world when Washington, DC's Donnie Simpson, and Atlanta, Georgia's Joyce Littel, both part ways with their original home-stations?!?! Early last week, rumors flew that Atl radio station V103 and it's on-air personality Joyce Littel & signature Quiet Storm program, would part ways. The show will remain dubbed the "Quiet Storm", air during regular times, but there is no Joyce. No invited poets, sexy call-in's, exclusive live performances, nada. Also, yesterday it was announced that DC's legendary Donnie Simpson would no longer remain an on-air personality at WPGC. Donnie Simpson, "Green Eyes" who has hosted the morning show for over 32 years Seriously?? Both departures come as a shock, and additional signs that old radio, expressive, personable, and familiar, is crushed for new radio, commercial, indecent, and repetitive.
We've all heard the Kathy Hughes PSA's, with her awkward-sounding self, encouraging listeners to alert their congressperson of the threatening tax on urban radio stations. Also, a growing trend, local on-air personalities and their "Morning Shows" have started to peel off for nationally syndicated shows by famous comedians. Now that two notable radio stars familiar in my development are gone, I am honestly questioning the state of radio as I once knew. Statistically, the ratings for radio have been trickling off for years as satellite and mp3 collections have become the norm. The younger generation thirsts for consistent personalities with uplifting vision that extends further than commercialism and marketing dollars. I hope local radio can find its way again; one day soon allow the underground and local artists with phenomenal talent a platform as opposed to the mediocre, obscenity-filled, and shallow-lyric-ed staples heard 24/7.

**Smaller Doses**
Ugly Betty-It's. A. Wrap. -The season running comedy based on a physically and socially awkward young lady with a charming spirit working in fashion (the irony) has been canceled. It was growing rather stale in my opinion, but I will miss Vanessa Williams' gorgeous fashion stills in the show promos.
PANTS ON THE GROUND PERFORMANCE @ GRAMMYS-Well, General Larry Platt will be performing his sensational-hit "Pants On The Ground" on the red carpet before the ceremony. TMZ is reporting that he has yet to secure a ticket to the awards show taped live this Sunday. WOW. WHAT is the nation coming to?! I guess...

Peace,

Dawnavette

iPAD HYPE!!! iPAD HYPE!!!!!!!!!

2010-01-28T14:02:00.000-08:00

APPLE iPAD DEBUTS TO MUCH HYPE AND DISCUSSION

-After months of anticipation and rumor, Steve Jobs introduced the first model of the Apple iPAD, an advanced hybrid of the iPhone (smartphone) and a laptop. It will access the internet at unprecedented speeds, it's working with a 1GHz processor, LED back lit IPS display and a 10 inch, multitouch screen. The model will come in optional 16, 32, and 64 gigabyte versions, with pricing starting at $499. That's relatively low considering... iPad shipping will start in 60 days, and interested consumers can join the waiting list now at Apple.com.
Now with all the bells and whistles, there are several possible issues with the iPad as well. The first, is that wackness of a NAME?! Others include that the first model does not come equipped with a camera, so the option to video record or Skype as anticipated, may not be available. Service will still be with ATT (SKETCH & SPOTTY), and aside from the impressive iBook feature (that embarrasses that of a Kindle), it would appear that it is simply an enlarged iPhone tablet. Sowwy. I have an iPhone and have been pleasantly obsessed for over a year now. The largest draw there is my 3G coverage, unlimited apps and itunes (which changed my life-seriously) and the pure sleekness of the iPhone. If this new invention does all of that, only on a larger screen w. more activity for my fingers...what's all the hype?!?

Pardon me if I don't rush in line to cop one of the first generation iPads. I just don't think I will. The second generation...after all the kinks have been worked out, the features upgraded, and price lowered, then I'll fork over an additional $thousand to Apple (like they don't get you for a $1K minimum?!?! My Mac users know my vice...). A mobile tablet is definitely the way of the future, after all, American technological guru Bill Gates predicted such over 8 years ago. Soon there will be no more paper print or abundance of text books that force one to shell hundreds for a semester's use. Until that concept becomes more mainstream... the iPad is an exciting gadget, but not one I'll invest in right out the gate.

Peace,

Dawnavette

Oden Sext Apology, Pink on Beyaki, HOPE FOR HAITI NOW

2010-01-27T13:31:00.000-08:00

PINK ISN'T ABOVE MOCKING BEYAKI/ FINDS HER STUPID. WORD.

-If you read into her "Body Language", it would appear that Pink is making fun of Beyaki during a live performance of "Stupid Girls". At the 0:33 mark, Pink is clearly insulting the gyrations globally associated w. BeYaki...guess Pink's not a fan of slutty dance moves and camel toe. We can't all be stans...

SEXTING: WHO STILL DOES THAT?! GREG ODEN.

-So earlier in the week pictures circulated on multiple blogsites of Portland Trailblazer's own Greg Oden's penis. Yes... seems like yet another wave of nudie pics, as taken by Greg and sent to his "lady friend" over 8 months ago, surfaced. In reality, the "lady friend" scorned decided to shop the photos around for $$$$. Yesterday, Oden issued an apology statement. "I would like to apologize to everybody: Portland, the fans, the organization, it was very embarrassing." Did Kim Kardashian teach us ANYThing?!?! Oden, I'm surprised such a young guy would fall prey to such an old tactic: sexting/ sext pics. BOOOO!! Upgrade to a more creative activity or a woman with better discretion. JEEZ.

HOPE FOR HAITI NOW!!! STILL THE BEST TELETHON EVER!!!!!

-If you missed the televised Hope for Haiti Now Telethon that aired Friday night on EVERY major network, you missed what could arguably be considered the best telethon ever. Filled-to-the brim with A-list celebrities and performers, it was a two-hour heart gripping night in television for the best purpose- raising funds for Haiti. Artists including Sting, Justin Timberlake, Jay-Z, Rihanna, Bono, Beyonce, Jennifer Hudson to name a few, touched a global audience to give and raised an estimated $57million and counting! The singles from the telethon are available for download at itunes (my FAV songs were Sting's Driven to Tears and J.Timberlake's rendition of Hallelujah) and officially just topped the Billboard Charts. You can still donate to the cause for the next six months. Please give all you can to support Haiti!!!!!!!!

CORINNE BAILEY RAE IS BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
One of my FAVORITE female artists EVER, has just dropped her second studio release, The SEA!!! The melodic and soothing voice that is Corrine's received Grammy's, critical and commercial success in 2008 ("Put Your Records On", "Trouble Sleeping"). An article by ABC.news details her difficult and on-going grief period as well as describes the tone of the new album. A MUST COP!!!!!!!!

Ususally I don't do this... but uh...CHECK IT OUT!!!!!! (Click link)
-I was sent this at wk by a certain Chi-townBestie, and I just couldn't resist re-posting. WHATTHEJOEJACKSONHELL indeed?!?! I can't take it seriously, from the many typos in the invite to the mall-pic poses. WOW. Someone, get your cousins!!!

*With that, I'm headed home to watch and write about tonight's Presidential address and review this Apple Tablet hype. Yea, I fell victim too. Oh! Who's playing that drinking game during the Presidential Address this evening??? Although put on late... I'll be playing!!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

ALL-WHITE BBALL, A VIOLENT G, and IN CASE U MISSED OPRAH,

2010-01-21T12:52:00.000-08:00

AN ALL-WHITE BASKETBALL LEAGUE IS FIGHTING FOR CREDIBILITY
-This week, the official press release from the All American Basketball Alliance (AABA) was made public, and the recent announcement shocked...well...most. The AABA is organization is starting a solely all-Caucasian basketball league. Yes. whites-only, and the organization is looking for 12 major cities (of COURSE he's considering ATL?!) to host teams (get on board with the idea). The inaugural season is slated to begin in June, 2010. Whatthejoejacksonhell???!!!!???
AABA Commissioner, Don "Moose" Lewis stated,
"There's nothing hatred about what we're doing," he said. "I don't hate anyone of color. But people of white, American-born citizens are in the minority now. Here's a league for white players to play fundamental basketball, which they like."
Lewis pointed out his desire to emphasize "fundamental basketball" instead of "street-ball" played by "people of color." "Moose" even referenced the recent embarrassments of NBA superstars such as Gilbert Arenas (suspension for bringing handgun into locker-room/ place of business) as examples of frequent dissatisfaction with the current NBA roster.
"Would you want to go to the game and worry about a player flipping you off or attacking you in the stands or grabbing their crotch?" "Moose" said. "That's the culture today, and in a free country we should have the right to move ourselves in a better direction."
He continued, "People will come out and support a product they can identify with. I'm the spoken minority right now, but if people will give us a chance, it'll work... The white game of basketball, which is essentially a fundamental game, works."

Considering that Black athletes aren't the dominate majority in any sport other than Basketball, as well as the parallels to modern-slavery that exist within professional sporting arenas, it is indeed insulting that a man dubbing himself "Moose", would continue to try and get this blatantly racist league approved?! There are so many ignorant layers to this story, from the outlandish requirements for eligibility, "Only natural born US citizens with both parents of Caucasian race" to the reasoning behind the racist exclusivity, "the white game of basketball...a fundamental game". If ever there was a reminder of the deeply racist sentiments that (Still) prevail in our everyday dealings, this is one. Thank you oh Grand Wizard "Moose" Lewis for jarring our memories to the reasoning and need for minority leagues, organizations, and groups that work to promote inclusion and equal recognition within a Western society.

WHEN KEEPIN' IT REAL GOES TOO WRONG: G'S TO GENTS VERSION

-So yesterday ATL was abuzz that ex-reality tv star Markice "Kesan" Moore, formerly of MTV's "G's to Gents" fame, turned himself in after being on the run and on the Cobb County Most Wanted list. He is recently charged for the alleged abuse his 1-year-old infant daughter as she's suffering from two broken arms, a broken leg, 3 broken ribs, a broken clavicle bone, and multiple bruises.
Though Kesan denied responsibility for all the charges of abuse against his daughter, he did admit to breaking her wrist post a fall from her bed... (side eye). He called into local Atlanta radio station V103 yesterday afternoon, and has since turned himself in. Kesan posted bail for $20,000.00 and is awaiting a court date. WOW. How in the world does one get involved in such MESS?!?! I will be praying for the recovery and safety of the little girl. Jesus... take the WHEEL!!!!

**Smaller Doses**

Oprah Pulls BIG Guests for HAITI Relief: RiRi, Maxwell, and Wycleff, OH MY!!!!

-Yesterday Oprah taped/ premiered her Haiti relief episode which featured live performances from Princess RiRi and Maxwell.
*RiRi (her acoustic version; she looked GREAT but sounded rather disappointing. Sowwwwy)

*Maxwell

Both performances are available for download and will go towards Haiti relief efforts.
*Oprah also interviewed Wycleff on his account of Haiti post-quake. Wycleff will announced that he will also appear on the much-hyped, much-anticipated, Viacom Networks-sponsored, celeb-studded,
prime-time telethon which will air on all of your favorite channels tomorrow night. Continue to pray & help HAITI!!!!!!

JOHN EDWARDS: You ARE the FATHER!!!

-Surprise, Surprise, J. Edwards admitted today (FINALLY) that he fathered Frances Quinn Hunter, the 2-year-old daughter of his former mistress, Rielle Hunter. He also expressed regret in the extended denial. WHOMP WHOMP!!

"LOVE THAT GIRL": Anyone?? ANYONE??

-Martin Lawrence is executive producing a new comedy on TVOne staring Tatyana Ali (Fresh Prince Of Bel Air) and the show aired nightly all this week. I've heard not a PEEP about the show (reviews, raves or otherwise) which is abnormal. I flipped past the closing credits the other night... so has anyone seen it?? Anyone?? ANYONE?! *Crickets Chirping*

With that, I'm going to enjoy the rest of this rainy and lazy Thursday in the Atown!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

Sad, But I can't take this Seriously.....

2010-01-19T13:28:00.000-08:00

Wacka Flocka Flame Shot: Refused to Give Up His Chain
-About an hour ago, Atlanta gossip sites and Twitter were amass relaying the rumor (now fact) that So Icy Entertainment's artist, Wacka Flocka Flame, was shot at a gas station on Ol' National Highway this afternoon. Allegedly after Wacka refused the gunmen, they fired two shots and he is now recovering in the hospital and everyone is praying for his family.
Now. Please excuse my cynicism, but aren't we in the midst of (arguably-due to natural disaster) the worst global devastation EVER?!?! I'm referencing the mass graves in continuous construction, and unimaginable death toll over in Haiti.... I found it rather unsettling that the Twitterverse (in particular) was up-in-arms over a shooting that may have been avoided had "Wacka" simply given up his chain, a material investment that has no value in the grand scheme of... LIFE. Again, prayers for his family, but let's put it into perspective. Wacka raps/ sings about a "hard" lifestyle, filled with drugs and no less, robberies. Maybe he'll reconsider what he puts out into the universe next time (doubtful), maybe he'll recover and donate the daum chain to Haiti relief efforts (I'll hold my breath). I'm guessing little will change post his medical release, and he'll continue to "DOOOOOO IIIIIIIITTTTT. YEEEEEEAAAA" (but no).
That's all for now kids!!!!!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

Tasia's Turn @ REALITY TV EMBARASSMENT, SADE,& MARCHING 100 @ 2010 SUPERBOWL!!

2010-01-12T13:10:00.000-08:00

Happy Tuesday kids!!!!! Hope you all had a blessed and productive day, Tuesday's can be a lil' rough!! I MUST SAY: GOD IS AWESOME!!!!!!!!! Take some time to tell HIM today...Are you ready?!?! Time for the Daily Dose!!!!! Let's GIT, GIT, GIIIIITTTTT IIIIIITTTTT!!!!!!!

FANTASIA's NEW SHOW: NOT "HOTT ON THA BLOCK YA KNOW"
Last night was the debut of the VH1 reality show, "Fantasia, For Real" starring American Idol alum Fantasia Barrino. Now. I've been dreading this since my beloved cracktv network began airing these gawd-awful promos. you've seen them: 'Tasia's at the Korean nail salon, of all stereotypical places, and as the tech is filling away at her acrylics, the camera pans up to her singing (acapella of course) that's she's next in line on the gravy train that is "reality television".
Flash to last night's episode, where viewers see first hand Fantasia financially supporting five GROWN people with no jobs, or extended education on ONE income. The most disturbing/ dysfunctional relationship (in my opinion) was that of 'Tasia and her older brother Teeny-28 with no education, job, ambition, or life plans. However, all of his bills and luxury desires are completely funded by, you guessed it, 'Tasia. The running plots include: 'Tasia continuing to support her family, 'Tasia struggling to revive her singing career, 'Tasia's struggle (STILL) with literacy and obtaining her G.E.D., and 'Tasia simply trying to stay in the public eye to maintain any type of noteriety.
Similar plot lines were witnessed several years ago when that GAWD-AWFUL Keyshia Cole show debuted on BET (the bane of Black existance) to much critical disdain and viewer popularity. Fast Forward through 2 more "successful" seasons, a spin-off starring solely the dysfuctional family memebers you were "trying to help" (on said "reality" show), family fame addictions that supplement the prior drug addictions, and below is the result.

Keyshia Cole: Estranged from Frankie & Neffie Till Further Notice

-Last week, Keyshia issued a statement through her publicist as to why she's been lying low out of the public eye, and why viewers may never see the Keyshia Cole show (the version inclusive of the family rehabilitation plot line). STATEMENT FROM KEYSHIA COLE:

To all my friends and fans – It’s time that I clear the air. It’s not a secret that I haven’t been in contact with my mother Frankie, and my sisters Neffe and Elite and I never wanted to air out our differences to the public. While I won’t go into detail here I find it necessary to let you guys know I decided to stop communication with them because I was at a point in my life where I needed serenity and peace to move forward.
Please know I love my family very much but it was time to let it go. You guys are a witness to a lot of what was happening from watching on air and online. Now that I am becoming a mom my passion for having a loving and peaceful home for my child is my #1 priority. It’s very important to both Daniel and I. My plate is very full; I have a new baby coming, we are planning our wedding and I am working in the studio on a new album that I am close to completing. The stress that my family is giving me with their constant false reports is not healthy and it’s not what I need at this time in my life.
Please understand that there are only a few people that can officially confirm or deny anything that’s happening in my life and that’s me, Daniel, and my publicist, Tresa Sanders. And my girl Monica never lies.
Love Your Girl,
KC

-Reason #523 filming and profiting from a "reality" show may not be the best idea. A better investment may be in family values, or life coaching to end these cycles of neglect, abuse, enabling, and dysfunction. Justsayin...

SADE's NEW VIDEO: SOILDER OF LOVE!!!!!!

Everyone's favorite Soul/Sensuality Muse, SADE, has returned, and her newest offering-"Solider of Love" has an AH-mazing video!!!!!! Dare I say REAL music is trying to return??? *Fingers Crossed* Until that's confirmed... feast on the glory...that is SADE!!!!

Sade - Soldier of Love
by bornovali

**Smaller Doses**

FAMU's INFAMOUS MARCHING 100 will perform in the 2010 SUPERBOWL!!!
-That's right, if you've NEVER seen the power, precision, and progressive sound that is the Marching 100, get ready as they've been asked to perform during the halftime show!!! Congrats to another HBCU with a great Band!!! (Ya'll awwwready know Howard University's SHOWTIME Marching Band is TOPFLIGHTCRAIG!!!!)
Matt Kemp & Princess RiRi: NOT DATING?!
-So, in spite of being photographed in Cabo, and Dubai over the holidays displaying affection, Mr. Kemp's publicist issued a statement saying the two are NOT dating. "I think dating may be a stretch at this point. They're just friends, and I don't think we can label it as anything other than friendship right now." WOW. Either he's trying to put a spin on the two for image/ career sake, or Kemp is interested in getting the milk without the cow... or however.
*Update, the two-some were spotted at Tyreese's birthday bash in LA on Monday... way to keep the lowpro...

Mark McGuire Finally Admits To Steroids Usage!!!

-Is anyone surprised?? ANYONE?? ANYONE??!?!!!!! *crickets chirping...*

Stay warm kids!! It's freezing down in ATL. SERIOUSLY. Have a great & blessed day!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

NAACP Shocks Again, Gilbert Suspended,

2010-01-07T08:59:00.000-08:00

Happy Thursday Kids!!!! What a blessed day, in spite of the chill!! Without further delay, let's git, git git iiiiiittt!!!!!!

NAACP Has Managed to SHOCK ME ONCE AGAIN?!?! Nominates Bravo's REAL HOUSEWIVES OF DULUTH FOR AN IMAGE AWARD??!?!?!?!
-I was shocked and appalled when Soul Train (NAACP supported their efforts) gave Ashanti the Aretha Franklin award (2002) during the height of Shani' mediocre career. However, I let it slide. I thought the mold was cracked and on the ground when two years ago the NAACP Image Awards began to honor Tyler Perry's House of Pain/ Meet The Browns. However, I came to understand that decision as one of principal in that Tyler's show was in the minority, an all-Black cast, etc. etc. I learned to let it go. This year, however, is an all-time low, and makes me take an uber-critical look at the organization. How in the JOEJACKSONHELL can the NAACP honestly nominate RHOA in the "BEST REALITY PROGRAM" category?!?! Seriously?? SERIOUSLY!!!!?!! Logically, if the past ten years have unveiled anything, it's that major network television is past uninterested in projecting OUR images in abundance for the mass viewing audience. In other words, THEY don't really want us. So, the few Black shows on tv, even those at the peak of bafoonery are to be commended and recognized, I overstand that (Tyler Perry, Frankie and Neffie, Monica, One Big Happy Family, etc.) But Real Housewives Of Duluth, have in NO way displayed in the casts' "realities", attempts in the production or guest appearance choices, or succeeded in executing anything in the realm of a Positive Black female role model/ housewife/ affluent ATLien. COMON' SON!!!! (Stolen from EdLova).
Admittedly, I love the show, LOVE, LOVE , LOVE the drama?!?! However, I remain a critical, and intelligent thinker. Weekly examples of fighting, home foreclosures, impending divorce settlement delusion, half-attempts at entrepreneurship, adultery, child neglect, constant disrespect of others, "elitist" mentality, lack of manners and social tact, are all the reasons we're entertained...but should NEVER be celebrated?!
We KNOW the show gets ratings, cause I am a faithful viewer/ fan- but I acknowledge that it is an exaggeration, pure shameless entertainment, and a guilty pleasure. I put about as much stock in DVRing ROHD as MTV's "Jersey Shore". However, if the White/ Italian community began to honor the depictions of the Fistpumping-Champs on "JS", hell would freeze over. TWICE?!?!
It past irritates me that our people continue to honor and accept mediocrity as the exception and elevate sheer coonery based upon its popularity!! If the NAACP wants to do something really impressive, it would make more gallant stances as an organization on the issues that truly matter, like continuing the fight to further OUR realistic, multi-dimensional and diverse imaging on television, and demanding that we have more networks and radio stations in that same vein. *Steps Down From Soapbox (Temporarily)*

GILBERT, GILBERT, GILBERT?!?! WHEN KEEPIN' IT REAL DESTROYS YOUR CAREER

-Surely you've heard the news by now that NBA Commissioner David J.Stern in conjunction with the Washington Wizards, have agreed to suspend All-Star Gilbert Arenas. With No pay. Indefinitely. This stems from Gilbert's actions over a week ago, when he allegedly brought handguns from his home in VA to the Verizon Center, and in the locker room, allegedly ensued in an argument with teammate Javaris Crittenton.Gilbert flashed his gun, and was suspended from playing in the game. Though he apologized, last Tuesday during a press conference he was seen encircled by teammates, joking and flashing imitation guns with his fingers. He also took to his Twitter account (Genius) to further make light of the situation. [Link credit to NecoleBitchy.com].

Allegedly Gilbert thought that though he is a resident of VA, he could carry weapons in DC, but the law states otherwise. Only DC residents are allowed to carry weapons, and guns are NEVER allowed in the workplace. Gilbert was given a $111million contract, but missed THAT memo?!?! Seriously?! And WHAT gamblin' debt my brotha, would provoke you to take your pride to that extreme?! That which would cause you to possibly loose all that you worked so hard for?!?! I. can't. take. that. seriously.
Sure, he is now apologizing and caused no immediate harm to anyone, but there are thousands of Black/Brown men in prison with that same mentality and excuse. Even Al Sharpton is in agreement with the Commissioner's decision, so the only one left to get it together is Gilbert. WOW.

*Smaller Doses*

Princess RiRi gotta NEW BOOSKIE!!!!

-What, you haven't seen the pictures plastered all over the gossip media?! Princess RiRi is canoodling all over the globe with Los Angeles Dodger Matt Kemp! (HAWT!!) Ontothenext indeed!!
Mariah Carey is tipsy, and doesn't care WHO knows it lambs!!!!
-M.C.Cannon accepted an award at the Palm Springs Film Festival for her performance in the critically-acclaimed "Precious" but was clearly wasted. Lee Daniels presented her with the award and she sluured her way through her acceptance speech (click link for footage). That's okay MiMi. At least you looked rather fierce, so you get a lil' pass.

With that loves, I'm headed home to bundle up in snow preparation in ATL. You know the city's not used to this weather so it will be a ghost-town on the roads tonight. Stay safe and warm!!!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

Happy NEW YEAR!!! Shawty Redd, Tiger's Pec's. and CONGRATS KASIM REED!!!!!

2010-01-04T13:41:00.000-08:00

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!! We're sooo blessed to be alive and thriving in a new decade!!!! I can't articulate the many blessings already experienced and those that I've received visions for that have yet to come into fruition!! I'm sure HE has GRAND plans for you as well!!!!!!!! SO, as the delay has been ETERNAL, let's get to today's Daily Dose!!!!

YET ANOTHER RAPPER, JAILED. SHAWTY REDD CHARGED WITH MURDER

-Over the break, popular Atlanta producer (and sometime rapper-aren't they ALL?!) Shawty Redd was arrested for murder post shooting Damon A. Martin, 35 from Detroit. Allegedly, Martin was killed over an arguemnt at Redd's house party in Hampton, GA. Real name, Demetrius Stewart, Shawty Redd was most known for producing tracks for Young Jeezy among others, and was Grammy-nominated for his work in 2007 on Snoop Dogg's smash hit, "Sensual Seduction". He's currently held in Henry County jail, with no bail, and awaiting an arraignment on January 12, 2010. I can't say this story impressed or shocked me... I honestly was just further saddened by foolish behavior still executed in a promising New Year. Daum Shawty. Daum.

WANNA BE APART OF THE SOLUTION??? MENTOR THE YOUTH!!!!!!!!

-January is National Mentoring Month, and the push is to encourage EVERYONE to mentor a child!!!! Just think, if everyone gave a few hours of time 2wice a month, there would be SUCH a noticeable change!!! Please click the link to find out about the many mentoring opportunities in your area!! Let me know of other ways you're making a difference, and encourage others to continue making a positive changes!!!

MAKE A VISION BOARD!!! A STEP TO VISION FRUITION!!!

-New Years Day, I was supposed to attend the much discussed "Vision Board Brunch", as hosted by Nina Brown (V-103, boss woman of God) at Justin's at 10:00am (click link for photos). Well, CLEARLY I missed it (as I was still hungover *DEAD* from the events hours prior-Biltmore, Room Service, Overall Partying Shenanigans) but wanted to share the benefits of the event!! Freddyo was ever-present and captured the fabulous event in photos and details the methodology behind the process on his site. I encourage EVERYONE to create their own Vision Board to kick off the New Year in a GRAND and blessed way!!

CONGRATS TO KASIM REEED!!!!!

-Today, Atlanta's 59th Mayor, Kasim Reed, was officially sworn into his position at the Georgia World Congress center!!!! The crowd was at capacity to witness such a historic event, and Reed has already received the promise from CNN, the pledge to donate funds towards the re-opening of recreational parks and programs throughout the city of Atlanta!!!! WAY to come out SWINGING brotha!!! The fellow Howard Alum hosted a prayer breakfast and service early this morning at Ben Hill United Methodist Church, and even requested the Howard University Choir to perform at his inauguration. WAY TO GO KASIM!!!!!!!! (HU!!!!!!! YOU KNOW!!!!!)

MORE TIGER WOODS...

-Tiger is gracing the February edition of Vanity Fair, in a photograph (taken pre-scandal) by famed photographer Annie Leibovitz. The article (click link to read) details Tiger's "downfall" while showcasing never-before seen "raw" images of Woods. WHOMP WHOMP. I'm really over hearing anymore about his infidelities, but he does look rather tasty on the cover... maybe I'm just envisioning the $$$...

With that kids, enjoy this freezing cold Monday, and I'll chat with you later!!

Peace,

Dawanvette

Guidos Getting Attention, President's Peace Prize Acceptance, and Nas' Financial Rape-Child Support?1?!

2009-12-10T09:28:00.000-08:00

Happy Thursday Kids!!! We're almost through the work week!!! I'm so excited... you have no idea! LOL. No time wasted, let's GET GIT GIT IIIIIITTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!

President Obama's Peace Prize Acceptance Amidst Controversy
-President Obama accepted his Nobel Peace Prize in Ozlo, Norway this morning. This feat comes one week to the day of the President announcing the decision to deploy an additional 30,000 US Troops to Afghanistan. The irony that he was to publicly accept an award at such a time of war and conflict in the Middle East, came as a shock to many, inclusive of myself. Here are a few excerpts from the President's press conference, courtesy of abcnews.com:
"Upon receiving news of the prize it was a great surprise to me," the president stated. "I have no doubt that there are others who may be more deserving."
The president continued that his "task here is to continue on the path that I believe is not only important for America but important for lasting peace and security for the world.
"That means pursuing a world free of nuclear weapons over time and strengthening our mechanisms to avoid nuclear proliferation," he said. "That means addressing climate change in an effective way. It means stabilizing counties like Afghanistan and mobilizing an international effort to terrorism that is consistent with our values and ideals. It means addressing issues of development and understanding the connection between economic justice and peace.
"So on a whole host of initiatives that I've put forward this year, some of which are beginning to bear fruit, the goal is not to win a popularity contest or to get an award -- even one as esteemed as the Nobel Peace Prize -- the goal is to advance American interests, make ourselves a continuing force for good in the world. Something that we have been for decades now," he said.
"And if I'm successful in those tasks then hopefully some of the criticism will subside, but that’s not really my concern," he concluded. "And if I'm not successful then all the praise and the awards in the world won't disguise that fact."
Congratulations President Obama, the third United States President to ever receive the award. I look forward to witnessing the peace and change you so passionately speak about.

Itallians Want NO MORE of "MTV's Jersey Shore"?!?!?!

-The hit that was MTV's "True Life: Jersey Shore House" has now become a full-fledged, prime-time, addictive ,reality show featuring eight "Guidos" and "Guidettes" from different parts of New York and New Jersey. The show pits them together in a shore house for the summer, think Real World, staring Guidos.
For those who were as in the dark as I on what a Guido is:

*a slang term for a lower class or working class urban American. The Guido stereotype is often portrayed as humorously thuggish with an overtly macho attitude.

*Clothing associated with the stereotype includes gold chains (often Figaro chains, cornicellos, or saint medallions), working class clothing such as plain T-shirts, muscle shirts or "guinea ts" (derived from the term "guinea," an ethnic slur for Italians), leather jackets, sweat or tracksuits, scally caps, unbuttoned dress shirts and bowling shirts, and dress suits. Slicked-back hair or pompadours, as are mustaches are a common stereotype. Recently, heavily gelled spiked hair has become a common stereotype. The hairstyle is commonly referred to as the Blowout or Brooklyn Fade – "Brook", for short. (Definitions courtesy of Wikepedia, 2009)

"Jersey Shore" is now in the midst of stirring controversy as several Italian American groups are citing offense at its airing, and corporate sponsors such as Dominos Pizza and American Family Insurance are pulling their ads. New York Post critic Linda Staci angrily stated,
"('Jersey Shore' furthers) the popular TV notion that Italian-Americans are gel-haired, thuggish ignoramuses with fake tans, no manners, no diction, no taste, no education, no sexual discretion, no hairdressers (for sure), no real knowledge of Italian culture and no ambition beyond expanding steroid- and silicone-enhanced bodies. Would that programing ever have been allowed if the group were African-Americans, Asians, Hispanics, Jewish people?"
-Really?? I say that if BET can continuously exploit an entire race (See BET entire programming lineup) for insane profits, I see nothing wrong with Viacom extending a similar opportunity for another class of ignorant Americans. Ignorantly exploiting stereotypes while passing them off as reality in spite of the televised delusion, have become the sole character ingredients in successful reality television shows. Let the Guido's play... and maybe other Americans can benefit from their publicized mistakes and behaviors. HELL. It's GREAT entertainment and equal opportunity Coonery!!!!!!

Nas Ordered to Pay Kelis MORE Money?!?!

- Los Angeles Supreme Court Judge David S. Cunningham III, ordered Nas (Nasir Jones) to pay almost-ex-wife Kelis (Kelis Rodgers) a staggering, pulse-racing, fifty-one thousand dollars ($51,101.00) a month??!!!! This was an increase as Nas was paying nearly 40,000.00 monthly to Kelis and his newborn son Knight since July.
This ruling was given in spite of Nas being presented as "cash-strapped" by his attorney, and highlighting his debts, inclusive of $700,000.00 to his former manager and (allegedly) millions to the IRS for tax evasion. Nas' last studio album was released in 2008, so maybe the judge thought his money would come from publishing or royalties?? Maybe the judge got Nas' money confused with Jay-Z's money...no idea why he would think Nas could afford that, or that a child would need that much to grow and become a respectable adult. Tough breaks. :(

**Small Doses**

Trey Songz, Usher, Keri Hilson: Invented Sex (Remix)

-The song that left me wanting more, has been revamped, re-recorded and officially dubbed "sexified" now that Ursher has jumped on the traack!! Not the "Papers" a breath-away-from CORNY Ursher, but that ol' skool, smooth, swag on a trillion Ursher that we all fell in love w. I almost forget those other two artists are on the track (which should've gone STRAIT to Ursher anyway)
Condolences to Tyler Perry
-Tyler Perry lost his mother, Willie Maxine Perry, Tuesday. She was only 64 years young.
Howard University Student Suspected of Terrorism
-Well, he's technically an HU student. Five Americans were recently arrested in Pakistan after they were reported missing in Washington, DC by their families at the end of November.The students allegedly left behind suicide videos stating that the Muslims must be defended, leading the FBI to search the Middle East. One of the five was a Dental student enrolled at Howard University, a predominately Black institution. SMDH. Chilllle....

That should satisfy you for a few hours kids... till the next post!! Please leave a comment, and check back! Have a GREAT DAY!!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

WHO is Nicky Manaj & LOL @ Global Warming??!!

2009-12-08T13:51:00.000-08:00

Happy Tuesday Kids!!!! There have been so many developments in the last wk that I'm embarrassed I didn't get to comment?!?! I did save a few bits of commentary for the continued drama (CHEETAH WOODS) so please read when you get a chance. APOLOGIES FOR THE DELAY, but I'm officially counting down till the launch of my new site, Dawnavette.com!!! I hope you grow as excited as I am... anywho. TIME for ya DAILY DOSE!!!! SO, LEt's GIT, GIT, GIT IIIIIIIIITTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!

Rap's Most Buzzed About Female Newcomer-But WHOTHEHELLISSHE?!?!?!

-Yesterday, Young Money's female rap MC, Nicky Manaj, made an appearance on 106 & Park. Twitter immediately went BA-NAN-AS, tweeting on every topic inclusive of Nicky's lace front wig, outfit choice, rumored luvahs, and sexual preference. I was PAST entertained!!! The drama was even better when veteran @$$ promoter-come-"baaaaadest Bish" Trina, was thrown into the Twitter war! The tweets were HIMscarical, and sadder still was that Trina tried to retaliate via Tweet. Emphasis on "tried", she FAILED. Complete Public Embarrassment.
*sidebar: Any celeb who isn't witty w. the comebacks and a fast/accurate typer, hasn't a CHANCE on Twitter. You. will. get. SMOKED. Carnage example: Mary J. Blidge*
Anywho, today's SandraRose posted this interesting video of a Nicky Manaj pre-"ladylike" makeover, name change, and male sexual preference.

Does ANYONE else but me remember when this first made a lil' wave...??? I thought it WEIRD years ago, cause I naively didn't think Remy Ma was a homosexual. JOKE was on yours truly. Today, the battle continues on SandraRose.com (grab some popcorn) and I can't stop watching!! This example speaks volumes to how artist image in the game means everything, while credibility and personal truths are little to nothing??!!! WAY too many fakers!! I can't take this seriously, and if Sandra's allegations are true (I'm confident they are)I'm glad I never got on the Nicky "Barbie-hype-ride-my-style" bus. MESSAGE!!!!

Global Warming, or An Excuse To Take Ya MIND OFF THE WAR??!!!
-Few are paying attention, what with all of the pop-culture, Tiger-is-a-CHEETAH-tom-foolery going on, but the United Nations Climate Change Conference is going on in Copenhagen Denmark Dec. 7-18, to discuss the effects of Global Warming . The skeptics who don't believe in the theory (Sarah Palin), have ignorantly dubbed it Climategate -- the release of hundreds of exchanges between leading climate change scientists. Some say the e-mails show an attempt by the scientific community to manipulate data, reinforcing the scientific community's perceptions of a warming planet. (definition courtesy of the Detroit Free Press).
Time Magazine has an in-depth article that gives a Cliffs Notes version of the latest scientific controversies, and why WE the admittedly ignorant public majority, should begin to pay attention. Interesting read!! Thoughts??

Enjoy your afternoon kids, it's a rainy one in the Atown! Stay blessed, and chat w. you SOON!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

Holiday Recovery, Soul TrainWreck Awards, & Serena Pay$ tha CO$T!!

2009-11-30T13:57:00.000-08:00

Hey Kids!!!! What a blessed Holiday Weekend (Turkey day for some, Tofu & Veggies Day for moi)!!!! I hope everyone is enjoying their family, friends, food, and blessings. Also hope that you're hanging in there on this Monday- as we continue the grind that is LIFE! Well, without further delay, it's time for the daily dose!!! LET's GIT GIT GIT IIIIIIITTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!

Soul Train Awards 2009: TOM FOOLERY with A Few Great Vocalists

-If you didn't bother to tune in to last night's airing of the Soul Train Awards (filmed weeks ago) you didn't miss much of anything. The show debuted on the new CENTRIC Television network that boasts, "African-American programming that features style, sophistication, heart & soul". Ooooooh CENTRIC *Fingers to the temple*. If the Soul Train Awards was indication...the station is on a one-way trip to Dis-aster! I predict the channel's lifespan will be less than 5 years.
The show looked like it was shot and pieced together by ammeters as there were noticeable mis-shots, random crowd viewings, and several speakers were cut a bit short. The same-ol "winners", i.e. BeYaki & Michael Jackson (neither showed), won the most awards last night. The newcomer was Ms.KeriHilson (one word), who won for Best New Artist *scratching head* and commenced to perform a "medley" of her "hits". The best thing during her cackling snooze-fest of a set was the stripper/performer strait outta the ATown- "Romance"! HE was sooo hawt-but I never have to see Keri perform live again. Other tawdry performances included Trey Songz, Toni Braxton, Ryan Leslie (WHY is he relevant?!?!), Mario ft. Sean Garrret and a WACK tribute to Uncle Charlie Wilson, can be skipped. SO unworthy of official commentary.
Highlights included: E. Badu, Fantasia, and Ledesi in an awesome tribute to the VOICE that is Shaka Kahn (I left out Angie Stone for she should've been omitted from that set), Chrisette Michelle (she SLAYED "Blame It On Me". Just she, a Black pants suit, fierce red stillettos, and a mike. SHUTDOWN!), and my personal favorite, the UBERTALENTED Raheem DeVaughn singing the soul-stirring "BANG BANG' feat. Ludacris and Prof. Griff!!!!!!! I was SWOONING from the couch!!!! Deserving honorable mentions go to Robin Thicke (YESSchile, perfect pitch on a panty-droppin jam) and Chico DeBarge (he sounded SO good, and we need MORE!!!!)

The producers even tried to mix segments of "Original" Soul Train footage with their "new" acts. A total fail. The majority of teh Overall verdict: A sub-par awards show saved by Taraji P. Henson's natural charm & beauty, w. sprinkles of REAL performace R&B. It was thisclose to setting US back...Seriously.

Serena Williams Ordered To Pay Fine & Placed On Probation Post Tantrum!!
The Grand Slam Comittee has rendered their decision surrounding Venus William's inappropriate outburst during the Sept. 12 US Open match. Officials deemed Serena's behavior inexcusable and ordered the tennis phenom to pay a $175,000.00 fine. This amount is a shocking first, but allegedly Serena's punishment could have been much worse. Serena was also placed on probation for the next two years, but if she incurs no violations during that time, her fine will be reduced to $82,500.00. She is also allowed to compete (and WIN) all Grand Slam and US Open tournaments while suspended. Honestly, she made out aaaaaaiggght, cause the whole WORLD was shook when that Compton came up outta Serena!!! And, she's so wealthy, she'll never miss that $82, 500. Snack money. LOL. JK. Keep ya head up Serena!!

***Small Doses***
SADE IS BACK!!!!!!!-Just when I was writing that there is no more REAL music, the queen of Love & Slow Jams is returning with an all-new studio album!!!!! I was SWOONING when I heard this!!!
Amber Rose Visited the ATL!!
-In Socialite news, the body that is AMBERROSE made an official appearance at club Primal this past Friday. The city went nutzo. Per usual people were spending more than they make to pay admission, take a photo and genereally claim to be in the same building as Amber. Pictures are posted on Necolebitchy.com...not feelin' Amber's outfit choice-at all. She's usually so well put together... :( Anyway, she pocketed $10,000.00 for the appearance and was spotted shopping through our wonderful city all wknd. Way to get paid for looking good, drinkin' liquor and spending more money, and she USED to be a stripper!!! Gotta love "Socialites"

DONT FORGET TO VOTE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Tomorrow is the OFFICIAL runoff Election for the NEW mayor of ATLANTA!!!!!!! KASIM REED ALL DAY!!! But if you choose that "other" candidate, it's cool just get out and VOTE!!!!!!!

With that, I'm going to do me the rest of this day. Remember that Gossip Girl is all new tonight, and that hour is a GREAT time to give a mani/pedi!!!!! Have a great day, and stay blessed kids!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

Abbriviated AMA Wrap UP!!!

2009-11-23T11:59:00.000-08:00

Happy Monday!!! So EVERYONE was tweeting and writing about the American Music Awards that aired last night on ABC. I did not have a front row seat nor catch the live showing, as I was trapped in that sickeningly-overrated New Moon. However, thanks to the diligent and speedy work of bloggers Necole Bitchy, and FreddyO.com. I have pieced together the more noteable performances for a mini-wrap-up (you know how I do). Made me feel like I was there... though clearly didn't miss too much. LOL. Let's GIT GIT GET IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

**Whitney Houston finally had her "comeback" performance of the year! She also took home the AMA for "International Artist". The tea was spilling that she may be back with her boonopolis Ray J- the two were seated near each other during the award ceremony and post show were spotted partying together... Get It Whitney!!!

JANET IS BACK!!!!!! SHE KILLED it with an opening medley of her Number One records!!!! I'm not feelin' the color choice of her performance outfit, but I appriciated the fashion risk on the style. Leave it to Janet to try and make it work.Well, E for Effort as she slaughtered her performace!!!!!

***In the vein of "Shoulda, woulda, coulda", Jennifer Lopez had an abysmal slip-up last night during her live performance of the song, "Louboutins". The track was originally written for R&B songstress Brandy, but Latin "sometime-pop star" Lopez snaked her for it. I keep rewinding and watching the slip up and my favorite quote, "Did you miss me" UM, NOOO?!?! Not performing THIS sub-parr??? It's HIMscarical to me. I dunno why...I don't think I'll be investing in the single, as the song does nothing for me.

***And Haters, say what you will, but RiRi had the most visually stunning performance of the night!!!! I throughly enjoyed her performace!!! Singing voice... not so much, but DAUM she's GREAT to look at!!!!

***Small Doses***

Brandy Sings In Her Bathroom...AGAIN?!?!

-So the Internet was filled with this clip over the weekend of Brandy wailing her rendition in-bathroom of Sam Cooke's "A Change Is Gon' Come". I didn't know she could stay on key accapella so I was impressed by that feat alone. Thoughts??
Adam Lambert : (attempt) Pushing Male Sexuality Envelope??!!
-In a sad attempt to remain relevant, American Idol looser (he was the more popular in the final two however) Adam Lambert made a debut live performance as a solo artist. It included crotch grabbing, male on male sexual suggestiveness and a simulation of oral sex. He told Rolling Stone Magazine that if ABC choose to edit any parts of his performance, it's "discrimination" O WOoooooow. No Comment. No real interest...
Mary J. Blidge-On Point AS USUAL!!!
-Back with that confidence we all know and love, Mary performed her song, "I AM" Live. That is my JAAAM!!!!!Great JOB!!!
Lady GaGa: THE Most Creative Performance Of The Night
-Click to see GaGa's artistic yet provocative performance of "Bad Romance" (SWOON)
and "Someday" on the piano. KILLED IT!!!!!!
AGAIN?!?! Jay-Z and Alica Keys' "Empire State of Mind"
-Who HASN't seen this performance live?!?! OFFICIALLY over this song. NEXT!!!!! (clip was -thankfully- removed)

What did YOU think of the night's performances??

And with that, I'm going to try and find some Monday motivation. Have a great afternoon!!!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

BEYONCE's "VIDEO PHONE" SMDH

2009-11-20T14:13:00.000-08:00

A Belle In Brooklyn, one of my favorite blog sites (a GREAT gfriend turned me on months ago-she motivated me to start a blog site) wrote an extensive blog about the Beyonce "Video Phone" effect. I completely agree with all written. In fact, I may even take a more judgmental stance, because I for one do not understand what the hell, in fact, BeYaki is singing about??!?!

I also don't understand the concept of the video, though I am impressed with the colors and Hype William's direction. This video blew me away at first because of the pure uncensored raw sexuality BeYaki's serving up, singing about...well...SEX?!?! This isn't the first time she's done this to unsuspecting audiences while passing it off as "art" or "entertainment", but this video actually left me with my mouth agape due to all of the p-poppin', squatting, jerking, @$$ shakin' and dropping Mrs. Jay-Z was doing on film.
No, not even the leotard made me raise an eyebrow, but I think it was the lyrical combination, "You say you want me/ so press record/ I'll let you film me on ya VIDEOPHONE" and gyrating. I.Was.Done. I definitely don't want my niece singing that shyyyyyt?!?!?!?!!!!! WHAT is BeYaki teaching the youth now?? REALLY?? REALLY. Even staunch BeYaki fans defend her, but don't know why... well I'm saying maybe everyone should stop and think. Seriously. For little girls ARE buying her albums and emulating her "swag" (gag) all influenced to become lil' Freaky @$$ Kim Kardashians???! It's just tooo much.

*Dear BeYaki,
Please don't release anymore overtly sexual videos, songs, or pop lock or drop anymore, until you have secured the Vegas Deal and only adults over the age of 21 can view your pornographic ways voluntarily. It is officially... offensive. Also, Lady GaGa looked rather weird along side of you. Please tell her to stay in her own unique lane and not try to bite your bedazzled, wind-machine, pu$$y-ever-present, lace-front, Jezebel ways. THANKS!!!!!

Louis Knockoffs Are Fashionable?!?! Say Whaaaaaaaaaaa??????
-This trend has been popular for years, but I must admit that I too was giving the ultimate *Side Eye of 2009 now that ERRRRRy woman walking the streets of Atlanta, NY, and DC (my favorite, frequented cities) rocking a basic Louis or a Chanel bag. CLEARLY, Louis Vuitton did not have a clearance sale, so what gives w. the sudden popularity of the fake bag??? SandraRose.com reported today that fake bags, are now the bag du jour to covet- sighting the recent recession as more reason not to drop your mortgage payment on the latest Speedy. WORD?!?! ATL, really?? I'll just continue to lust after the real thing...not a fan of imitations. I tried on Canal Street in NY. I really really did, but alas, my heart wasn't in it and I felt rushed. What do YOU think????

Stay Reading @ NEW POST....

MORE FOOLYWANG For The Week.... :) :)

2009-11-20T14:10:00.001-08:00

Another "Housewives" Spinoff- Gay Male Style?!!!

-There are rumors circulating that Bravo is in the midst of casting for a new show tentatively titled, "The Boys of ATL". The spin off will either be about men of power in the entertainment industry, or...my hope...gay men of Atlanta. (thanks FreddyO.com)
RUMOR PATROL: Twitter and the Internet were buzzing with the same rumor this week, that Real Housewife of Duluth Sheree may be (gasp) LEAVING as she may be (clutches chest) REPLACED?!?! I sure hope not, cause I was just starting to like her...Def. going to follow this story

SAY IT AIN'T SO: QUEEN TO Relinquish Her THRONE?!?!?!
-Yes, the world is saddened with the announcement that the QUEEN of ALL media, Oprah Winfrey, is ending her 25 year run of her iconic syndicated talk show. The announcement was made Thursday afternoon, and Oprah says her last show taping will be in September of 2011. Let's all hope she pulls a Jay-Z and this whole thing is a fake out. My heart cannot take it if this is truth (Seriously, I had a panic attack yesterday when I heard she was trying to leave)??!!?!

DIDDY RAN THE CITY: CELEBRATES 40 WITH....A PARTY!!!!!!!!
-So last night Diddy did what he's globally known for: throwing a party of the grandest scale in his beloved NYC!!! The Occasion was his 40th Birthday celebration, and everyone from his babymamas, old and new artists, tothe Kardashians (shrug) were in the BUILDING!!! Click the link for NecoleBitchy's exclusive Twitter photos of some of the flyyyyy guests. Please note how disturbing the ladies of "Dirty Money" appear. Tragic. SMDH.

WhatheJOEJACKSONHELL?!??!!: Bombing Attempt @ GRAND HUSTLE??
-Police are still investigating a bombing attempt at Grand Hustle records early Thursday morning between 2:30 a.m. and 3:00a.m. Two (40) Ounce bottles were found containing the flammable substance Molotov (mixed as a cocktail?!?) near the broken window of the office building. Grand Hustle CEO Derek Jeter suggested it may have been a disgruntled artist (WHO does this?!?) but noted that none were phased at Grand Hustle, all are well, and it's clearly business as usual. YEAAAAA BUDDYY!!!

With that kids, I'm off to continue brainstorming the new site layouts and make changes that (hopefully) will be pleasing in your eyes!!! SMooooooooooches, and have a blessed day!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

WEEK's WORTH OF FOOLYWANG!!!!!! HOT AND FREEESH!!!!!! ;)

2009-11-20T14:01:00.000-08:00

Hey Kids!!! What a blessing to be alive and alert this week!! Hope everyone is doing GREAT, and feeling blessed, as there is little time for anything else! Apologies for the delays in the postings, but I've been experiencing technical difficulties ALL wk long. HOWEVER: I am completely revamping this site and you will soon be directed to DAWNAVETTE.COM!!!! I can't wait!!! TOO excited!! SO, as there is a bit to discuss from the workweek, Let's GIT GIT GIT IT!!!!!

Janet Jackson's "In The Spotlight" Interview w. ABC's Robin Roberts

-In case you missed it, Janet gave her first in-depth public interview since her brother Michael Jackson's passing, and it aired Wednesday night at 10:00 pm. Janet appeared flawless (makeup, ivory sweater dress and banging shoes) and Robin Roberts giggled, squealed, and blushed the entire interview (I found Robert's behavior rather weird and annoying as she is a professional. She should maintain ALL girl-crushing till AFTER the cameras are rolling). Roberts asked rather general questions that Janet politely whispered through, no dirt, but it was entertaining nonetheless. JANET Interview "Highlights":
*Holds Dr.Conrad Murray responsible for her brother's death
*Had no knowledge Michael was addicted to Propofol (Getthefcukouttahere- he was using an IV drip?!?)
*Has ALWAYS called Joseph, "Joseph"; no questions. It is what it is. (Would YOU try "Daddy" w. that man??)
*Luvs being 40- "Don't really care what anyone thinks"
*Is NOT w. Jermaine Dupri (side eye) but they remain "good friends" (Riiiiiiiiiiight)
*Malibu home is SIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIICK.
*Gearing up for a new album release of #1's.
(For the entire interview, please click the link above)

50 Cent Knows NO LIMITS

1. If you haven't already heard, 50Cent's latest beef w. ex-prison guard Rick Ross "the BOSS" (yea right) has sunken to an all-time low with photos of 50, boxer Floyd Mayweather, and Rick Ross' son circulating across the Internet this week. This latest round has 50 taking jabs at Ross' parenting skills, features Ross' baby'smama (yet again- WHERE is the moral fabric of this chick?!) and Ross' lack of response. Floyd is dancing around the photos too...foolish. I feel soo bad for the kids, innocent pawns who's parents are LAMES in need of media attention. Can you IMAGINE the fights they'll experience growing up bc of this coonery?!? I can't. SMDH.
2. The Gran Dame Cougar, Vivica A. Fox, was recently spotted on the set of 50 Cent's latest video, shoot. The word is that she is playing his latest love interest, both in the video and in real life. SMDH. WOW.Are these two really going at it again??!! She'll never learn...
3. 50 allegedly got into a minor macho altercation backstage of the Jimmy Kimmel Live taping with the great NBA announcer Marv Albert. Really Fiddy??!?! Marv? Marv was unphased by all the foolywang, and kept it pimpin'.
4. 50 Cent's new album release, "Before I Self Distruct" is projected to sell a (shockingly) disapointing 160,000 copies. Fiddy is blaming an international leak on the low numbers.
-SOOO, ALLLL the aforementioned was for...WHAT?!?! I surely wish he'd quit Shuckin' & Jiving and make quality music reminescent of "Get Rich Or Die Trying"??!?! Is that too much to ask?!?! CLEARLY SO. Hence, the FIDDY drama ensues... SMDH

**CONTINUE TO NEW POST** :) :)

Gucci Jailed-AGAIN, KASIM REED LOCKS IT IN, RiRi ROCKS!!!!!! (Yea, I said it!!)

2009-11-13T11:51:00.000-08:00

Happy Friday Kids!!!!!!!! The weather this weekend will be LUV-LY if you're in the Atl, and there should be plenty to get involved with!!! I'm a lil' peeeved as I was slated to be in LA this wknd, but hell. Life happens. Hope to be in Sunny Cali next month... (smile) ANyWHO.... I know you're ready... so LET'S GIT, GIT, GIT IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIITTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!

GUCCI MANE IN JAIL. AGAIN. SERIOUSLY?!?!?!
- The 28-year old rap wonder Gucci Mane, government-Raderick Davis, was sentenced to six months jail time yesterday in Fulton County, GA for probation violation. Gucci's stint in jail will be on the eve of his latest studio/ commercial release (Dec. 8, 2009) "The State Vs. Radrick Davis".
In 2005, Gucci was convicted of hitting a club promoter with a pool cue, and ordered to complete 600 hours of Community Service. When he did not (surprise) he was sentenced to a year in jail, and upon release
headed directly to the recording studio to began his stellar 2009; appearing on over 5 commercial singles!! WHAT a way to end 2009- IN JAIL?!. This is yet ANOTHER example of when Keepin' It Real Goes Wrong (Thanks Dave).
I'm beyond bored, under impressed, and quickly disinterested in yet another rapper making national headlines for a conviction as opposed to a record sale. I'm even more irritated that the last few rappers in this category, Lil' Boosie, Lil' Wayne, T.I., and now Gucci Mane, are grown, rich, and (one would think) free-thinking individuals?!?! WHYthefcuk are these young men in situations that place their careers, families, and branding potential at stake?! I've been hearing of rappers going in and out of jail since I was in the fourth grade?!?! ENOUGH ALREADY!?!?! The bullox is so pathetic when you examine the reality of urban communities across the nation, see the need for more positive Black male role models, realize that young children look up to these rappers, yet the rapper's decision making skills do not improve. SMDH. WHEN will collective hip-hop grow up??? I'm the biggest hip-hop fan, but am quickly loosing interest in the coon-tastic behavior exhibited and promoted by this new class of artists. It's trife. I'm just sayin...

KATT WILLIAMS IS ACTING A FOOOOL?!?! WHERE IS HIS PUBLICIST?!?!
-WHAT the JOEJACKSONHELL is goin' on w. Katt Williams?!?!? Last night Williams held a press conference to announce that he was allegedly kicked out of a penthouse suite with a pre-paid (Ca$h) seven-night stay. According to Access Atlanta, Katt stated, "I'm at the point now where I'm standing out here with millions of dollars in movies and TV specials sold and most of them done right here in Atlanta," Williams Continued, "And to be ceremoniously dismissed at a hotel is sad."
The sketch meter goes through the roof as reports say that spokespersons from the hotel have NO record of Williams staying at the hotel. SMDH. THIS foolish act is fresh off the arrest Sunday in Coweta county for breaking and entering, and a week prior to that evading a kidnapping charge. Katt...Seriously?? SERIOUSLY!!!?! Maybe this is an extended publicity stunt, but it's getting too many side eyes to be considered a success. If he's on drugs, let's get him some rehab and a role model. If he is stressed, let's demand that he takes a career break... but for crying out crazy, PLEASE get him OUT of the media light?!?! SHEESH. EM-barrasssing.

**Smaller Doses**

Elecetion Could Be In The BAG for Kasim Reed!!

-Just Wednesday evening, Lisa Borders (D) announced that she would be backing Atlanta Mayoral candidate Kasim Reed during the Dec.1st runoff (election). Just yesterday evening, former (D) Georgia governor Roy Barnes formally endorsed Reed, adding to his lengthy list of political and celebrity endorsements. Go KASIM REED!!!! Don't forget to register and rock your vote (if possible) on December 1st.
Sarah Palin Makes Her Bestseller List (Assured) Debut
-For all interested parties...the moose shooting, teenage pregnancy promotin', capitalist, soccer mom, Geography major, and would be Vice-President of the free world will release her new book over the weekend "Going Rouge" -*blank stare* (crickets chirping) @ least she'll be on Oprah, and has a manuscript to back her claims against Levi. Ooooooh, Levi.... LMAO!!!!!!!!!

Princess RiRi VideoDebuts!!!!!!

-Thanks to YBF, a click on the link sets you up for the hawtest RiRi video yet, without waiting till tonight on 20/20!!!
O yea. Chris "Beatherdown" Brown's video "Crawl" debuted on Wendy (shudder) Williams today. (Click the link to catch a replay). Thoughts??? Still siding w. RiRi!!!!

With that kids, have a GREAT Friday!! Stay blessed, and be a blessing!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

Tyson's STILL Knocking Out, PIMP DOWN! , Sammy's Cries for HELP

2009-11-12T12:06:00.000-08:00

Happy THURSDAY!!!!!!!! Aren't we blessed to be among the living and thriving this MIRNIN!!! There are a few hot lil' topics worthy of discussion

Tyson Wins Brawl @ LAX- Not A Prizewinning Fight

-Mike Tyson was arrested yesterday for assaulting a random *papp whilst trying to exit the uber-crowded LAX airport in Los Angeles California. Tyson, 43 and his daughter, were surrounded by relentless photogs (reports state) and he asked repeatedly to be left alone. The conflict gets a bit sketch when the punch was thrown- Tyson's camp says that while he and his daughter were at the ticket counter, the papp got too close, and struck Tyson in an attempt to provoke. So, Tyson threw the punch in self defense. The photog's camp says- Tyson is an animal that punched him (unprovoked) in the face. RIIIGHT. The factual result was the aggressive papp was knocked to the ground and a bloody trail lingered as he skulked away through the airport.
Tyson was arrested for misdemeanor battery, left LAX in a squad car, and quickly posted bail ($20,000). After a similar incident several months ago with Kaynye West and a papp, surely LAX should consider legislation that protects celebs from invasion of their space and privacy, especially when traveling with their families!! Hey Pap- You got knocked the ###$@ OUT!!!!! AHAHAHA.
*papp= paparazzi, photographer, excessively annoying set to capture a celeb in action for profit. YOU KNOW!!!*

PIMP DOWN!!!! MAN DOWN!!!! PIMP IN DISTRESS!!!!

-If you haven't heard by now, famed comedian and actor Katt Williams ("It's PimPIN-Pimpin'!!) was arrested this weekend in Coweta Co. Georgia, for.... burglary charges?!?!?! The actor, allegedly in the Atlanta suburb filming a movie, was caught trying to remove jewelry and other goods through forcible entry. That's right, Katt was caught for breaking in his homie's house?! The homeowner, music producer Barry Hankerson, immediately called the police. Williams remained jailed throughout Monday, until he posted $40,000.00 in bail.
This story gets even more foolish as Katt and his lawyer have been loudly proclaiming that he wears more than the accused stolen amount of jewls on his person. WTH?!?! There are also audio tapes of a 911 call made by a 17-year-old young man just a week prior to Katt's arrest claiming that Williams was holding him hostage. No charges were filed, but these incidents are amidst a string of public foolywang...more as this story slowly falls apart...

She's Ready To Sign Those "PAPERS"

-It's official: Shaunie O'neal filed official legal separation with the intent to divorce on Monday in Los Angeles. Shaunie also wasted no time in removing her children from school in Florida and moving them to LA as well. She is seeking spousal support and full custody of the couple's (4) children.The separation is the latest move in the unraveling that is the O'neal marriage, courtesy of Shaq's (countless) indiscreet behaviors. Chile, I hope she takes him to the cleaners. He is a mess, and I can't respect messiness. That's just disrespectful the way he keeps his business out in the skreets?!?! Booooo.

DC Sniper Put to Eternal Sleep

-At 9:11pm Tuesday evening, the Commonwealth of Virginia reigned justice on convicted murderer John Muhammad, 48, by lethal injection. Muhammad was convicted of murdering over 10 random and innocent victims throughout Virginia, DC, and Maryland during the spring of 2002. He and young accomplice, Lee Boyd Malvo, went on a random killing spree, senselessly paralyzing the "DMV" for three long weeks. I remember... I was there. Officers say he did not utter a single word, and the death was witnessed by several of the victims' family members. I'm not a fan of capital punishment, and although the crime he was convicted of is very horrifying (I'm still not convinced they did it- another blog), it's still unsettling to me that the Virginia Commonwealth rushed his death, yet mass murderer Charles Manson is still alive.

**Small Doses**

Princess RiRi and "Beatherdown" Brown are set to FACE OFF!!!!

-Tomorrow marks the second leg of the show down between pop's most infamous ex-couple: Both stars are releasing their latest music videos from their latest new projects, slated for the same release date (COINCIDENCE MUCH?!?!?!!!!!!!!) Princess RiRi will return to ABC's 20/20- as she IS their lil' ratings darling- and debut her much anticipated hawtness "Russian Roulette" SWOOOON!!!! Chris "Beatherdown" Brown is taking a similar, albeit raunchier approach and debuting his latest, "Crawl" on that GAWD-Awful Wendy Williams Show (Shudder). Who do YOU think will win the ratings and fan approval?? (Anyone wanna put some money down, come see me!!)

Sammy Sosa: Really A Latino, Just Overdosed On Bleach

-So, baseball great Sammy Sosa was photographed all last week looking (scarily) about 5 shades lighter than he would normally appear. In addition to his newly-lightened skin, Sosa was also photographed wearing colored contact lenses. WOW. Just yesterday Sosa admitted to applying a bleaching cream to his skin, however he did not admit that he was channeling Michael Jackson. Cut it out Sammy, it's either an obsession with MJ or intense self-hatred that would EVER make someone want to bleach their skin to such a degree. Jesus... take the wheel.

With that, I'm breaking out early!!!! Have a great afternoon kids!!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

Princess RiRi Speaks, Beyaki, Shaq's Infedelity & RIP Soilders in Ft. Hood

2009-11-05T13:38:00.000-08:00

Happy THURSDAY KIDS!!!!! I had a great evening last night, enjoying the sounds of Wed.'s open-mike night @ the infamous Apache!!!! Today, mad tired, so maybe it wasn't such a great idea. Anywho, the day is fresh w. doses for your consumption, so without further delay... LET's GIT GIT GIT IIIIIITTTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!

Rihanna's Interview Breaks Silence-Sheds Light
-This morning, the first half of the much-hyped interview with Princess RiRi and Diane Sawyer (FAV) aired on Good Morning America. RiRi looked great (as I must say), and appeared confident and controlled. She gave a high-level account of her violent attack in Febuary, but focused less on the details of the incident and more on her reactions post-media frenzy. She even discusses feeling obligated as a role model for young women, judged on her decision to go back to "Beatherdown".
When questioned about her decision to return to Chris "Beatherdown" Brown, RiRi gets teary and advises young women to "EFF LOVE, cause LOVE is blind". She continues that women should remove themselves from the situation and look at it objectively in order to see clearly. I reallllllly felt for her, not only bc I'm a fan, but bc everyone plays the fool for love, but no one wants to be treated like that... and in public?!?! WOW. I
found myself loosing even more respect for "Beatherdown" bc RiRi appeared scared, and clearly embarassed not only for playing victim but for even dating such a mess.
I am beyond eager to see what the full interview tomorrow on 20/20 will air.
*RiRi also graces the December cover of Glamour Magazine, offering another take on her 2009 experiences. She looks AHmaZING!!! Go RIRI!!!!

Beyonce is Queen of Entertainment??
-The machine that is Matthew Knowles was successful in yet another business deal in the steps towards Beyaki's world domination. Media Fake Out is reporting that Papa Knowles is thisclose to closing a deal for Beyaki to perform exclusively at the Wynn Hotel and Casino in Las Vegas, commanding upwards of $100 million annually for a minimum of (5) five years. I repeat. BEYAKI could make upwards of $500,000,000.000- pushing her into the stratusphere of entertainment wealth. WOW. That's dumb money, but really, where else would you expect to see Beyaki??? She's getting up there in age (though it's not reflected in her strobe lighting, constant wind machine and couchie-cutting leotards) and Vegas has ALL the amenities an uberceleb like she would require for nightly performances. All the bedazzle she could ever dream or demand, and a constant audience thrilled to see her writhe and grind whilst they down free liquor! BRING. IT. ON!!!!! I'll even pay for that...
**In other KNOWLES news, TINA is launching her OWN clothing line--- Seriously--that will debut on QVC. (SURPRISE). This line is named, "MissTina" and you can find similar pieces @ your local Urban SwapMeet. GETthatcrapouttahere.... I'll never be a patron. I might catch a flame in all that daum polyester and sequinse. UUUGH.***

***Smaller Doses***
Fidelity is NOT THE BIZ @ the O'NEAL Household

Shquile O'Neal, bka "Big Cactus", is accused-yet AGAIN- of cheating on his wife Shauni. This time, w. he and Shauni's mutual friend,Laura Govan (Finace of NBA starGilbert Arenas . WOW. Maybe SOME couples should consider thearapy, a better publicist, or even better... divorce?!?! This is getting embarassing Shaq. SHeeeesh.

Shootings @ Texas Military Base Ft. Hood

-Breaking news that (7) people are listed as dead and (20) people are listed as injured during an afternoon shooting on a military base this afternoon. More information to follow as story continues to break. Please pray for all the soldiers involved.

Body Count Rises in Ohio

-This Monstrous case continues to unfold in Ohio?! Ohio police have uncovered an additional (2) bodies yesterday courtesy of that psycho mass murderer/ rapist!!!! JESUS take the wheel...

Empire STATE OF MIND!!!
-Yesterday marked the official World Series Win for the Yankees (Snoooze) and Mary J. Blidge's "interesting" rendition of the Star Spangled Banner. Yes. I said it. I was under impressed. SOWWWWY!!! (I can only throw shade cause I've sang this song MILLIONS of times. It's hella hard... she could've done better. JSaayinnn. )

With that kids, I'm going to finish grinding so I can get back to the Happy Hour that is my life!! LOL. At least today anyway. Stay Blessed!!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

Monster in Cleveland, Sheree's Sex Tape, and KASIM FOR MAYOR OF ATL!!!!!!!!!!

2009-11-04T13:25:00.000-08:00

Happy Wednesday Kids!!!!! It's the middle of the week, a GORG day in the ATL, and all's alive and CRACKIN!!! I know you're ready for that daily dose, so LET's GIT GIT GIT IIIIIIIIIIITTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!

Real-Life Horror in Ohio
-Yesterday, Ohio police officers raided the home of UBER creepy- mass-murderer and convicted sex-offender Anthony Sowell, and found four new bodies in addition to the six that were found last week. That brings the latest total to (10) ten bodies. Yes, this monster had been raping women and stashing their bodies throughout his HOME.
Other disgusting facts about the findings include bodies stuffed in crawl spaces, and a skull wrapped in a bag placed in the trash can. This story reads like a plot line for a new SAW flick, but it is beyond saddening to know that all these women lost their lives. Even worse, if at all measurable, is the fact that neighbors complained of an odor for years, and dozens more women are now coming forward to say they were also rape victims living in fear of their lives. I'm praying for the families of all the victims involved.

It's a RUNOFF!!!!!
-Atlanta Mayoral candidate Kasim Reed (HU!!) will continue campaigning as the votes were. Yesterday's elections showed a poor voter turn-out overall, and it looks like whichever candidate can get their supporters BACK out to the polls on Dec. 1st will win!!! NO DOUBT Kasim Reed will be the next Mayor of Atlanta!!!!!! On a similar note, a major order of business that neither candidate is listing as a priority is that of the environment and pollution within the city/ surrounding cities in Atlanta. A new article in Forbes lists the ATL as the "most toxic city" in America. WOW. Message!!

Sex and Scandal: Another plot twist for a RHODuluth

-So Sheree Whitfield, a classic character on the Real Housewives Of Duluth, was once married to Bob Whitfiled, former NFL star. Whilst they were married, allegedly Sheree got freak-yy, nast-yy, and plastic-yyyy according to Bob's recent interview on the Nigel and Marco radio show?! Bob blasts Sheree on front street claiming to have paid for Sheree's breasts and nose. He also says that he has sexy pictures and a sex tape of Sheree. Bob continues saying he feels he "Created Frankenstein"... well isn't that taking allll the credit... ?!?! LOL. I'd like to think she's controlling sooome parts of the foolishnesss... this will play out great during Season 3!!! Click to Listen to the entire interview

***Smaller Doses***

Soul Train Awards Taping in ATL

The Soul Train Awards were taped last night in Atlanta, and there was a hodgepodge of Black Hollywood in the city!!! Amidst all the (allegedly) amazing performances, red carpets, and stunting via Twitter Pics, I'm eager to see the results!! I wasn't present at the show taping, which premieres on the 29th of November on BET, but one of my fav. bloggers -Necole Bitchy had a great wrap-up and photo stills. Enjoy!

Lady GaGa Visited 106

-In what is yet another attempt to remain "current" and "multi-cultural" (WTH BET?!?!) BET's 106 and Park featured Lady GaGa as yesterday's guest. GaGa looked extra great (I'm a huge fan) and her shoes were swooon worthy, but it all seemed forced to me. Like, really?? are we REALLY gonna see a GaGa track on the top 10 here people?? At least she promoted her new duet/ cover of Beyaki's "Videophone". (Wasn't THAT track screaming for some assistance???) The two will premiere their video for the single tomorrow.

Slow news day otherwise, and I'm out for the afternoon kids!!!! Have a great one, and stay blessed!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

Frankie on Mathis, Soul Train in ATL, and Beyonce

2009-11-03T14:02:00.000-08:00

Happy Tuesday Kids!!! Hope everyone is blessed and progressive! This is a beautiful day in Georgia, and I'm so glad to be out and about after work today!So, you know it's time for the daily dose!!LET'S GET IIIIIIIIIITTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Racist Practices by Dallas' Favorite Cheerleader

- So Dallas Cowgirl Cheerlearder, Whitney Isleib, decided it would be a good idea if she dressed as Lil' Wayne for Halloween. Too Bad Whitney is a racist, and choose to don full Blackface makeup, gold fronts, locks, and (the ever-present prop) a pimp challace. She then thought it would be an even better idea to take photos and post them on Facebook. What a GENIUS!!! If she's not off the squad by the end of the week, I'm starting a letter writing campaign. Seriously. In the year of our Nation's first Black President, we still deal with racist behaviors such as this!? In no stretch do I find this comical, humorous or flattering, in fact it is beyond offensive, ignorant, and shameful. Electronic media allows such ignorance and hatred to spread at record speed, and racists such as she are provided a platform/support (EWWW to Facebook for even allowing her to post such crap) and backlash from all angles (Hell yea to allllll the blogs that wrote about what a moron Whitney is). Deep In the Heart Of Texas... INDEED. :(

SECURITY!!!!! GET FRANKIE!!!!!!!???!?!?!?!!!!
-So Keyshia Cole's mother, the infamous Frankie, appeared on Judge Mathis yesterday, in a dispute over a missed club appearance!! Rewind. This story wasn't set up for the buffoonery that airs weekly on BET otherwise known as the Frankie and Neffie Show, but an actual event?!?! I'll never understand why anyone would pay to have her appear anywhere, much less promote a party for other patrons?! This embarassing situation can be summized in a photo. Security... Please get Frankie...

***Smaller Doeses***

Whitney Houston is seling her New Jersey Mansion
-Yes the house that crack, ooops, I mean, love built, is up for auction. Houston claims it's not finances that prompted the sale, but negative memories of her relationship with Bobby Brown. As she has other homes, I'm sure this loss isn't too difficult to cope with. At least now she has more time for that "Bobby by the pound... and Whitney by the key..." lol. I kid!

Chris Brown is Rocking...Leggings???!?!

-The CD Cover for Chris "BeatherDown" Brown's latest offering was released over the net today: It features Chris... in all of his rocker manhood... standing in some tightasshell ballhugging leggings. WHATTHEJOEJACKSONHELL?!?! I admitedly don't understand the kids like I used to, but this fashion choice is almost criminal. Unless you're European, strait OUTTA Berlin, Germany... CUT.It.OUT. This debut was timed as Princess RiRi released her track listings for "Rated R" & buzz continues over her upcoming interviews. Crosspromotion much????!!!!

Amerie's New Album: In Stores Today!!

-I've been a fan of hers since I was a lil' Freshman @ HU!!!!! I HEART Mz. Amerie, and encourage everyone to cop!! She's such an original, so cute, and actually has a Degree (Georgetown much??) She's having issues w. itunes (No album, wth??) and shipping issues, so if u can't find it in stores, check Amazon.com. YEA!!

Atlanta Mayoral Race!!!!! VOTE PEOPLE!!!!
-Today was the day, and hopefully you encouraged others, and went out and rocked that VOTE!!!!!!!!!! Everyone knows I support KASIM REED!!!!!! The ONLY Choice for ATLiens!!!!!! I'm too excited to see how this election turned out... and will surely recap on tomorrow.

With that kids, I'm out. It's time for spirits, and socialization!!! Smooooches!!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

NOVEMBER MUSIC (RiRI)!!, 'PRECIOUS' FEVER, & Levi's Late but Himscarical!!

2009-11-02T14:06:00.000-08:00

Hello Kids!! Happy MONDAY!! Welcome to NOVEMBER!!!! It's like in the midst of 4th Quarter in 2009, so be sure to go out with a BANG!!!! You never know what 2010 will bring.Well, it's TIME for a daily dose!!!!!!!!!!!!! LET's GET IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CHRIS BROWN: Announcing A Tour With A Purpose (Career Revival??)

-Chris "Beat Her Down" Brown is baaaack, and gearing up for a winter promotional tour of his latest album, "Graffitti". Current single "Transform Ya" with Swizz Beatz and Lil' Wayne has already hit radio and he's releasing a second single simultaneously (MJ attempt anyone??) Chris just shot his second video for the single, "Crawl" w. Cassie staring as the video girl. He looks good... albeit a bit dorky, but surely someone's feelin' it...right?? Right??
Rihanna: Slow Build but WORTH IT!!!
Princess RiRi has leakeded her second single from the much anticipated "Rated R"- "Wait Your Turn"
Again. I'm FEELIN it!! I'll be rockin' this album allll holiday season long! RiRi's also set to appear on Good Morning America (Thurs. morning) and 20/20 (Friday evening) giving her first public interviews since her public beat-down. Now, Media Take Out spoiled the GMA exclusive and claim that RiRi is giving no new info. However, I'm holding fast till 20/20. RiRi won't let me down... my fingers are crossed!!!!
These announcements are traveling through the media and itunes fast (and simultaneously)Who do YOU think will be the bigger seller this holiday season?? Someone pull that daum trigger already...

SO CRUNK for PRECIOUS Debut!!!!!!
-The ELITE world is getting ready for the debut of PRECIOUS!!!!! YBF posted the latest stills of the recent Hollywood premiere of the film (there have been like-8?!?) and Mo'Nique FINALLY showed up!! She looked aaaahmazing!!! If you are STILL in the dark about the most anticipated movie of the season, you need to get with it... for now the movie has received approval from the NY Times!!! It's THE talk!!!! I'm ecstatic, for it's high time WE saw a substance-filled portrayal of an urban FEMALE survivor!!!!! 'Precious' details the struggles of an obese, Black, poor, abused, pregnant, teen struggling day-to-day in Harlem during 1987. Her gritty yet inspiring story puts the K.Kardashians and other countless, talentless, famous-for-no-reason stories of Hollywood tarts to SHAME! The film 'Precious' is based on the novel PUSH by Sapphire, and you simply MUST read it before viewing the film. Repeat: MUST?!?! If you're reading this blog you're all about intellectual stimulation, so indulge yourself and gain a bit of culture shock that forces you to open your mind to the plights of others around you. I swear you'll come out better for it... I'm even planning a 'Precious' Viewing party!!!! Get on Board!!!
'Precious' ATL Showtimes (Movie Opens Nov. 6th)

***Smaller Doses***:
Levi Johnston is capitalizing on his 5 min. of fame!!
Johnston is making his media rounds, the same time Sarah "Moose Shootin' " Palin is making her rounds for her new book promotion, to announce to the world that (Gasp) Palin is a sham of a public figure!!! SHOCKER! (Crickets chirping...) Um, thanks for blowing that whistle, but the majority of intelligent American public didn't buy that Soccer Mom Bullox from Day One.I applaud his efforts, but would've found it more exciting if he was a snitch during the... ELECTION?!?! Shyt$ n giggles just the same.

For the OBAMA haters: President's Plan is WORKING!!!!!!!!!!

-It's official: President Obama's Health care plan is slated to take off... and WORK!!!!! There's even been an increase in job offerings!!! Rahm Emanuel said he's "not dancing in the end zone".. but dammit I am!! GLOAT!! GLOAT!!!Read NYTimes article for complete statistics.

ATL: GET OUT AND VOTE!!!!

-Tomorrow is ELECTION DAY!!! The debates are done and tomorrow we vote for the next Mayor of Altanta GA!!! It's no secret that I'm backing Mayoral Democratic candidate Kasim Reed, as he's clearly the most qualified, able and efficient leader... and ATLien fighting FOR ATLiens. PLEASE tell EVERYONE you KNOW To get out and ROCK THE VOTE (KASIM REEEEED!!!!!!!) tomorrow!!! It's PAST crucial to keep Atlanta, the dopest city in Georgia, as progressive and peaceful as possible. Thanks!! oh, OF COURSE Kasim was a HOWARD GRADUATE?!?!? U KNOOOOOW!!!!

-With that, I'm going to continue my grind shawty. Don't block my SHINE SHAWTY!!! (Lyric from my new fav. joint- BigBoi feat. Gucci -Hater Blockers!! HEARD!!!!)

Peace,

Dawnavette

I'M BAAAAAAACK!!!!!!!!!!! RiRi's got the Gun, Kandi's Got the Clothes, I got, Guccimayne??? :)

2009-10-20T13:46:00.000-07:00

What the business shawty?? LOL. It's been too long... I have no excuses except to say that I have been working on some other exciting projects that I hope to tell you about very soon!!! In case you were wondering (you probably weren't) I MISSED you guys!!!! Without Further ADO...LET's GET IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

President Obama Administration NO LONGER DOWN w. FOX News: HEAARD!!!!
-Well, they didn't say that exactly...but they SHOULD HAVE!!! LOL. Actually, the statements that have the GOP's panties in a wad, include that Fox News "is geared toward making money." The White House communications director, Anita Dunn is also on record stating that Fox News operates "almost as either the research arm or the communications arm of the Republican Party." And on last Sunday, Rahm Emanuel, President Barack Obama's Chief of Staff, stated of Fox News, "It is not a news organization so much as it has a perspective."
Um, crickets chirping... crickets chirping. These are factual statements?!?! That's like getting mad bc someone calls out MTV for being an entertainment network and no longer a music video channel... THEY'RE NOT?! They barely play a video anymore?! And the same holds true for Fox News, whose content is filled to the brim of political opinion that is AGAINST the progressive Obama Administration.They BARELY air any objective or factual news stories. In fact, they pride themselves on the hateful content and slanted stories aired, sock pile the money and redeposit it into the GOP party...but as this is America and we all are entitled to free speech, people can choose to tune into commentary passed off as news, or switch to an objective news program that is not biased or backed by hidden ($$$) agendas. Whew. Chile!!

Kandi Has A New Clothing Store... Try It Out, Try It Out, Try It Out, YEaaaaah!!!
-My homegirl turned me on to this story, my favorite RHODuluth and yours, Kandi Buress has opened a clothing store in Smyrna, GA.! TAGS, is a dream birthed by established boutique-r Peaches Chin and Buress herself. The two were friends first, and thought carefully before embarking on this joint business venture. Kandi says it's a great way to channel her energy during her recent stresses, but please don't send any fan mail to her store! LOL. Now, I'm a fan of her style, the more wearable of the Duluthians...so I'll def. stop in and take a peek. I'll let you know what I find...(Click the link to view the AJC's photos of her below $70.00 dresses).

Princess RIRI is BACK & looking more like Grace Jones than GAGA...
-Today Def Jam released Rihanna's newest single, the first release from her upcoming new album and the first solo debut since her public beating by now ex boonopolis CBreezy. The song's called, "Russian Roulette", and the video will debut later this month. I must say... I'm feelin' it. Then again, I'm feelin' most things that RiRi does lately, she's that FIYA to me. Her production team is unparalleled right now, and her stylists have her fashion light years ahead of everyone else. EXCELLENT Packaging!! Let me know what you think of her new single... click the link to listen @ the site!

GAME IS COMING!!!! THE GAME IS COMING!!!!!

-Media Fake Out is reporting, and my Twitter is buzzin' like an 80's pager, that the entire cast of the GAME is in ATL negotiating appearing on the new season of the GAME as picked up by BET!!! They're also filiming a taping of the (GAWD-AWFUL) Mo'Nique show. Well, I'll focus on the positive: THE GAME IS COMING!!!!!! I'm soooo excited, as this is by far my FAV show on TV second to SATC!!!?!?! I'm praying they iron out these fickle negotiations and that BET doesn't drop the ball... AGAIN!!!!

Personal Pills:

It's HOMECOMING TIME!!!!!! Oct.19-24, 2009

-It's one of my favorite times of the year!!!! Last night kicked off the Spoken Word extraveganza, and this year featured my BFF GA ME!!!!!! She shut it DOWN, and a crowd in excess of 600 witnessed the raw talent, inspiration and electricity that is GA's Spoken Word!!!!! I'm getting tooo excited about the impending parties and seeing all my familia (Yes, I consider BISON extended family, much like the Sorors)!!! I'm having a bit of travel anxiety as some pieces still aren't complete, but NOTHING can stop me from being crunk!!! LOL! AND I just got word of the official Tailgating event!!!!! YEAA!!! See you in the Towers/ Banneker Parking Lot (Hope I didn't spill my age)...

I was in NEW YORRK last week!!! (Cue AKeys...)

- Yes, children, I stay traveling (smile) I stayed in Times Square on Business, and many-a-nights I spent hanging w. one of my FAVS from HU; I got a peek at her uber-fabulous life in the NYC!! She was MORE than hospitable!!! I met a certain "Top Model" my first night who was luvly as well, but she had a joke about my request for that good ol' Gucci Mayne (the DJ @ 1 club was spinnin' the electro-pop all nite-ew). Top Model had the nerve to say, "You Dropped Your Gold Tooth!!" Ooooh trick. Indeed. (side eye) but I love all... and this link, the Gucci & DJ Drama streets mix of the The Movie 3_D: Buuuuuurprint (listen @ ur own risk), Is for You!!!! Smooooches!!!!!!

Well kids, I have to head to pick up my tuxedo jacket... yes...I'm serious this wknd. Talk to you soon!! Stay blessed!

Peace,

Dawnavette

Chicago as 2016 Olympic Choice: Unsettling To Say The Least

2009-09-29T14:41:00.000-07:00

Happy Tuesday Kids!!!! Yesterday when I got home and settled in for some evening television and wind-down, one of the stories that caught my attention on the news was President Obama announcing he will appear in Denmark this Friday to plea that Chicago receive the Olympic bid for the 2016 Summer Games. The Olympic committee has narrowed down their selections to Madrid, Spain, Tokyo Japan, Rio De Janerio, Brazil and Chicago, Illinois. Chicago and Rio are the two favorite front-runners as there have never been an Olympic Games within South America, and the Leader of the Free World making a special appearance for Chicago carries serious weight.
An Olympic Bid for a City Desperate To Save Their YouthThis announcement comes on the eve of the video footage in the media: Honors student Derrion Albert was taped while beaten to his death by other Chicago youth.
Graphic Story and Video: WARNING-Explicit
In the midst of all of the hullabaloo, I began to think of my travels and experiences with Chicago, and one very recent trip left a memory that will forever be etched in my mind and soul.
Some of my closest friends, all but one met at Howard University, live and work in Chicago. I've often been told stories of the excessive violence within the city, but relegated to the West and South sides-the Urban communities. Not surprisingly, these areas in Chicago also have issues within the school system concerning poor education, high unemployment rates, lack of alternate activities for the youth and declining economic climates. Similar scenarios are repeated in urban cities across America, but Chicago's increasing crime rate and my friends' deeply personal affiliation always left me concerned. During the Fourth of July weekend 2009, (the infamous Taste of Chicago) I witnessed the most horrific act of violence I've ever seen. On the Friday evening of my trip, whilst riding down a heavy-traffic and populated street on the West side of Chicago with my homegirl, we neared a McDonald's and from afar thought we saw a parked vehicle bouncing around to the left. As we drove closer, we had to slow down (we were nearing a traffic light) and realized there were young people jumping on top of the vehicle and surrounding the car was literally a mini-mob (about 20 kids). The youth were loudly chanting, had objects in their hands, and all attention was placed on one individual, it appeared to be a male. The group literally threw him from the top of the vehicle slamming his body to the concrete, then proceeded to stomp and kick him like a ball. When he tried to rise, they grabbed a two-by-four, and smashed his head back towards the ground. This happened twice. They then proceeded to kick and continue stomp the now lifeless-body till he rolled toward another vehicle, which was occupied by the owner. Once the mob-with the intensity of wild animals, hit her truck, she opened her car door and screams, "Get that SHYT OFF OF MY CAR!!!!!!" Pause. There was no immediate cry to stop, threats of police, or screams of sheer terror (all of which we were doing with mouths agape within my friend's vehicle), but, get that shyt off of my car. It hurts my heart to even reflect. The mob obeyed nonetheless, and picked his lifeless body off the ground, and I swear, they carried him off into the night because we never saw what happened to the body. NEVER was it reported on the news. NO one recorded this sighting on their camera phone, and no one called the police. No one.
As a frequent world traveler, I have never seen anything comparable in my life. If it were a scene from a movie, it still wouldn't have sat well, purely based on the disadvantage of one person against a mob. This scene was reality, however, and from what I'm told happens far too often in Chicago. This sentiment is confirmed based on the woman's insensitive and selfish reaction to such violence in broad view. That young man will forever remain nameless, but I pray often that he found peace, as I'm not sure if he survived...my guess is highly unlikely. I realize that hosting an Olympic Games in Chicago would bring pride and economic wealth to many within the city, but if a single child has experiences similar to the one I described, why hasn't the city shut down in attempt to correct the festering problem?? These instances affect many children, a rising total of at least 30 innocent youth have been fatal victims of Chicago violence this year alone. So I question, in a city with one of the highest death tolls in the Nation, should we really be scrambling to host the Olympics??? Shouldn't we, yes we as a Nation, place the focus on seeking solutions for this crime-filled environment (amongst others) now in the spotlight, in an effort to save the youth-the FUTURE of Chicago?? Where are the Nation's priorities?? For if even one person is subjected... I feel...just as I witnessed this summer, that we ALL are affected. Wake up people...

Peace,

Dawnavette

Housewives wrap-up, Classic publicity stunts, & the CLEAVELAND SHOW!!!!

2009-09-28T09:25:00.000-07:00

Happy Monday Kids!! It's a beautiful day in the ATown, and I hope you had a great weekend!! I did, as there were PLENTY of activities to fall into! Time for the day's dosage, so LET's GET IIIIIIIIITTTTTT!

ATLANTA CLASSIC!!!!!!

-This year Atlanta welcomed over an estimated 80,000 people into the city for party festivities, a Greek step show, and of course the football game!!! Trey Songz opened the afternoon with a rousing concert, he had his legions of screaming women and was more than willing to take photos with fans (AWW!) Chris Rock and Nia Long were the celebrities that tossed the coin at the beginning of the game (promoting their new documentary GOOD HAIR-out in theaters in OCT.) FAMU beat Tennessee State University 31-12 in a packed GA Dome. Now, usually I don't do this...as my loyalty lies with a different University...but GO RATTLERS! I support all HBCU causes and have seen the Marching 100 several times. If you haven't... you haven't seen the best in Black College Bands. They are the definition of excellence, hands down.

MORE Housewives Drama...

-So last week's RHODuluth, I mean RHOAtlanta episode was rather juuuicy!!! So enjoyed it!!! Kim, Kim, KIM!!! She had me sooo tickled last week! The episode featured her in a "dilemma" of weather or not to "take back" BIG POPPA, as she really wants a commitment from him, you know, a RING. Mamwhwhahaha!!! She waxed poetically about how much they love each other, but she needs to know that he can be committed to her and only her. Um, sweetie... HE's MARRIED?!!?! He BROKE his current VOWS with YOU?!?! Is she delirious??? Great to watch. Kandi proved that she is by far the most talented of all Housewives when she SLAUGHTERED her abuse monologue during the "Pocketbook Monolouges" performance. She outshone Lisa "What, I'm not the BEST @ EVERYTHING???" Heartwell, who's lack of acting chops left me b-o-r-e-d. Sheree finally executed her lightly-attended, excessively narcissistic and irritatingly dramatic INDEPENDENCE Party at Door 44. WOW. The party's lowlights included a stripper pole (yawn) and the unveiling of a wall-mural done of Sheree, commissioned and approved by Sheree. WTJoeJackson HELL?!?!?! NeNe, in the midst of this foolishness, had the nerve to get "upset" that Kim decided to record her infamous "Tardy For The Party" without her. She THEN proceeded to cause a messy, juvenile scene and attack both Kim and Kandi. Correction. She TRIED to attack Kandi, but alas, Kandi's a bit too classy and TOO ATown to fall for that crap, so she told NeNe to "BRING IT BACK DOWN" and like a lady walked away from the screeching and often-embarrassing NeNe. WHAT a show! I thoroughly enjoyed!!! In real-time reality news, NeNe's husband Greg is now reported to owe the state of GA over $12,000.00 in back taxes and Kandi just lost her Uncle, so please pray for both cast members. Cant' wait till Thurs.

AKeys & Mashonda Are Getting MESSY Using This Internet?!
- SO, if you haven't heard by now, Alica Keys is the offical girlfriend of famed producer and art collector Swizz Beatz. They've been dating for about 2 years now... but Swizz is STILL legally married (divorce papers have yet to be finalized) to R&B (wanabee) singer Mashonda!!! SCANDAL!!! SO, AKeys and Swizz have been photographed at numerous social functions lately causing eyebrows to raise in consideration of Mashonda's feelings as she has remained rather tight-lipped throughout this entire ordeal. WEll, looks like both ladies have plenty to say, but not face-to-face or woman-to-woman, they're taking it to the NET. BOOOO. Allegedly it began when AKeys took to her Twitter page making remarks about "smart" love, and clearly implying her relationship w. Swizz (though she didn't use his name). Mashonda responded with a rather lengthy note directed @ AKeys, yet published ALL over the net?! She's basically calling AKeys out on her home wrecker ways and asking her to respect the young child involved. WOW. THIS is how we handle it now ladies?? I'm not throwing stones, but last I checked, till the ink dries on the divorce papers, the couple is still united in the eyes of God and, uh, the LAW. Which would make Keys real WRONG, no matter how baaaad she is, better suited for Swizz, or how many banging songs she can play on the piano. I'm just sayin... thoughts??

**Small Doses**

Revamping the School System; Obama Style!!!
-President Obama is considering extending school hours as well as the duration of the school year to include summer break to better prepare American students for the advanced global environment. The suggestion sparked controversy, but President Obama insists that the topic will be visited in an attempt to "level the playing field" among other students around the world who are schooled on average 30-25% longer than children in the U.S. I'm all for this latest initiative as I'm a HUGE proponent for education. Your thoughts??
THEY's MARRIED NOW...(An Opportunist & A LAKER No Less?!)
-Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom tied the knot yesterday afternoon in Los Angeles. Considering how tragic I feel this story is, feel free to hit the link to see photos of the wedding party. I think it's like a car crash littered with Lakers players... WHERE they find Kobe and Vanessa?? Oh. E! footed the entire (rumored $1million) bill, and will have "complete" coverage tonight at 7.Surprise, surprise. (SMDH).
OFFICIALLY HIMSCARICAL: The CLEAVELAND SHOW!!!!!!!
-Hands down, one of my new fav. shows for the fall!!!! Everyone's favorite Black friend, Cleaveland, get's his own show Sun. nights on FOX!! It's all about Cleaveland starting over in a new state (VA) with a new family ( a blend of his kids, new wife "Donna" and her 2 bad azzes "Rallo" and "Ralisha") "I know y'all ain't gone leave without makin' these BEDS..." -The young Rallo makes Stewie look tame shawty. I HEART this show, as it's sassy, fresh and many of the voices are recognizable (heyyyy Sannaa Lathan!!) The pilot episode debuted last night, and you MUST watch. Period!!!

Well Kids, I'm going to try and do some work, prep for the new episode of Gossip Girl, and try not to Tweet too much. Have a great afternoon, and write to you soon!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

Humpday Randomness, Rapist Of The Ear, and Do People READ Anymore?

2009-09-23T06:33:00.000-07:00

Happy Wednesday kids!!!!!! Everyone in the city is trying to recover from the storm...dragging themselves back into work and picking up the pieces of life. Prayers and thoughts go out to all the families that lost in the midst of the ATown Flood 2009. It was very serious... but in all seriousness we should find laughter. A friend sent this posting that had me cracking up (Will this joke EVER get less funny??)

OKAY. Moving along... I didn't post yesterday's foolishness, so this may be a bit lengthy. LET'S GET IIIIIITTTTT!!!!!

This Season: Couch Time With Oprah Is GREAT AGAIN!!
-Today, Oprah is conducting an extremely in-depth interview of child star Mackensie Phillips. Phillips allegedly details child abuse and sexual exploits with several known Hollywood men. Phillips also will discuss her drug use, and arrests, the classic Hollywood rights-of-passage. Scandalous, but great television nonetheless! This is the Ol'Skool Oprah show I love...

LIL' WAYNE May Have Yet Another Baby Mama in 2009:
-Birth control anyone? Reports continue to surface about the latest baby-in-waiting. That's right, Lil' Wayne may have fathered another child with "Sarah", who is allegedly 7 months pregnant. Now, I can't imagine really sexxing "every girl in the world" but it would seem THIS is Wayne's philosophy...and without protection no less. Anyone interested in this story?

DWTS Sesaon 9 May Watch:
-So I tend to only watch one major star per season, this year the producers are introducing over 16 stars total!! Skipping the fluff~ R&B pop tart Mya (yea) is dancing as well as Macy Grey!!!! Last night's debut of the women's competition was himscarical to watch!!!! Mya scored highest of all the ladies (no shocker) but it was Macy's seemingly-high-while-waltz-ing performance that had me ROTFL!!!! The judges tried their hardest to compliment, but it was an overall train wreck. Macy had the lowest.score. of. the. night. DEF going to watch the eliminations tonight. Any "stars" you're particularly interested in watching?

A CHOCOLATE PRINCESS: SO EXCITED!!!
-Disney is gearing promotions of the release of their FIRST, FULLY-ANIMATED, FULL-LENGTH Princess film starring a BLACK Princess!!!!!!!! The Princess and the Frog, will arrive in theaters on December 11. I am too excited, you would think I was 5 again!! Great thing I have the smartest niece on the planet, as she'll be my date for the premier this holiday season. I'm sure she'll want some paraphernalia too... so I must shop for items... you know...for my niece... (Don't judge me).

PLIES' SEXUAL EXPLOITATIONS ARE LIMITLESS.
- I am not a Plies fan. Personally, he insights nausea as many of his lyrics are too sexually perverted for my taste. I think of him as a "rapist of the ear" as many of my fav. rappers tend to 'finesse the panties', or their female listeners; Plies screams, tears, and TAKES the cookie?! (SHUDDER). Maybe this is a sign-o-tha-times, but I was completely shocked and appalled the very first time I heard Plies' latest single, "Becky". In short, the song is an homage to the joy of receiving fellatio, otherwise dubbed as , "Becky" (as Caucasian women are stereotyped to be more skilled and willing in that sexual department). Even more shocked to know that the song is extremely popular, and gets MAD radio airplay. SO, ya girl was shocked and on tha FLOOR to know that Plies... has now released a video. As if we need even MORE visual imaging for such a lewd and crud anthem. WHO are the ladies that woke up in the morning, looked at themselves in the mirror, and thought, "YES. I'm going to be in the "BECKY" video shoot today!!! SCORE!!"
This is yet another example as to why I feel some of these cornball rappers (yes, I said it. To continuously make anthems that promote trashy behavior and lack social responsibility to your target audience makes you CORN-Y.) have no place in hip-hop. They should be employed by hate groups in America as the music is only geared toward Urban radio to gain the buzz and promote the lewd behavior (which only catches on due to a deep history of lacking education and economic opportunities) and then cross-promoted to *pop* stations so the "buying" audience can help rappers purchase more gaudy jewelry and teeth they don't need and incorporate debt they rarely repay.... WHOA. I DIGRESS. ANOTHER BLOG TOPIC. Um, in short, the video makes me cringe. That's all.

**Small Doses**
-New reports (Thanks MediaFAKEOut) that much-hyped Khloe and Lamar nuptials may in fact be a cover for Kourtney (the lesser known-now preggers sister) and her Baby Daddy (too irrelevant to print). WOW. Guess we'll see on Sunday WHO is really tying the not, or will get the best camera shot.
-A Middle school in Austin, TX welcomes gay students- I found this article interesting as children are announcing their alternate lifestyle choices at an increasingly younger age and more and more of society is becoming supportive. (Taken from the NYTimes) Thoughts?
-The debate for taxing sugary drinks is growing louder- I'm not opposed as I feel Americans have the WORST eating habits and may need extra incentive to promote better habits. Those who are addicted to Mountain Dew however, want me to shutup. Thoughts??

Post a comment kids!! And I'm wishing to change the appearance of the site to make it more allllluring, so be on the lookout. (Smile) with that... I'm out for a bit. Have a great afternoon!!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

EMMY Fashion Top 5, Khloe gets a ring!?!?

2009-09-17T06:40:00.000-07:00

Happy MONDAY Luvs!!!!!!!!!!! Well, it's very dreary, and rainy (still) in the A, but we've made it to Monday nonetheless! This has been an interesting week of personal stresses, but as one of my dearest friends told me, "But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead" Philippians Chapt. 13. AMEN to that! So, moving forward, I pledge to never weekday lapse and I have your daily dosage!!! LET'S GET IIIIIIIIIIITTTTTTT!!!!!!

*EMMY FASHION!!!!!!! EMMY FASHION!!!!!!!!!!
-Did anyone catch the Prime Time Emmy Awards last night?? There were a few highlights,Niel Patrick Harris mainly. NONE of the nominated shows had a diverse cast... where has all the COLOR gone in television?? Sadness. So I was surely not watching for the award presentations... I DID catch the fashion highlights!!!!! My pics for the 5 best dressed ladies IN RANKING ORDER:
5. Kyra Sedgwick in L'Wren Scott- this choice was such a safe shocker! She looked incredible!
4. Drew Barrymore in Monique Lhuillier- Classic Drew. No surprises, yet appropriately chic.
3. Leighton Meester in Bottega Veneta- this dress SCREAMED couture and elegance. More points for the sick gold cuffs!!!! (Check the winter vamp lip-LUV IT)
2. Kate Walsh in J Mendel-the cut of the dress and fabric had her looking regal and otherworldly. AWESOME color!!!!!!!
1. January Jones in Versace- This modern choice looked GREAT, and shows off her slim shape. She slayed the red carpet. (Beyonce's somewhere pissed... lol)
Honorable Mentions:
Sandra Oh in Marchesa- looking like a chic lil' Emmy herself, Tina Fey in Gucci-the best I've seen her look EVER, Blake Lively in Versace-I enjoy her channeling Donatella circa 1980's w. a touch of skank, and Heidi Klum in Marchesa-her man & 8mo. baby bump were THE accessories of the night. SWOON.
FASHION FAILS:
Kim Kardashian-whoever she wore was NOT worth mentioning. The bling-y gold hoops, and tacky cut & color of the dress looked cheap, and desperate.
Mary Louise Parker-This was a steaming hotttt mess from the glitter ball stripper-shoes to the style and horrific bow?!?! She never gets it right...
Christina Applegate-WTH was she thinking in that horrid color, too much fabric and sheer paneling w. bedazzled embellishments?! ewwww.
What did you think?

RERUN: A Kardashian & An Athlete posing for the press
http://www.mediatakeout.com/2009/35643-update_it_looks_like_khloe_kardashian_and_lamar_odom_and_are_really_getting_married_latest_detail_inside.html
-Yes, it looks like another Kardashian publicity stunt... as the youngest Kardashian (WHY is she relevant again??) Has been plotting to wife a Laker. Khloe (the manliest-looking of the three)
is fanning rumors that she may be getting married this weekend to L.A. Laker star Lamar Odom. They've been dating a month. WOW. These ladies will do anything to stay in the news.

MUST COP!!!!! HOTTEST NEW iPHONE COVER!!!!!!

**Small Doses**
-Nas and Kelis have been spotted all over NY together... SO GLAD they're working it out... (Cheaper to keep her)
-NENE LEAKS was LIVE Sun afternoon hosting with Ryan Seacrest and Guilianna Ransic. WOOOW. And she never had to work as a journalist or tv personality to secure that role. I swear... that's the ticket...
-I'm encouraging EVERYONE to read "PUSH" by Sapphire, the novel that the feature film (winning RAVE reviews and creating a massive buzz) "Precious" is based on! The film stars Mariah Carey amongst others and is produced by the royal Oprah and Tyler Perry!!! My official selection for the month of September, so read and we shall discuss.
-Gossip Girl is ALL NEW tonight: sooo excited that Blair is headed to NYU!!

Well kids, I'm going to chillax in the midst of round 2 of the downpour. I also had WAY too much fun yesterday with a certain FAV Sun. brunch crew. Just know that bottomless mimosa's and Saki Bombs are NEVER a wise decision... on a Sunday. SMDH. Love you guys... Stay safe, dry, and blessed!!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

RIP Swayze, Let Up On 'Ye, ROC loyalty and WHITNEY!!!!

2009-09-15T06:14:00.001-07:00

Happy Tuesday kids!!!! What a blessed yet dreary day it is!! Too many things continue to happen in the media and popular culture, I need to step up my blog game to bring it you faster. Thanks to everyone who continues to read and visit, and please encourage others as well as post your comments!!! Know you're ready for your dosage... so LET'S GET IIIIIIIIIITTTTTTTTT!!!!!!

RIP Patrick Swayze... (moment of silence/ lighters up)
http://www.contactmusic.com/news.nsf/story/patrick-swayze-loses-cancer-fight_1116024
- Actor Patrick Swayze, lost his public battle with pancreatic cancer at the age of 57. Patrick was most known for his iconic role as dance instructor Johnny Castle in 1987's Dirty Dancing. One of my favorite movie lines is, "NOBODY puts Baby in a corner!", Man I love that movie. Patrick Swayze also received several Golden Globe nominations for his work in the movies Ghost and To Wong Foo,Thank You Julie Newmar. His resume is impressive and Patrick solidified himself early on as an A-list actor that took great pride in his craft. Prayers go out to his family and friends during this trying time. Everyone should take more time to value and cherish their own lives, as tomorrow is never promised.
BEYONCE: WHERE'S THE (ROC) LOVE??
http://www.mediatakeout.com/2009/35498-mtv_drama_beyonce_and_jay_z_have_a_blow_up_fight_over_kanyes_outburst__jay_reportedly_leaves_beyonce__parties_up_the_night_with_rihanna.html
-So, not sure of how accurate this rumor is, but it's moving quicker than Lil' Mama!! Allegedly Jigga's BLOWN that Beyaki turned over the night to Taylor Swift, and viewed her act as disloyal against his "lil' bro"/ Roc family Kanye West. MTO report alleges that Jay left the show without Beyonce (surprise, they rarely leave and enter an entertainment event together), called his Princess RiRi and the two are photographed all over the net together. The story continues that Puppet Master Papa Knowles told Beyaki to relinquish her spotlight time (GREAT PR move), but Jigga and Kanye thought she should have remained loyal and stayed out of it. HMMM. I'm actually tempted to believe this one, for I was always a skeptic about their relationship... wondering if they're really "not speaking" though. I'll be following this rumor... your thoughts?
WHITNEY + OPRAH = 1 GREAT INTERVIEW/ SEASON OPENER!!!!!!!
http://www.cnn.com/2009/SHOWBIZ/09/10/whitney.houston.oprah/index.html?eref=igoogle_cnn
-Oprah's much anticipated season opener began yesterday with the airing of a 2-pt interview with THE VOICE herself, Whitney Houston (SCREAM of DELIGHT!!) This is the first major interview Whitney has given since her fateful train wreck of an interview with Diane Sawyer in 1998 ("Crack Is WACK"). Whitney looked flawless in an olive sheath dress, chic hairstyle and leopard pumps. In the first part of this (awesome) interview, Whitney spills to Oprah that her God-given light was dimmed during the better portions of her marriage to Bobby Brown. Whitney also discusses in detail instances of emotional, physical abuse, and (my fav. portion) her drug use. WHY did Whitney break down how she would roll her marijuana with cocaine, and stay high for days???!!!! Whitney tells Oprah, "Follow me now..." and gestures with her hands the rolling process. HA! It was sooo revealing and REAL. LOVED this interview, for it was like two sista girls having a heart-to heart after all these years. The second part of the interview airs today and will feature Whitney taking the stage to bring down the house. The VOICE is back!!!
Twitter Needs A Presidential Filter
http://www.politico.com/click/stories/0909/did_obama_call_kanye_a_jackass.html
-An unofficial remark made by President Obama was "Tweeted" on Twitter by reporter Terry Moran, when President Obama was overheard calling Kanye a "jackass". The President was off the record during down time of an interview, but Quickdraw Moran , immediately
"tweeted" and the press caught wind about a minute later. What do you feel about Twitter and the impact it can have on the culture do to real-time "updates" , leaving no time for fact-checking, accuracy, speaker's intent or circumstance?? I'm slowly growing weary of the bandwagon that is Twitter (though I've recently joined) for I feel Big Brother is always watching and it's giving us ALL a reason to be more nosey.
It Was A MOONMAN, NOT THE NOBEL PEACE PRIZE...
http://www.freep.com/article/20090915/BLOG36/90915018/-1/WEATHER0501/Video--Kanye-West-apologizes-on--Jay-Leno-
-On a similar note, sure Kanye was wrong, and everyone has their opinion, but I'm officially over bashing Kanye West in the public. I watched his brief interview on Jay Leno last night, and I for one was moved. Kanye appeared visibly saddened, embarrassed, and genuinely apologetic for the ripple of hurt he caused T.Swift (who now is looking like Snow White outta some Disney movie and Ye like the evil witch). Leno asked West "What would your mother say?" and West teared up (none fell, he manned up, but it was sooo sad). Kanye mentioned that he's a hurt individual that never had time to mourn, this was Ye's third apology and he expressed interest in apologizing to Taylor in person. This situation is now over to me. It was a VMA Moonman everyone. CALM the hellz down. Taylor's career clearly got another 5-year boost due to all this publicity and Kanye now recognizes he needs some help, and "time" (his words) to get his life together.
If anyone should be getting all of this attention/negative press based on their outburst, it should be Senator Joe Wilson (R-SC) Ooooh, I haven't forgotten the blatant disrespect he gave our President in front of millions. Where is his lynch mob in the media?!?! SMH. I swear. Americans and our hierarchy of importance... a shame. LOL.
**Small Doses**
-Lauren London claims that there are NO official pictures nor is that the "official" name of her son. The media was buggin' yesterday and rushing to get a story. HEARD! (L.London via Twitter) She said she'll distribute all that info in the next 2 wks, but until then everyone's healthy and she's blissfully happy! (At least till Nivea gives birth... LOL) jk
-Serena Williams was on Good Morning America issuing yet another apology for Saturday night outburst. (SURPRISE, SURPRISE)
- Nas and Kelis may be reconciling.... AIIIIIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well, I'm gone for a bit luvs, but I'll be back with another post very soon. Have a great day, love yourselves and each other!!

Peace,

Dawnavette

It's That Time Again: VMA's 2009 Wrap Up

2009-09-13T16:41:00.000-07:00

Hey Kids!!!! Happy Monday again!! It's official: if you missed this year's VMA's, you missed the biggest spectacle of the summer/fall. Let's take it from the top... cause you KNOW it don't stop... the dramz that is... of the MTV VMA's. It's a looong wrap up!!! :)

I. RED CARPET FOOLISHNESS
-So, during the red carpet, there was an abundance of British hosts, apparently MTV/Viacom is no longer making secret that the U.K has ownership. The hosts and Sway (SMH) stumbled and shuffled around for an hour trying to keep a tab on the "stars" arrivals until the show started. The producers choose to focus on the various and ridiculous modes of transportation used, from Fire trucks to Double Decker Busses. Did anyone care?? ANYONE?! We were thisclose to bored to death. There was a small glimmer of hillarity when Shakira (hawt) was first on the red carpet rocking the Cavalli minidress w. over-the-knee boots... and 10 min. later Pink scuttles off her Fire Truck (SMH) to be interviewed... IN THE SAME DRESS!!!!!! I would've fired my stylist as SOON as that interview ended!!!! MTV added this new segment where they-get this- monitor "tweets" on "Twitter" GETTHEFUCCOUTTAHERE?!?! SERIOUSLY?! I mean SERIOUSLY. That annoying broad with her constant updates was one of the worst. segments. EVER. SOo unnecessary and note to MTV- LEAVE people on Twitter alone. No need to monitor ANYTHING. THAT's the point, Twitter monitors itself. AND the focus should have been on live performances and ARTISTS!?! Take a cue from BET... sheeeesh!!!!

II. THE MORBID @$$ SHOW
-So the world waited on baited breath to see how MTV would pay tribute to the KING- MICHAEL JACKSON. It was almost worth it... almost. The show opened with her Majesty, MADONNA, single spotlight and mic as she spoke ever-so-eloquently about the KING and his legacy... it was excellent. Then, the tribute continued with a medley of Mike's most infamous videos, Thriller, BAD, and Smooth Criminal, done by his "THIS IS IT" Dancers. FLAWLESS. JUST FLAWLESS. UNtil... the ending smooth Criminal lean; one of the dancer's magnetic pull didn't work so he just bowed instead of the sick @$$, infamous lean. TRAGIC. Surely his career is ruined. The dancers made way for the otherworldly performance of Michael and Janet- performing SCREAM!!!!!!!!!! (A moment to SWOOON) Janet looked sooo gorgeous and professional when performing with her brother on a juxtaposed screen- although a tad rusty during the dance break (Don't ackt like y'all didn't see Queen Janet flub a bit). The set ended w. a bevy of top flight dancers, including Chris Judd, Laurie Ann (Boom Boom Kat) Wilson, and 2 of Janet's old choreographers (Famous faces from her tour). It brought tears to the eye, and Janet proved she still has what it takes to carry on Michale's legacy. GREAT JOB!!!!!!!!
http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1621430/20090914/jackson_janet.jhtml
This classic moment, however, was upstaged once Taylor Swift accepted the award for Best Female Video. Lil' 19-year old Taylor, in her over-sequined- goddess gown and stilettos, serenely takes the mike and begins to thank everyone for supporting lil' ol' she when.... VILLAIN OF THE NIGHT- KANYE says, "excuse me"- and Taylor passes him the mic. PAUSE. (For most know what happens next) WTF did Taylor give it to KANYE?!?! DURING HER MOMENT?!?! If I can rewind, Ye was photographed allllllll nite with a 5th of Hennesy (still in its original bottle, carried inside the show) and his too-hot-for-the-lens beard, Amber Rose. (Amber SLAYED em last night- only she could pull of a catsuit/80's theme that tight and confident). In Taylor's category for the win, she was up against Brittney Spears, Lady GAGA and Beyonce, respectively. Beyonce, who has awwwwwready won every award known to man and beast, and has the star power of a phoenix. Beyonce, who is SYNONYMOUS with MTV-hell music in general. So when Kanye debos the Mike, and screams, "BEYONCE HAD THE BEST VIDEO OF ALL TIME!!! I'M SAYIN!!!!" All. hell. broke. loose. Not only did this passionate man violate all personal space/ stage policies of the event, he completely ruined Taylor's moment with his inappropriate timing and rude remark. Everyone began to immediately boo, and lil Taylor stunned... exits stage left. Mouths were agape for at least 5 min.
http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1621404/20090913/west_kanye.jhtml
In Ye's defense, he was passionate about the star power and justifiable truth that his friend had the better video of the year. No one should argue that truth. (Yea, I said it) Kanye spoke the truth-Taylor's aiiight and all, but she's an amateur compared to the iconic status of "Single Ladies" and the performer that is Beyonce. (I saw her professional performance of the nominated song afterward. Underwhelmed indeed). But, it's not what you say sometimes, it's WHERE, WHEN and HOW you say it. A lesson Kanye should have learned 3 outbursts ago?!?! WHERE is his medication Lawd?! Seriously. I think he's a touched genius that either was too medicated and then mixed w. that HennDawg (you know Pookie en 'nem + 5th of Hennesy= guaranteed Frankie and Neffie outburst) or at this point should seek medical attention for his disorder ASAP. No bullox.

The tone of the show was obviously negatively tainted after that, so you can imagine my astonishment when they brought Leighton Miester and some Adult Swim character out to pray to the devil. WTJOEJACKSONHELL?!?! If that sick foolish act wasn't enough, Lady Gaga performed. While she has the vocal skill like no other, her set was a bit tooo morbid and disturbing for my taste, especially on the eve of all that happened?! Gaga was stabbed, bled and then hoisted up like a dead caucus at the end of her performance. (Shudder). We all wanted to pray amidst these Pagen (devil) acts on MTV. GaGa ALSO made a point of changing costumes--a whopping 3 times during the show... she. looked. a. spectacle. Gotta respect anyone that thanks, "God, and the GAYS" though...

~The rest of the show was rather un-notable with the exception of the following:
*P!nk (yea) did an impressive rendition of "Sober" while swinging gracefully from a trapeeze.
*T.I. did win for best rap video, and Diddy did an excellent job on accepting on Tip's behalf (ATL STAND UP!!!!!!).
*Every time Kanye's name was mentioned, the audience booed (he was nominated several times)
*Serena Williams (ERR? Shouldn't she be somewhere in shame??) presented an award amongst boos and tried to "joke" about "Staying in the lines"- no sale.
*Beyonce did the ALL-TIME Mega-Mix of "Single Ladies" and reminded the WORLD why she will remain on top. The Queen. She shut it DOOOOOOWN. (One of the few reasons I continued to watch)
*Jay-Z arrived to close the show amidst an entourage of Maybachs, Escallades, and security. MTV cameras followed his caravan through the city, did the Dave Chapell-skit-following Jay into the arena/stage (Ya'll remember that skit!!!!) and then proceeded to ROCK THE MIKE w. A. KEYS performing "Empire State of Mind". MY new fav. Song. I have a GIRL crush on A. Keys, who STUNNED in the sequined legging, 6-inch stacked stiletto, and metal gray tunic. SHE looked flawwwwless and sang her @$$$$$$ off!!!! They arguably had one of the best performances of the night. Then, just when you thought it could get NO WORSE....
FRANKIE HOPS ON THE STAGE?!?!?! I'm Sorry. Lil' MAMA!!!!!!!!! (Swear though-ask GA ME, I screamed, "Is that FRANKIE" upon instant sighting) Lil' Mama looked as HOT @$$ mess, debo-ing the stage to dance around then do the fake-thug pose at the end of Jigga's SET?!?! WHERE the HELLS was MTV's SECURITY LAST NIGHT!!!! OMJeeeezy?! They let just ANYONE bum rush the daum stage?!?! Tragic. I think Lil' Mama and Kanye were sippin' on the same and both forgot prescription refills. Careers forever stained.
*Beyonce (who looked great in the red mini dress w. pockets) won for Best Video of the Year (The award she claims she really wanted) and used her speech to graciously allow Taylor her moment. It was sooo professional and warranted, I have a new respect for Beyonce (Yea, I said it). Taylor finally said her lil' thank-yous, but was I the only one displeased about her lack of public "thank you" to Queen B for sharing her moment??? Just sayin....

MTV did the most this year, and what should have been the ultimate tribute to MJ was almost out shined by the foolish antics throughout the show. Kanye did issue an apology via the web. Now, getting ready for BET hip-hop awards. ON TO THE NEXT ONE!!!!! LOL. Let me know what you thought of the show...
and stay reading for my fashion breakdown. You KNOW that's coming. Have a great one... and Lady GaGa is the new Marilyn Manson... seriously.

Peace,

Dawnavette

JAY Shuts Down MSG, Serena WILL Shove It Down Your THROAT!!

2009-09-13T16:19:00.001-07:00

Happy Monday!!!!!! And what a joyous one it is!! I hope your week is beginning on a positive note, as mine is. This post should have been up yesterday, but I was derailed once the VMA's began. I have a few tidbits for your Monday healthy proceedings. SO, LET'S GET IIIIIIITTTTT!!!!!!

STRAIT OUTTA COMPTON?! STRAIT FOOOLISH?!?! A JUDGE DECIDES
http://www.eurweb.com/story/eur56017.cfm
-So if you haven't heard or seen, Serena Williams, yes THAT Serena- the award piling, tennis genius Serena, was booted out of the US Open Saturday night during her match-up with Kim Clijsters. Serena was passionately playing against Clijsters, and was given a code violation for breaking her tennis racket after she lost the first set (ERR??!?!). Then all hell breaks loose, or she completely lost her cool. Serena was given a penalty match-point when a line judged deemed she stepped over the line, wildly gestures with her racket and screams, "I will shove this F@#&ing ball down your F@#$ing throat" to the line judge. WTSAMGOODY?!?! Serena, SMH. The line judge (who was obligated) immediately snitched, and Serena was immediately ejected from the US Open, fined $10,000.00 (the maximum amount), and now the fate of her remaining on the US Open tour (even playing in the doubles matches with her sister) are in jeopardy. Even if Serena was justified in her anger against the call, she in NO way was justified in threatening and kirking out to a judge?! You're from Compton, by way of a professional tennis career, not gang violence. GET. IT. TOGETHER. That wasn't even cute, and although I feel bad for her... I kinda don't. She should have used better self-control so that the win and her continued dominance of the tennis circuit would be the ultimate revenge. Now, she's and her antics are headlines for all the wrong reasons. She did have a rather tensely filled press conference, and managed a cameo at last night's VMA's (amongst boos) so I'm curious to see how she handles this scrutiny. She def. won't be playing tonight... stinks a fatty. She would've slayed.

JAY-Z DEFINATELY REDEEMED HIMSELF; LIVE @ MSG WAS OFF.THE. HOOK!!!!!!!
-So I stayed in (At GA ME's) on Friday night and watched Jay-Z's benefit concert, "BP3 Live from Madison Square Garden" on Sept. 11. All the proceeds went to the Police and Fireman's family fund to support the families that lost members during the Sept. 11 attacks. I normally criticize Jigga for lack of consciousness/ philanthropic efforts, but he has made me sing another tune. I was beyond surprised and pleased at the treat FUSE gave everyone!!! Front row seats to one of Jay's best concerts. EVER!!!!! The set was AMAZING. The Band-FLAWLESS. And Jigga... this man has soooo many hits in his catalog, I almost forgot why many call him the best?!?! He ran through the majority of all his majors, and peppered in the future hits off BP3. He had a bevy of friends come out on stage and make cameos, an out-standing show, for EVERYONE did a great job:
Santigold- although she looked a bit lost (high maybe??) she did an aiiight job on "Brooklyn, We Go HARD"
John Mayer-performed a stirring guitar tribute/medley to Jigga's hits and 2 full-length songs w. Jay. GREAT.
Rihanna-appeared looking ever the fierce lil' tart she is (HAWT) in an all-black leotard-glove-over-the-knee-boot-and gloved ensemble. She did a perfect nazaly live rendition of the "Run This Town" hook. Get it Princess RiRi!!! (Jigga tried HARD not to stare at her booty fat that dangled out from the leotard... say he DIDn't!!)
Kanye West-Ever fresh and hyped, he performed several songs including "Good Life" where Jay sang T-Pain's part. HIMSCARICAL.
Beyonce- who shut.it. DOWN. ALL HAIL and recognize the true Queen of entertainment. Fa Cereal. I swear she was singing "DIVA" to RiRi- a death warning if you will that NO one will come for her crown. Or man...HEARD.
Kid Cudi-and his tooo tight pants, (Cudi's balls were crying out in distress), made a nice rookie showing.
Pharell-DAUM he still looks beyond sexy and did a great job. Did anyone else notice his tatoo removal??
Swizz Beatz-Hype man extraordinaire (On To The Next One)
Diddy-oops. Stand Corrected. He showed Swizz how to do it. "Take That, Take That" all over the stage during "Encore" he's SOO official.
Mary J. Blidge- shut it down w. her nostalgic, gritty and soulful rendition of Can't Knock the Hustle. AND she SLAAAAYED them w. her boots: SIIIIIICK. (I must cop a similar pair STAT!!)
-Again, on a scale of 1-10 a solid 9 (they should've had A.Keys singing her own hook on "Empire State of Mind" instead of that wackness that was his background vocalist). Thanks again FUSE and Jay-Z for a great free show!!!!

**Small Doses**
http://www.eurweb.com/story/eur56029.cfm
-Lil Wayne and Lauren London (Babymama #3) gave birth to their new son on Sept. 9th- named him Lennox Samuel Ari Carter. Awwww Congrats!... (side eye) no comment as there is now new life that should be celebrated. I'll wait till Nivea's child is born to let loose.
-Gossip Girl (one of my FAVS!!!) debuts season 3 tonight at 9 on the CW
-BET and CBS reached a milestone in negotiations for legal licensing (ownership) of the GAME; PRAYING the fans get our season 4!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I. LOVE. THE. GAME!!!!
-Wells Fargo is accused of racist practices, in particular with mortgage loans. Call Blacks, "mud people". WTHELLZ!!!??!!! I KNEW Wachovia didn't respect my dollar, and now there's proof. I encourage ALL to boycott. SERIOUSLY. http://www.pww.org/article/articleview/15912/

**DEF. check out the next post: my annual VMA's 2009 wrap-up. You know... some foolywang to REPORT!!!!! Take care luvs, and have a great Monday!!!!! Smooooches!

Peace,

Dawnavette

Behind the Music

2009-09-11T11:17:00.001-07:00

TGIF KIDS!!!!!!!!!! I am ready to break out of the office today, and am scheduled to get a flyy new haircut. I'll keep you posted on the result of this transformation. Taking a moment, I would like to reflect on the many lives lost on September 11, 2001, as that day and lives lost will never be forgotten. As a sophmore in college at Howard University, the memories are very vivid and fresh from that fateful morning. Where were you?? Thank GOD I'm able to write to you loves today. Okay. Tears wiped clean. I would not dare leave you without today's dosage. LET'S GET IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And Baby Makes Three!!!
http://necolebitchie.com/2009/09/11/as-if-you-didnt-know-christina-milian-is-pregnant
-Surprise, Surprise... Christinia Milian is confirmed preggers!!!!! Of course the publicist released that she and Dream are excited to begin their family... the usual happy whomp that accompanies baby announcements. Guess we know what the quickie Vegas wedding was all about last wk...Congrats!

American Idol Keeps Getting Funnier...
http://411chatter.com/1010/ellen-degeneres-american-idol-judge/
-Ellen DeGenerous will be the new host on American Idol. SaywhatsayWORD???!!!! Yup, it is officially confirmed that Ellen will be filling in the fourth judge's seat during the new season of Idol. Although she's hillarious and dance a bit... what are her musical talent judging abilities or credentials?? I don't think I want Ellen critiquing my voice... thoughts?? Sidenote: WHAT a slap in the face to poor PAULA?!?! Getting replaced by the Lesbian Talk Queen/ Commediane. I'd fire my agent, stat!!

**Small Doses**
-Lil' Wayne's VH1 Behind The Music debuted last night on VH1. It's actually very decent, catch the reruns.
-New York is buzzing this weekend: Fashion Week continues (swoooon), and the BMI (recording industry) Awards and Afterparties are taking place. Stats of the winners and fashion hits soon to come.
-http://www.mediatakeout.com/2009/35436-congrats_keyshia_coles_sister_neffe_gave_birth_yesterday__and_we_got_the_first_pics_of_the_new_baby.html
Neffe had her (5th) baby!!! This info is curtesy of MTO, always first with these breaking stories. Is my sarcastic joy seeping through the exclamation marks?? Hope the family is healthy.
-Don't forget to watch the MTV VMA's this Sunday night at 9!!!! Sure to be a can't miss!!!! My anual commentary will be posted and I'll be Twittering throughout the show. Hope u choose to follow!

With that luvs, I'm off to tha salon!!! Enjoy your Friday, post some comments, and I'll write to you soon! Love each other and stay blessed!

Peace,

Dawnavette

"I WILL call you OUT" Just like President Obama!!

2009-09-09T12:40:00.001-07:00

Hey Kids!!! Happy Friday!! If there was any doubt, I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE my President!!!!!! As of late there has been mounting controversy and opposition for his proposal on solving the Health Care crisis and particularly his address to students of America on Tuesday. President Obama and his Administration announced weeks ago their plan to address the youth, an intimate speech intended to promote personal responsibility and advocate education in spite of obstacles. What followed after the announcement of said speech is what I would call an embarrassing moment in American history, as thousands of school districts and "concerned parents/ citizens" expressed public opposition to having the speech played during school hours. ERRR?!?! What further evidence is required to prove that Americans still have racial issues as large as they ever were, when a citizen won't allow their child to hear the President of the United States?

But wait... there's more. On Wednesday, the President gave his widely anticipated Health Care address to the nation and delivered one of the best televised speeches of any U.S. President so far. President Obama was eloquent, captivating, and diplomatic, in spite of the tense audience (joint house representatives, clearly opposed to Obama's plan). The shocker of the night came when Senator Joe Wilson (R-SC) Screamed out "YOU LIE" in the MIDST of the President's outline. (See pic of team Obama thisclose to breakin' out and slappin' that @$... LOVE Nancy's expression) Obama kept his cool (AS USUAL) called him out and continued to prove the very reasons that his administration's plan is near fail-proof. Joe Wilson embarrassed the state of South Carolina and further proved that Obama deals with disrespect on an entirely different level-- every day.
*Joe Wilson- (843) 521-2530; Twitter- CongJoeWilson. PLEASE feel free to exercise free speech and express dissatisfaction with Wednesday's behavior. His website and Facebook pages have since been taken down due to excessive traffic. :) *

During the Nation's suffrage through the previous Bush administration, we were forced to listen to lies, lies, and more lies, which led to the Pandora's box of issues our current President is working tirelessly to close. The facts that President Obama's words are monitored so closely, and the School speech, which was powerful enough to inspire even the oldest citizen to aim higher in achieving personal growth and development, was deemed "too political" and having "an alternate agenda" are ludicrous. Absolutely ludicrous. Fear grips the ignorant and causes deplorable actions, an emotional reaction becoming synonymous with many Republicans.

I'm growing disgusted with the blatant disrespect given towards our Leader of the Free World. In the previous administration, such actions would never be tolerated!!! Some of our
citizens I'm referencing, the majority are affiliated with the Republican party, dislike the President, and that he happens to be a man of mixed races, b.k.a. a BLACK man.
It frustrates me to no end to know that people are willing to utilize powerful media outlets to spew lies, hatred, propaganda, and curtail progress; do any and everything other than repeat the truth and aim to work together to solve the issues?!!

So, to all the haters, supporters, under and over-informed, I chose to post in it's entirety, the "Back to School Address" given by our President Barack Obama on Tuesday afternoon.
I also chose to post the President's address to the Nation on his health care proposal as well.
Both speeches were beyond eloquent, intelligent, insightful, filled with progressive thoughts, motivating, inspiring, and aimed to unify our Nation. I pray you take something from the re-reading of the great speeches given by Barack Obama, President of the United States.

*School Message*
http://abcnews.go.com/Politics/president-obamas-back-school-message-students/story?id=8509426

*Health Care Message*
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/09/10/us/politics/10obama.text.html

~ On an altogether FIERCE note: Michelle Obmama, we the people are NOT worthy of your fabulousness. Check how she rocked the pleated suit, and sat ever supportive of her man during his Wednesday address. LOVE HER. ~

Peace,

Dawnavette

Humpday Hillariousness, Back from VACAY!!!!!

2009-09-09T07:54:00.000-07:00

Happy Wednesday Kids!!! I have been MIA (that's missing in action, not the artist) for several days, and though I fell off for a min. I'm baaaaaack!! I hope everyone's long wknd was as great as mine, and looky-now, we're already in the middle of the wk!! Sooo much foolishness, and here's ya dosage!!! LET'S GET IT!!!!!!!!!!!!

When In Love... ALWAYS get that PRENUP?!?!
http://www.mediatakeout.com/2009/35389-dummy_producer_the_dream_fails_to_get_a_prenuptial_agreement_with_new_wife_christina_milian.html
- The American Dream (bka-DREAM) and Christina Milian are now married, and MTO is reporting did not sign a prenup. Rewind: Christina Milian- who had an F-list singing career in the early millennium, acted in several Disney movies, also dated (for 2 years) and starred in a film with Nick Cannon (yes.), has married Dream- R&B Sensation that has produced hits for errybody in the last 5 years as well as established a formidable solo career, have married on last Friday in Vegas. Dream is worth an alleged "tens of millions", and Milian is worth... well, you know how these stories go. If one needs a reference, simply BING Sir Paul McCartney... Best of luck with this headache Dream. One can only hope you two will forever remain in marital bliss, but considering the reality of both track records, and waning popularity of Auto-Tune (thanks Jigga) doubtful they'll make it to their Golden Anniversary.

Dude Looks Like a Lady? WORD?!
http://sports.yahoo.com/olympics/beijing/blog/fourth_place_medal/post/Embattled-track-star-Caster-S emenya-gets-new-coa?urn=oly,18799 9
-The South African global track star once accused of being a man, Caster Semenya, was given a makeover for the cover of YOU magazine. A friend sent this article cover, and I must say she does look a bit more feminine... hell. Did the global public really need all that? She can look as masculine as she'd like, especially in 2009, and so long as she has lady parts, she's a female. WHY are they trying to make her a beauty queen to prove she's a woman? It seems ridiculously archaic that she must pose as a glamazon, and not with her medals, in order to be the face of the female track athlete.
Thoughts?

Another Glammed Tyler Perry Movie Premiere...No, Not Madea... I Don't Think....
http://www.mediatakeout.com/2009/35380-classy_ladies_taraji _henson_mary_j_blige_terry_vaughn_plus_lots_more_attend_tyler_perrys_premiere_for_i_can_do_bad_all_by_myself.html
-Tyler Perry is gearing up for his latest movie release: I Can Do Bad All By Myself starring (Howard Graduate) Taraji P. Henson, Gladys Knight, and of course the cross-dressing powerhouse, Tyler Perry. At the movie's premiere last night, everyone looked lovely! There have been many promotions for the flick on your favorite television station, but can anyone tell me an ounce about the plot line? Anyone?? ANYONE? SERIOUSLY?! I swear I've only seen clips of the stars singing, Madea giving a catch phrase, and the movie's release date. WHAT is the plot?? WTH is the story line?? Not sure I'll be first in line at this one kids... we're in a ression. I need to KNOW what is going on b4 I drop $20. Just sayin...

**Quick Hits**:
-Janet Jackson is confirmed to perform this Sunday night at the live taping of the Video Music Awards (VMAs) on MTV!!!!! AHHHHHH!!!!!!!! SWOOOON!!! MISS JANET!!!! She's set to open the show, and is also giving an intensely personal interview in Harper's BAzAAR this month. Check the queen, and bow down. :)
http://blogs.bet.com/music/soundOff/come-get-this-fool-trey-songz/
-R Kelly and Trey Songz are having a difficuly playing nice... according to the "immature" media (Thanks for re-naming Chris Brown). Trey, who should be happy debuting at Number 5 on the charts this wk is taking shots at R. Kelly. WTH. I'm already getting bored-- can't we focus on the MUSIC?? Sowwy Trey fanz, I'll need more than "LOL SMiley FACE" to designate him the "New" prince of R&B (Raheem DeVaughn, or Dream much?? Don't get distracted cause a man takes his shirt off... lol), and he'll NEVER top Kells. RT that fact!!! LOL
-Whitney Houston's new album, I Look To You, debuted at Number One! WOW??! Take that Miley Cyrus!!!
-I haven't been able to stop listening to BP3 all day today. I know I'm not his biggest fan, but the old man did a decent job this album... enough to keep my attention throughout an entire album. That's daum near impossible from most artists lately. Also, go cop the latest from Raeqwon: he's beating Jigga for the #1 selling spot!!! Charts don't lie...
-CONGRATS to the newest lil' RICHIE: Sparrow James Midnight Madden!! Nicole Richie and boifriend Joel Madden had their second child and everyone (including proud grandpa Lionel) is doing fine.

With that luvs, I hope everyone has a great middle of week, and keep checking back for more posts. I'm overdue, so I may double up!!! LOL. Stay blessed...

Peace,

Dawnavette

AWWWW HU!!!!!

2009-09-04T10:52:00.000-07:00

Back with another dose, a FRIDAY UPDATE:
Power in the Protest
http://www.thehilltoponline.com/howard-students-and-workers-unite-to-fight-administration-1.1866746
-Follow along w. my fellow BISON as they peacefully protest for workers rights on campus at Howard University!!! Hundreds of students are gathered (at this moment) in front of the Administration Building, inclusive of faculty in an effort to bring attention to the lack of Union worker support, the abundance of students accepted this school year without adequate accommodations, and an overall frustration with the HU Frustration. (Bison Alum, don't these complaints sound a bit familiar...) Gotta love the passion, as the protest is gaining media attention and a heavy Twitter following. Good luck BISON!!! Fight the Powers that BE! :)

CORRECTIONS?!
http://blacksnob.com/snob_blog/2009/9/4/trend-with-truth-the-real-maia-campbell-story-guest-post.html
-A faithful reader (thanks) just sent information that counters the claim that Maia Campbell is addicted to drugs... it alleges that she suffers from schizophrenia. Undiagnosed much??? Someone STILL needs to get that chile some help and a hug.
-CiCi (Ciara) is now reporting that she is NOT engaged... Is this to shake the media and fans?? we'll see.

Who loves you?? (Smile)

Peace,

Dawnavette

END OF THE WEEK DOSE!!

2009-09-04T06:27:00.000-07:00

Happy Long-Weekend Friday!!!!! It's been a quick stretch, but we're in September of 2009!!?! Last call for the all-white ensembles and full linen suits. This is the wknd for the final cookout of the summer, fall shopping, and par-tayS cause there's NO WORK on MONDAY!!! sooooooooo...
LET'S GET IIIIIITT!!!

IN THE (DRUG) HOUSE??!
http://www.mediatakeout.com/2009/35273-not_again_tv_actress_maia_campbell_is_reportedly_a_hood_prostitute__videod_turning_tricks_in_compton_re-up.html
-Everyone is talking, blogging, and tweeting about In The House Actress Maia Campell's photos and video of her antics while high on crystal meth. This story is sad, but nothing new. People should pray for her, for reports of her addiction have been around for several years now. It's very sad that some people would rather exploit her celebrity for a story than get her help so she can take care of her daughter. God Bless that situation.

SO SAD!! SENSELESS VIOLENCE HITS SPELMAN STUDENT
http://www.ajc.com/news/atlanta/students-question-campus-safety-130043.html
-When will it end?? Jasmine Lynn, a young female student from Kansas City, was killed by a stray bullet that struck her chest near the campus of Clark University. The 19-year old was a Sophmore psychology major at Spelman College in Atlanta Georgia. Yes, local violence has once again plagued a young co-ed at our HBCU's. was a Sophmore Sociology major from Kansas My prayers and heart go out to her family and many friends that mourn her loss, as well as the West End community that continues to deal with senseless violence. Gun violence plagued my campus while I was a student at Howard, and I know based on the outrageous statistics (85 Americans die from gun violence daily) that many others share a similar testimony. Aside from affecting innocent college students, gun violence affects everyone in our communities. The rhetorical question of life: What are we going to do about it??!!! Spelman College and Howard University will join together for a candlelight vigil on Sept. 18th in protest to end gun violence. Let's hope their example of protest is contagious.

MORE FRIDAY FOOLYWANG:
-"Neffe" and Kim Zolciak (The ATL Housewife) are in a classless Twitter-battle. Is ANYONE surprised by this Junior High exchange? And I didn't know Neffe could spell, much less put anyone on blast via "Twitter". SMH.
-Ludacris and his Ludacris Foundation will be giving away (10) cars to those Atlians in need, based on a 300 word essay submission!!! Way to give back to the community during this economic climate!!
-Today is BEEEE-YAKI's (whomp) birthday!!!!!!!! Have a blessed 28th...
-The Best Entertainer in the WORLD is laid to rest today, and the world continues to mourn. We MISS YOU MICHAEL!!!!! RIP.

I hope youall have a wonderful wknd planned, as I do, and I'll write to you soon!!! Take care luvs, and happy (early) Labor Day!!!!

Peace,

Dawnavette